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What do you do when life doesn’t turn out the way you hoped?

We all know the phrase “turn lemons into lemonade,” but what does that actually look like when the pain is real, prayers feel unanswered, and life feels heavy?

In this episode, we’re talking about what it means to trust God in the middle of it, not after things get better. Together, we unpack what Scripture really says about trials, how to “consider it joy” without pretending everything is okay, and how to come honestly before a God who is still good, even in the hard seasons.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

• Why gratitude in hard seasons actually matters
• Letting go of comparison and stepping into your own calling
• What it means to be held and kept by God
• Learning to trust Him—even when it’s difficult

Scriptures Mentioned:

• James 1:2–4
• Romans 8:28
• Proverbs 3:5–6
• Colossians 3:12
• Romans 5:3–5

Companion Devotional:

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About the Guest:

Tonilee Cullison has served alongside her husband, Kurt, in ministry for nearly 35 years. They currently serve as lead pastors of GraceValley Church in Saginaw, Michigan, and are parents to two adult children, Ashley (Trevor) and Andrew.

Growing up in a broken home, Tonilee developed a deep passion for helping women build peaceful, God-centered homes. What began as a chaotic childhood has become a testimony of God’s faithfulness—shaping her heart for homemaking, discipleship, and creating environments where people can flourish spiritually, relationally, and practically.

She is especially passionate about helping women break free from comparison and step confidently into their God-given purpose. Through her teaching, storytelling, and wisdom rooted in Scripture, Tonilee brings both encouragement and truth—often making you laugh one moment and reflect deeply the next. Her greatest desire is to share timely, Spirit-led truth that helps women walk in freedom and purpose.

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