On this episode: Lucy Lopez, Elizabeth Newcamp, and Zak Rosen help a mom who is upset her pretween is pulling away from her. They used to be super close. Now it’s all attitude and eye rolls. Is there a better way to parent a pretween?

But first, they share their latest triumphs and fails—which include a trip to the bar, community aid, and money frustrations. They also share the pieces of media that bring a tear to our listeners’ eyes.

Mentioned on the show:

Middle School Magic

Modern Puberty Explained

Podcast production by Cheyna Roth and Rosemary Belson. Video production by Micah Phillips.

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