Through the Chaos, Add It to Your Schedule: Why There's Never a Perfect Time | 1PM: 175
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In this raw and energizing episode, Bertrand Ngampa destroys the myth that you need to wait for the "perfect time" to pursue your goals. After a conversation with his friend Rich about going back to school, learning trades, and navigating life's chaos, Bertrand shares a hard truth: there is never going to be a perfect time when your life is calm and you have ample time to do what you've always wanted to do. The moment you have that much free time, you're either dead or your life has become meaningless.
Bertrand's Controlled Chaos:
Let's break down what Bertrand is currently managing:
- Father of four children (including a newborn)
- Full-time husband
- Working on his master's degree
- Studying for law school
- Planning to enter a PhD program
- Learning a trade (electrician) with his wife next week
- Running multiple businesses (remote cleaning, website ranking, project management)
- Recording this daily podcast (The 1% Man)
- Considering running for DC Council
- Just said yes to playing football again on Sundays
- Full-time retired veteran navigating VA appointments and disability benefits
Oh, and last night? Both his daughter and son were up all night. His wife handled most of it (shout out to her), and he helped where he could. Then he woke up and kept moving forward.
The Conversation That Sparked This Episode:
Bertrand's friend Rich mentioned he has one more semester of school and is thinking about getting his master's, but he's got "a lot going on." Bertrand's response? "Even in the chaos, do it. You're gonna find a way."
Rich knew Bertrand when he was a single bachelor with zero kids, living life freely. Now Bertrand has four kids, is in school, wants to go to law school, is thinking about running for office, and is juggling three "jobs" (not W-2s, but full-time responsibilities). The chaos hasn't stopped him—it's forced him to get better at managing time, priorities, and execution.
The Myth of "When I Have More Time":
If you're waiting until you have more time to start that business, learn that trade, go to therapy, start journaling, or pursue your dreams, you will never have more time. Life doesn't slow down magically for you. Even if you're a single person with no responsibilities, you're still living through what Bertrand calls the Third or Fourth Great Depression, with wars happening, billionaires touching kids while the government hides it, UFOs and aliens confirmed as real, and Jesus potentially coming back soon (half-joking, but the point stands).
The world is chaotic. Your life is chaotic. Adding one more thing to your schedule isn't going to break you—it's going to force you to swim.
The Swimming Metaphor:
If you don't know how to swim and you jump in the water, you'll drown. But in life, when you don't know how to swim and you jump in two feet, you learn to swim. You learn how to manage everything around you. You adapt. You prioritize. You figure it out. The chaos doesn't kill you—it makes you better at handling chaos.
Bertrand's wife is learning HVAC or electrician work with him. Why? Because they're adding skills to their toolbelt even though they already have full plates. They're not waiting for a calm season that will never come. They're executing through the storm.
Marcus Dash and the Football Decision:
Bertrand's friend Marcus Dash created content covering the Kansas City Chiefs, got picked up by Bleacher Report, and now has a full-time job as a content creator—all because he put in the time and effort to cover his favorite team. That's someone who didn't wait for permission or the perfect time. He just did it.
Marcus asked Bertrand to play foot...