Family; you can’t live with them and you can’t live with them. But they’re everything, right? And you still love them MOST of the time.

Today I want to chat about the different (read: crazy/difficult/upsetting) family dynamics that you may be concerned about in the lead-up to your wedding.

The step parents, half siblings, divorced parents and uncle who’s not really your uncle that your Dad can’t stand.

You’ll learn about:

• Why you can (and should) let go of the idea of a perfect wedding (or a perfect family!)
• How to have conversations that set boundaries with compassion
• Some real-life experiences and solutions other engaged couples have used for complicated situations
• And, most importantly, how to release the pressure and guilt.

Because whatever your family looks like, you deserve a day filled with meaning and love, with your sanity intact.

RESOURCES

1800 RESPECT: https://www.1800respect.org.au/

White Ribbon Australia: https://whiteribbon.org.au/helplines/

Relationships Australia: https://www.relationships.org.au/

(USA) National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/

(UK) Domestic Abuse Support: https://www.gov.uk/guidance/domestic-abuse-how-to-get-help#get-help-and-support

(Canda) Family Violence Support: https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/cj-jp/fv-vf/help-aide.html

(NZ) Domestic and Family Violence Support: https://www.govt.nz/browse/law-crime-and-justice/abuse-harassment-domestic-violence/domestic-and-family-violence/

Ep102: How To Keep The Peace: Question in Private, Honour in Private

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Stop me if you’ve heard this one..

A bride-to-be excitedly plans an elaborate proposal to her bridesmaids, self-care products in ribbon-secured boxes or personalised tote bags topped off with a card that reads: “Will you be my bridesmaid?”

Within a few short months, there are at least a couple of chat groups to communicate the colour palette the dress code, important dates, and to discuss the bridesmaids’ responsibilities.

If you haven’t said stop yet, let me save you from wondering. This is where, in my mind, I would be screaming STOP.

Does anyone really care anymore?

Should we be wondering what the secret code for bridesmaids is, deciphering it, working around it, trying desperately not to upset the bride OR can we agree that the social circumstances, the world and our needs have changed and we have more demands and commitments in our own lives than ever before so is it in our best interests to continue the bride/bridesmaid dance.

What is reasonable to expect in 2025, and do you even want or can afford to be in their I DO Crew?

Today, I’m talking about the past, the present and what I believe, should be the future of bridesmaids and groomsmen.

Let’s get down to brass tacks and work out what bridal party traditions and expectations are still relevant in this day and age and how to minimise the drama.

RESOURCES

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How do you find that sweet spot between what you want for your wedding and what your family expects?

Is it even possible to create a celebration that feels true to you, without leaving anyone important out, or blowing your budget?

And how many hours drumming at your wedding reception is too much?

Today, I’m yakking it up with Ashley and Tim, a newly-married couple from Maine in the United States who wrestled with those questions and somehow managed to pull off a wedding that was intimate, meaningful, and yet super chill for everyone involved.

From navigating a guest list that doubled overnight, to negotiating with their venue, and finding creative ways to make their dream wedding weekend work for everyone—Ash and Tim have some practical advice and a few hilarious stories about their experiences and how, when you stick to your values and what’s important to you, you can find solutions when at first, it seemed like there weren’t any.

If you’re planning a wedding and feeling stuck between eloping and inviting the masses, on the fence about having a ‘first look’, or if you just want to hear how stunningly beautiful Tim and Ashley’s lakeside inn was, you’re in the right place.

Resources Mentioned:

Ashley & Tim’s Wedding Vendors

Venue, Food & Bar: Wolf Cove Inn

Photographer: Akadia Merles Photography

Videographer: Riley Bridges Media

Florist: Chelsea at Love Letter Farm Flowers

Musicians: Dave & Anna The High Spirits Duo

Live Painter: Black Lilac Studio

Baker: Whisk & Butter Co

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