You don’t mess up retirement at 65…
You lock in the mistakes at 45.

In this episode, I break down why I focus on the Retirement Red Zone—the 10–20 years before you retire—and why that’s where the biggest financial decisions actually get made.

We’ve all been there:
🔹 Debating if your adult kids need another “loan” or just a reality check.
🔹 Arguing about who inherits grandma’s prized casserole dish.
🔹 Rolling your eyes at yet another Amazon box mysteriously appearing at your doorstep.

Money fights happen. But they don’t have to turn your relationship into a Netflix drama.

Here are 5 common money battles couples face—and how to fix them:

1️⃣ Supporting Adult Kids:
They’re adults, but somehow your payroll keeps growing. Time to draw some boundaries before your home turns into a wildlife preserve (you know, “Don’t feed the animals,” right?).

2️⃣ Inheritance Drama:
Decide together who gets what before your kids decide with lawyers. (Spoiler alert: No one enjoys a family feud sequel).

3️⃣ Opposite Spending Styles:
Whether you’re the “budget wizard” or the “flash sale aficionado,” create space for BOTH styles. A little compromise = fewer glares at dinner.

4️⃣ Hidden Spending:
If you’re hiding packages or credit card statements, you’re not hiding money—you’re hiding trust issues. Pour some bourbon, and have the talk regularly. No judgment, just honesty.

5️⃣ Conflicting Goals:
Camper vs. 401(k)? Retirement vs. adventure? It’s not “either/or,” it’s “yes, and.” Dream together, plan together, thrive together.

Welcome to Un Eff Your Finances, where we don’t eff around and find out, we plan for the unexpected. Hosted by Nicholas St. George, founder of St. George Wealth Management, this show is designed for the busy professional who needs straightforward, honest advice on making the most of their finances.

With a focus on retirement income planning, Nicholas covers a wide range of topics, from Roth conversions and tax questions to debunking financial myths and sharing real-life stories of what not to do. Known for his ability to explain complex topics in a way that anyone can understand, Nicholas ensures that each episode leaves you feeling empowered and informed.

Whether you’re driving to work, hitting the gym, or just taking a break, Un Eff Your Finances is here to make finance fun and accessible. Join us for a dose of humor, storytelling, and practical tips that will help you take control of your financial future.

Are you ready to navigate the unpredictable seas of retirement? What if your golden years could be generously funded and worry-free?

In this episode, Nicholas tackles the burning question of how to make your money last in retirement amid rising inflation and longer lifespans. He addresses the realities of longevity risk, the importance of planning for healthcare and housing in retirement, and the often-overlooked inflation factor that can chip away at your nest egg. This episode is packed with humorous, yet brutally honest, insights to help you keep your financial future secure.

Nick discusses:

• (01:22) Retirement Risks and How to Navigate Them
• (02:22) The Impact of Increased Life Expectancy
• (04:55) Balancing Enjoyment with Financial Security
• (05:58) Healthcare and Housing Costs
• (09:27) Embracing Flexible Working During Retirement
• (13:53) The Reality of Inflation on Your Savings
• (19:15) The Importance of Emergency Planning and Communication
• And more

Connect with Nicholas St. George:

• St. George Wealth
• LinkedIn: Nicholas St. George
• Facebook: Nicholas St. George
• Phone: 828-481-8836

Ever wonder why your retirement portfolio might resemble a messy clearance aisle at TJ Maxx?

In this episode, Nick St. George sits down with Eric Woodraska, Client Portfolio Manager from Helios, a financial wizard who knows his way around a portfolio like no other! They dig into the good, the bad, and the downright “what were they thinking” moments of investment management. This conversation is brimming with real-life portfolio mishaps and tips to steer clear of those financial train wrecks. Plus, it’s not all business – find out their bourbon favorites, because hey, life’s about balance, right?

Nicholas and Eric discuss:

• (02:12) The risks of concentrating investments in one fund family and how diversification should really look
• (06:28) A simple guide to understanding fund performance metrics, from flashy returns to actual sustainability
• (13:45) How to avoid the ‘latest-and-greatest’ investment traps and stick to what’s proven
• (22:01) The impact of risk tolerance on portfolio choices, especially during unpredictable markets
• And more

Connect with Nicholas St. George:

• St. George Wealth
• LinkedIn: Nicholas St. George
• Facebook: Nicholas St. George
• Phone: 828-481-8836

Connect with Eric Woodraska:

• Helios
• LinkedIn: Eric Woodraska

👮‍♂️ In the Retirement Unit, financially-motivated crimes against common sense are considered especially heinous…

These are their stories. DUN DUN.

Hi, I’m Nick St. George, CFP®, and in today’s episode of Retirement & Order, we meet Rob and Jen Langston. (Not their real names, of course—the names and some details have been changed to protect the financially innocent.)

They’re retired. Living the good life. Then BOOM 💥—curveball. One of their adult kids hits a financial snag.

Rather than torch their retirement plan with capital gains or mortgage stress, we got creative. No, not “hide your money in a coffee can” creative—strategic creative.

We used an asset-backed loan against their taxable investment account.
✅ No closing costs
✅ No tax returns or underwriting drama
✅ No capital gains
✅ No disruption to their portfolio

Just fast, flexible help—with structure, boundaries, and peace of mind.

🎯 Moral of the story: You can be generous without going broke.

If you’re in the same boat, don’t play financial detective solo. Book a quick call—let’s protect your retirement and your sanity.

What can market pullbacks teach us about investing?

Tune into this round of Un Eff Your Finances, Nicholas St. George dives into the intricacies of market pullbacks. Buckle up as Nick unravels the chaos and gets to the heart of why these pullbacks aren’t just unavoidable but can actually work in your favor!

Nick discusses:

• (00:03:00) The normalcy of market pullbacks and how history shows they’re nothing to fear
• (00:06:04) Strategies to use pullbacks to your advantage through smart planning
• (00:08:16). Keeping emotions in check during volatile times and sticking to your plan
• (00:14:3) The impact of inflation on spending power and why long-term growth is vital
• (00:25:20) The importance of having a solid and adaptable financial plan in place

Connect with Nicholas St. George:

• George Wealth
• LinkedIn: Nicholas St. George
• Facebook: Nicholas St. George
• Phone: 828-481-8836

Let’s be honest: most kids think money just comes out of the wall. Or worse—“Can’t you just use the card?”

If you’ve ever watched your child blow through their birthday cash like it’s Monopoly money, this post (and video 👇) is for you.

We want to raise Game Changers and Wealth Builders—not future adults who learn the hard way that “0% interest for 12 months” is not free money.

Kids love games. So make saving and budgeting one.

• Set up a “family bank” where they earn interest on savings.

• Match their savings like a 401(k) for chores.

• Let them “invest” in snack stocks—buy Goldfish at 10 cents today, sell at 15 cents next week.

Suddenly, compound interest is cooler than Roblox coins.

Skip the PowerPoint presentation. Teach money in the wild:

• Grocery shopping? Show them unit pricing.

• Eating out? Let them help calculate the tip.

• Road trip? Hand them a gas budget and let them play CFO.

They’ll absorb way more from hands-on money moments than any lecture.

Yep, you read that right. Let. Them. Blow. It.

Nothing drives home the value of money like watching $20 vanish in a flash on the worst claw machine in America. It’s a lesson in budgeting, buyer’s remorse, and decision-making all in one go.

You’re not raising perfection. You’re raising confidence. And confidence comes from experience—even the oops kind.

🎥 Watch the full video for more tips and a few laughs along the way. I’ll show you how to plant the seeds for financial literacy that actually stick.

Because let’s face it—your kid knows 84 YouTubers by name. It’s time they learn who Warren Buffett is, too.

Ready to raise a money-smart kid (and maybe brush up on your own skills too)?
Let’s un-eff the next generation’s finances, one piggy bank at a time. 💪🐷💸