In this deeply emotional episode of Look in Through the Glass, Sharmaine and Jeselle open up about the heartbreaking loss of a beloved horse and the complicated journey of grief that followed. Through raw personal stories, they explore what it means to love an animal so deeply that losing them leaves an undeniable emptiness behind.

The conversation reflects on the horse’s strength and resilience during colic, the painful decision to say goodbye, and the emotions that surface when we’re forced to let go of an animal who has become part of the family. Sharmaine and Jeselle discuss how grief can look completely different from person to person—and why there is no “right” way or timeline for processing loss.

They also explore the extraordinary healing connection between humans and animals. Animals can provide comfort without words, create a sense of safety, and sometimes reach emotions we have struggled to access ourselves. As Jeselle and Sharmaine reflect on their experiences, they discuss the importance of allowing grief to move through us rather than feeling pressured to hide it, rush it, or immediately “move on.”

The episode also touches on supporting loved ones—and even other animals—through grief, recognizing that loss can ripple throughout an entire family. At its heart, this conversation is about giving ourselves permission to feel: to cry, remember, release, and honor the connection that existed.

Ultimately, this episode reminds listeners that healing doesn't mean forgetting. The animals we love can leave an imprint that continues long after they're gone, teaching us about connection, compassion, vulnerability, and unconditional love.

“Animals can heal parts of us we didn't even know needed healing.”