In this episode of Fallopian Files, I’m at home on the couch giving you a very real update on where I am in my fertility journey and why I’ve had to hit pause.

I talk about:

Pressing pause on fertility treatment to deal with my enlarged thyroid and growing nodules

The scary symptoms I’ve been feeling (neck pressure, trouble swallowing, breathing discomfort)

The possibility of thyroid surgery, hypothyroidism, and how that could impact my ability to conceive

Being 41 (almost 42, hey Aquarius!) and feeling the urgency of the biological clock

The emotional tug-of-war of pursuing solo motherhood and doing this journey without a partner

Burnout vs depression, working multiple jobs, and trying to create space to actually rest

The reality of being a Black woman navigating the healthcare system, including a dismissive new primary care provider

Advocating for yourself, knowing when to walk away, and finding providers who actually listen

I also share some practical reminders about open enrollment, reviewing your insurance, and making sure your coverage lines up with your real-life health needs especially if you’re considering fertility treatment or managing chronic conditions.

If you’ve ever:

Felt rushed, dismissed, or talked over by a provider

Questioned if you’re “doing too much” or if you’re actually just burned out

Wondered if you can really do fertility or motherhood on your own

…this episode is for you. You are not alone in this journey.

Join the conversation:

Share your fertility story, healthcare experiences, or questions in the comments. I’ll be doing response videos and want to include your voices and your journeys.

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