In this episode of the Focal Point Podcast, Tony sits down one-on-one with Lori, a retired detective and mental health counselor, as she reflects on more than two decades investigating crimes against children, what she's learned about how predators groom kids online, and practical, faith-rooted ways parents can protect their families today.

This conversation is for parents, grandparents, youth leaders, and anyone who cares for kids online — covering grooming tactics, behavioral red flags, teen pornography exposure and addiction, the legal risks of sexting, and where families can turn for help.

One of the biggest takeaways? Your kids don't need privacy, they need protection.

When it comes to devices and online activity, safety has to come before independence — an unmonitored account or a closed bedroom door isn't a right kids are owed, it's a risk parents can't afford to overlook.

If you've ever wondered what your kids are really seeing online — or worried you might be missing something — this conversation is for you.

ABOUT OUR HOSTS

Brianna Aleman is a wife, mom of three energetic boys, and a passionate student of God's Word. She loves helping people understand the Bible in practical and meaningful ways, believing that the deeper we dig into Scripture, the richer it becomes. When she's not studying or serving in ministry, you'll find her enjoying the outdoors, working in her garden, hiking, or making memories with her family.

Tony Velasquez, originally born in Colorado, shaped by time in the Midwest, and raised in Florida, serves as a YTH Pastor who loves connecting with people, learning something new, and talking about life, faith, and great movies—especially sci-fi, psychological thrillers, and superhero films. He is blessed with an amazing wife and son and enjoys relaxing by the pool whenever possible.

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CHAPTERS (see Section 4 below)

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Welcome Back!

00:41 Meet Lori, Former Detective

02:21 Child Abuse Investigator to Detective

03:45 Misconceptions Parents Have

05:27 How Predators Groom Kids

10:44 Roblox, Chats & Social Media Risks

13:45 Red Flags to Watch For

16:25 Teens, Porn, and Addiction

18:15 Age-Appropriate Tech Boundaries

20:29 Sexting and the Law

24:48 Recovery & Grace for Parents

28:26 Two Decades on the Frontlines

30:41 A Journey of Faith

38:53 Practical Steps & Resources

41:28 Protection Over Privacy

42:24 Final Encouragement

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