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  • Can You Mediate High-Conflict Divorces – Part 1

    Can You Mediate High-Conflict Divorces – Part 1
    2026/04/17
    Today, Mardi Winder talks with Victoria Kirilloff, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst who brings both personal experience and a highly analytical lens to a high-conflict and toxic divorce process. The conversation explores how Victoria’s journey led her to create divorce analytics and develop the global settlement proposal, a powerful tool that gives individuals a complete and realistic view of their financial situation as they move through divorce.

    Victoria walks through why divorce cannot be treated as a single event. It is emotional, financial, legal, and social all at once, and when people begin to understand that complexity, they are far better positioned to make thoughtful, informed decisions. Mardi and Victoria talk about the importance of truly knowing your numbers, building a workable budget, and preparing well in advance of any negotiations or meetings with legal professionals. Victoria also shares the lessons learned from her own experience, including navigating a toxic relationship and ultimately building a business that helps others avoid the same costly mistakes.

    They discuss the critical need for financial transparency, proper documentation of assets, and the risks of misjudging asset values or making assumptions about spousal support. This is an honest conversation about what really happens when emotions and finances collide in a high-conflict relationship mediation. With the right support team, including financial specialists and strategic divorce guidance, it is possible to move through the process with greater clarity and confidence. Victoria brings both expertise and a grounded perspective that encourages you to see divorce not just as an ending, but as a turning point toward something more intentional and aligned with your future.

    Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com

    Connect with Mardi:
    Email: Mardi@poscs.com
    Website: divorcecoach4women.com

    About the Guest Victoria Kirilloff, CDFA®, NCPM®, CDS®, was at a crossroads in a decade-long, financially entangled relationship that had turned toxic. To find her way out, she leveraged her background in financial analysis, creating the first Global Settlement Proposal and divorce report. This helped her and her partner reach a peaceful separation, sparking an idea: she could help others navigate divorce with financial clarity and empowerment. Victoria went on to found Divorce Analytics, a firm dedicated to making the financial side of divorce transparent and productive. By focusing on financial facts, she transforms divorce from a destructive process into one of empowerment.

    Victoria has also released a 9-part Divorce Planning Kit, available at DivorceAnalytics.com/shop. Along with her many financial licenses, she’s a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and Nationally Certified Professional Mediator®.

    To connect with Victoria:
    Website: https://www.divorceanalytics.com
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/divorce-analytics IG: https://www.instagram.com/divorceanalytics/
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    15 分
  • The Reality Of Grief In Divorce with Guest, Karen Omand

    The Reality Of Grief In Divorce with Guest, Karen Omand
    2026/04/16
    On this episode, Mardi Winder talks with Karen Omand, a divorce and grief specialist who understands the deep emotional loss that can accompany the end of a marriage. Drawing from her own experiences with grief and a difficult relationship, Karen shares why divorce grief is often misunderstood and how it can affect everything from emotional health to identity and daily life.

    Together they discuss the many ways people experience grief during divorce and why it’s important not to suppress those feelings. Karen offers practical tools such as journaling, self-care, and seeking support, and introduces her helpful workbook “Just Separated,” designed to guide individuals through the legal, financial, and emotional aspects of divorce. The conversation offers reassurance that healing is possible and that, with time and support, life can become lighter and hopeful again.

    Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com

    Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com

    More about Karen: Karen Omand is a divorce and grief specialist with degrees in Sociology and Thanatology—the study of grief and loss. She works with people going through divorce who feel overwhelmed, conflicted, or stuck in grief, helping them find clarity, confidence, and calm so they can make decisions that truly serve them. As co-founder of The Divorce Workshop, certified grief counselor, and co-author of The Just Separated Workbook, Karen blends practical strategies with emotional insight. Her workshops, quizzes, and Just Separated Podcast offer real-world tools to manage loss, rebuild identity, and create a plan for life after divorce. Karen’s approach bridges the emotional and practical sides of separation, helping listeners move from chaos to clarity with strength and self-awareness.

    For Karen’s gifts: sample of Just Separated workbook www.divorceworkshop.ca/workbook22

    Free Grief Quiz: What are you really Grieving? https://divorce-grief-meter-karen107.replit.app To connect with Karen: Website: www.divorceworkshop.ca
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    29 分
  • Budgeting and Money Matters in Divorce - Micah Roberts

    Budgeting and Money Matters in Divorce - Micah Roberts
    2026/04/10
    💰 Budgeting and Money Matters in Divorce — Join Guest Micah Roberts, Chief Empowerment Officer of Empowering Financial Coaching, LLC, together with Host Mardi Adams on UnDoing We. In this practical and empowering episode, they discuss how budgeting, financial awareness, and smart planning can help individuals regain control of their finances during and after divorce. Learn how to create a realistic financial roadmap, manage expenses, and build a stronger financial future as you move into your next chapter.

    Micah, explains how to align your budget with your values, spend intentionally without guilt, and build supportive communities where asking for help is encouraged. This episode offers empowering strategies for reframing budgeting, adapting to life changes, and confidently taking charge of your financial future.

    Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com

    About the Guest Micah Roberts serves as the Chief Empowerment Officer (CEO) of Empowering Financial Coaching, LLC, bringing a wealth of experience from her background in education, ministry, and coaching. Inspired by her own financial challenges and triumphs—and the support that made a difference—Micah co-founded Empowering Financial Coaching alongside her partner, Charles Roberts. Together, they are dedicated to serving as accountability partners and cheerleaders for their clients. Their coaching program is designed to help individuals and families discover personalized strategies to achieve financial empowerment and lasting success.

    For Micah’s gift: promo.empoweringfinancialcoaching.com/financial-shame-detox

    To connect with Micah: Website: empoweringfinancialcoaching.com
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    26 分
  • The Importance of Loving Yourself - Nisha Goyal

    The Importance of Loving Yourself - Nisha Goyal
    2026/04/05
    Host Mardi Winder sits down with Nisha Goyal, self-love expert and life coach, for a heartfelt conversation about caring for yourself during challenging life transitions like divorce. Nisha shares her journey from burnout and people-pleasing to learning how to prioritize her own needs and embrace self-worth without the pressure of society’s expectations. They discuss why many women give so much of themselves in relationships and how self-love is more than pampering—it’s about how we speak to ourselves, set boundaries, and show daily compassion. Nisha also shares simple tools like journaling and mindset shifts, along with insights from her Post Divorce Self Love Reset Kit, designed to help women reconnect with themselves and move forward with confidence and clarity.

    Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com

    About our Guest: Nisha Goyal is a Self-Love expert and Certified Life Coach with 25 years of experience in the art of self-devotion. She has transformed her own experience of overcoming burnout into a passion for helping high-achieving women optimize their physical, mental, and emotional well-being. She specializes in teaching women how to date themselves and cultivate unapologetic AF self-love so they can create a life of abundance.

    For Nisha’s amazing gift: https://drive.google.com/file/d/19QkwdsKNmXqZfOD6KyC10RyR-Rh1ec2K/view?usp=sharing

    To connect with Nisha: Website: https://nishagoyal.ca/
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    28 分
  • How To Separate Without Creating Conflict - Karen McNenny

    How To Separate Without Creating Conflict - Karen McNenny
    2026/03/27
    Mardi Winder talks with mediator and divorce coach Karen McNenny, host of The Good Divorce Show Podcast, about a healthier approach to divorce that doesn’t have to become a battle. Drawing from both professional experience and her own story, Karen explains how communication, mediation, and intentional planning can reduce conflict—especially when children are involved. They discuss managing emotions, telling the kids, creating co-parenting plans, and building the right support team early in the process.

    Karen’s Good Divorce Experience™ focuses on helping families transition into a more stable, respectful future rather than simply ending a marriage. About the Host Mardi Winder is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions. She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce.

    Connect with Mardi:
    Email: Mardi@poscs.com
    Website: divorcecoach4women.com

    More about Karen: A dynamic speaker with over two decades of experience commanding stages across the country, Karen brings both authenticity and authority to conversations about workplace culture, effective leadership, and employee engagement. She has moved audiences from intimate workshops to packed conferences with Karen McNenny is a mediator, divorce coach, and therapist dedicated to transforming how families navigate divorce.

    Through her Good Divorce Experience™, she helps couples not only get divorced but also learn how to maintain healthy post-divorce relationships, especially when children are involved. With more than 25 years of expertise, Karen focuses on co-parenting, financial planning, and relationship literacy, guiding families towards compassionate outcomes. A TEDx speaker and host of The Good Divorce Show Podcast™, Karen draws from her own divorce journey to offer hope and healing. She lives in Missoula, Montana, with her family and dog, enjoying the outdoors in the Rocky Mountains.

    Connect with Karen: Website: thegooddivorce.com Website: karenmcnenny.com
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    30 分
  • Considerations With The Family Home In Divorce - Kim Costa

    Considerations With The Family Home In Divorce - Kim Costa
    2026/03/21
    In this engaging episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Kim Costa, a seasoned Realtor® with Sotheby's International Realty and creator of the Wheel House Method, to explore how life transitions—especially divorce—impact our relationship with home, finances, and personal wellbeing. Drawing from her own experience of divorce and remarriage, Kim offers thoughtful perspectives on the challenges of moving and the importance of aligning one’s living environment with new life goals.

    The conversation offers practical advice around making housing decisions during and after divorce, highlighting the financial complexities many overlook. Kim explains how her lifestyle-based approach, inspired by tools like the Wheel of Life, helps clients evaluate not only their finances but also their emotional needs and sense of community. She discusses the importance of conducting an honest inventory of one’s current situation and encourages listeners to explore new possibilities, whether that means relocating or reassessing what truly brings joy in the home. They touch on common misunderstandings people have about keeping or selling the family home, and Kim offers strategies for testing out potential new locations, from short-term rentals to consulting local realtors about taxes and hidden costs.

    Throughout the episode, Mardi and Kim underscore the value of seeking trusted advice and staying open to change as a way to rediscover personal happiness. About the Host Mardi Winder is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions. She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce.

    Connect with Mardi:
    Email: Mardi@poscs.com
    Website: divorcecoach4women.com

    About the Guest Kim Costa is a Top 5% Realtor® with Sotheby's International Realty and creator of The Wheel House Method—a framework designed to help women navigate divorce's biggest question: what to do about the house. With over 30 years of experience in real estate, construction, and design, plus a background as a small business controller, Kim brings both financial expertise and emotional intelligence to this vulnerable transition.

    Through The Wheel House Method's eight life dimensions—health, career, fun and leisure, family and friends, spirituality, romance, environment, and finance—Kim helps divorcing women evaluate whether to keep, sell, or start fresh. Her approach ensures decisions support their new chapter rather than anchor them to the past. Kim is the author of the upcoming book Live in Your Wheel House (March 24, 2026) and host of the Live in Your Wheel House podcast. For Kim’s book “Live in Your Wheel House: An Empowering Guide to Stay, Go, or Reno” got to : https://a.co/d/00Nz5Njo

    To connect with Kim:
    Website: https://lifestylefoundations.com
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimecostarealtor
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    30 分
  • Growing Through Relationship Loss and New Beginnings - Guest, Cece Shatz

    Growing Through Relationship Loss and New Beginnings - Guest, Cece Shatz
    2026/03/21
    In this episode, host Mardi Winder welcomes Cece Shatz, the visionary behind NewStreamingNetwork.com and the Going Solo Network—a global media platform dedicated to supporting those navigating divorce, single life, and relationship transitions. Cece shares her own journey through divorce and the realization that community and authentic support are essential during tough personal shifts. Drawing from her experience in divorce support groups and her work as a relationship coach, she shares how the Going Solo Network grew from a single podcast into a multi-channel resource reaching audiences on radio, podcasts, live video, and streaming platforms like Roku. The network features diverse content: practical advice on rebuilding after divorce, fun lifestyle programming, and expert discussions—all aimed at helping individuals heal, grow, and embrace new possibilities.

    Together, Mardi and Cece discuss life lessons, breaking patterns, and the transition from focusing on others to prioritizing personal growth. They emphasize the importance of building a support team—coaches, financial planners, and strong social connections—to navigate the emotional and practical challenges of major life changes. At the heart of the conversation is a message of hope: by connecting with authentic voices and reflecting on your own journey, you can step out of the past and consciously design a future that excites you.

    About the Host Mardi Winder is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions. She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce. Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com

    About Cece Shatz, fondly known as the Doyenne of Relationship Building, is the Founder of NEWStreamingNetwork.com and WGSN-DB Going Solo Network Radio, Podcasts, and TV. A media visionary, author, and relationship coach, Cece empowers others to “Own the Mic” — helping them share their authentic voices, build meaningful connections, and inspire others to live their best lives. Through her expansive global network on TV, Podcasts and Radio - 50+ media platforms, she guides entrepreneurs, experts, creatives and listeners in transforming their stories into impact that uplifts and empowers.

    To connect with Cece:
    Email: goingsolonetwork@gmail.com
    Website: https://www.newstreamingnetwork.com/
    Website:https://www.goingsolonetwork.com/ YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@WGSNDBGoingSoloNetwork
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    28 分
  • Dealing With Addiction In Divorce - Guest, Amber Hollingsworth

    Dealing With Addiction In Divorce - Guest, Amber Hollingsworth
    2026/02/28
    Addiction adds an additional level of complexity to separation and divorce. On today's episode of UnDoing We, Mardi Winder talks with Amber Hollingsworth, a master addiction counselor and founder of Hope for Families Recovery Center. Together, they explore how addiction affects marriages, co-parenting dynamics, and personal well-being after divorce, particularly when one partner is struggling with substance use. Amber shares her own background, coming from a family surrounded by addiction, and offers insight into how those patterns often remain invisible until viewed from the outside.

    The discussion highlights the heavy toll addiction takes on relationships, especially for the non-addicted partner who often ends up feeling overwhelmed and unfairly seen as the “bad guy.” Amber points out that this role can become emotionally exhausting and can change a person’s sense of self, leading to what she calls “guiltzentiment”,a blend of guilt and resentment that is difficult to shake. Mardi and Amber talk candidly about the importance of self-care and resilience, acknowledging how the partner of an addicted person can become consumed by the situation, sometimes to the point of feeling addicted to the crisis itself.

    Amber Hollingsworth offers practical advice for managing these emotions and stresses the value of setting healthy boundaries, especially in households with children. About the Host Mardi Winder is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions.

    She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce.

    Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com

    About the Guest Amber Hollingsworth is a master addiction counselor, founder of Hope For Families Recovery Center, and creator of the YouTube channel Put The Shovel Down. With over two decades of experience, she’s helped thousands of families navigate addiction recovery using innovative, relationship-focused strategies like the Invisible Intervention. Known for her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Amber empowers families to outsmart addiction, set healthy boundaries, and rebuild trust. Her expertise and compassionate style make her a sought-after podcast guest, offering practical advice and hope to families facing the challenges of addiction.

    For Amber’s gift: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/understanding-boundaries-in-addiction

    To connect with Amber: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/addictionrecoveryhope Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amber-hollingsworth-833111b8/
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    29 分