This week on This Ain’t Therapy, we’re diving deep into a journey that’s as emotional as it is courageous: IVF.

Our special guests — and honorary wine tasters for the night — join us to share their real, unfiltered experiences with fertility treatment: the tough moments, the unexpected challenges, the glimmers of hope, and the resilience it takes to keep going. We talk about the physical toll, the emotional rollercoaster, the strain (and strength) it can bring to relationships, and the little moments of humor (and wine) that keep you sane along the way.

Whether you’ve been through IVF yourself, know someone who has, or are simply curious about what it’s really like — this conversation will open your eyes and your heart.

Because sometimes the most powerful therapy is just talking about the stuff we’re all too scared to say out loud… preferably over a good glass of red.

Welcome to The Ultimate Ick Catalogue — where Cory & Gareth dive headfirst into the tiny, cringe-inducing behaviours that turn crushes into absolutely nots. From baby talk and bad socks to texting “k” with a full stop, nothing is safe.

We’re breaking down the icks, the walking red flags, and the moments you instantly decide: nope, never again. It’s petty, it’s brutal, it’s hilarious — and you’ll probably rethink at least three of your own habits.

Because if you’re not giving us the ick… you might just be the red flag. 🚩

In this episode, Gareth takes us on a wild ride through his early days in Melbourne—new city, new freedom, and zero idea what he was in for. From hitting the clubs to accidentally stumbling (okay, maybe not so accidentally) into the gay sauna scene, it’s a story full of benders, bold moves, and some big wake-up calls.

But this episode isn’t just juicy stories and steamy tiles—we’re also unpacking the real stuff: the risks that come with sexual exploration, the difference between HIV and AIDS, and what prevention, safety, and self-respect can actually look like in queer spaces.

It’s honest, hilarious, and heart-opening.
Because growing up gay doesn’t come with a manual—but maybe this episode helps.

In this episode, Cory opens up about one of the biggest resets of his life—packing up everything he owned (which, spoiler: wasn’t much more than clothes and a car) and moving to Adelaide with nothing but hope, hustle, and a hint of chaos. From the nerves of starting fresh in a new city to the awkwardness of trying to make adult friends, this episode dives into what it really means to start over when everything feels daunting.

It’s raw, real, and a little bit ridiculous—just the way we like it.
Tune in and get ready to laugh, relate, and maybe even shed a tear.

Wherever you’re at in life, this one’s for anyone who’s ever taken a risk and tried to build something new from scratch.

In this wild ride of an episode, Cory and Gareth play the gayest, messiest round of Never Have I Ever you’ve ever heard — and let’s just say, we learned way too much about each other (and ourselves). From regrettable hookups and emotional damage to glitter, lies, and accidental threesomes — it’s all on the table.

You’ll laugh. You’ll cringe. You might even text your ex.
But hey — this ain’t therapy.

Press play, pour a drink, and get ready to scream “SAME!” at least five times.

Gay. Best friends. Emotionally entangled. But no, we’re not dating — and yes, we’re sick of explaining it. In this episode, Cory and Gareth dive headfirst into the glittery abyss of gay labels, queer friendships, and why the world can’t handle two homosexuals being close without assuming a wedding is next. Expect laughs, identity drama, and at least one mid-convo meltdown. It’s unfiltered, unapologetic, and as unhinged as ever — just the way we like it.

Cory and Gareth are sprinting through a relay of regrets, cartwheeling over chaos, and diving headfirst into the glitter-filled abyss of “What the actual f*ck was I thinking?” From falling in love after one voice note to accidentally joining a cult via a group chat, this episode is a gold-medal showcase of impulsive, iconic, and utterly unhinged gay decisions. There’s no moral of the story… just vibes, poor impulse control, and probably a rash. Tune in and cringe with us.

Dating? Sometimes Exhausting. Situationships? Always makes you emotionally bankrupt. Glory holes? Somewhat surprisingly efficient. In this episode, Cory and Gareth take a no-holds-barred romp through the fire that is gay dating. We’re talking walking red flags, emotionally constipated situationships, and men who list “play the game" but cry after mediocre head. From dodging commitment to disappearing into cubicles, we’re spilling the tea, airing the trauma, and dragging every man who ever said “you up?” after 2AM. It’s sex, scandal, and a whole lot of sass — BYO lube and low expectations.