Guest: Esskee Doucet
BODY LOFT: https://bodyloftny.com/
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*FACE CARD NEVER DECLINES… BUT WHO’S KEEPING IT THAT WAY? 👀🔥*

This episode of Thee ChitChat Podcast? Oh… we brought in an expert.



*New member of the group chat unlocked:* Esskee Doucet, owner of The Body Loft, pulled ALL the way up to talk FACE CARD, beauty secrets, and what’s really behind “Black Don’t Crack.” 😏✨




We went from Housewives-level shade to a full skincare deep dive real quick:
✨ The funniest, pettiest, most cringe moments from Real Housewives of Atlanta 😭
✨ A lil debate about Esskee’s husband (because… of course 👀)
✨ Melanin, aging, and what people get completely WRONG
✨ The real tea on treatments: peels, microneedling, SPF, and what’s actually worth it
✨ Trends vs truth — because everything is NOT made for us

And somehow… we still ended up water tasting. Don’t ask, just press play. 💧😂



It’s funny, it’s shady, it’s informative—and yeah… you might leave rethinking your whole routine.

Pull up. The group chat is OPEN. 🎙️💬



*Takeaways:*

* “Black don’t crack” is part genetics, part discipline 👀
* Your skincare routine matters more than the trend
* Protecting your skin (yes, SPF!) is non-negotiable



*Chapters:*
00:00 The Group Chat Opens
06:51 Meet Esskee Doucet (The Body Loft)
12:04 Housewives Recap (Shady + Cringe 😭)
21:58 Esskee’s Husband Debate 👀
30:59 Melanin, Pigmentation & Truths
43:26 Skincare Routines That Work
01:19:35 Sun Damage & Skin Reactions
01:26:00 Protecting Melanated Skin
01:38:10 Final Thoughts + Pull Up Again

#TheeChitChatPodcast #BlackDontCrack #FaceCardNeverDeclines #TheBodyLoft #BlackWomenWellness #SkincareForBlackWomen #PodcastClips #GroupChatEnergy

Thee ChitChat Podcast is back… and yeah, we picked this right up from the group chat. 👀

This episode? We’re getting real about body image in your 40s and what it actually looks like to age as a Black woman — not the highlight reel, the real version.

The pressure to “measure up,” the body changes nobody warned you about, and that quiet shift of learning to love yourself again in a new season.

It’s laughter. It’s honesty. It’s “wait… I thought it was just me.”

If this already sounds like a conversation you’ve been having, go ahead and subscribe — and bring a homegirl with you. 🎙️

Pull up — the group chat is open. 💬

#TheeChitChatPodcast #BlackDontCrack #BodyImage #WomenOver40 #BlackWomenHealing #GroupChatEnergy #RaeAndKia

Wait… y’all really letting zodiac signs explain your behavior like that?! 👀♍🔥

This episode? Whew. We’re going from horoscopes and zodiac chaos to conversations people don’t talk about enough - including the real issue of harassment in unexpected spaces (yes… even librarians).

Rae and Kia get into how astrology shapes how we see ourselves and each other, where it actually comes from (hint: it didn’t start where you think 👀), and how colonization flipped and remixed the narrative. We’re talking African astronomical roots, spirituality vs religion, and whether we’re using the stars for insight… or excuses.

And of course - we had to break down these signs. The traits, the patterns, the “yeah that’s DEFINITELY a Gemini” moments 😭

Yeah… this one goes from fun to deep REAL quick.

Pull up — the group chat is open. 💬🎙️

Takeaways:

• Are zodiac signs insight… or a crutch?
• The overlooked reality of harassment in everyday spaces
• The real origins of astrology and how culture shaped it

Chapters:
00:00 Personal Traits & Relationship Patterns
30:31 Zodiac Signs & Horoscope Talk
36:00 Colonization & Astrology
41:23 Spirituality vs Religion
48:00 Rewriting the Narrative
53:54 Culture, Belief & Impact

#TheeChitChatPodcast #ZodiacTalk #AstrologyDebate #BlackPodcasters #SpiritualityVsReligion #CulturalConversations #PodcastClips #GroupChatEnergy #DeepConversations

Nobody sat us down and asked, “Hey… you wanna be strong forever?” 👀😅

Because somehow we got cast in that role — no audition, no break, no off switch.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the Strong Black Woman trope — where it came from, what it’s been costing us, and why the “soft life” isn’t a trend… it’s a whole reset.

Because let’s be clear: rest isn’t weakness, and vulnerability isn’t you dropping the ball. It might actually be you finally putting it down.

Yeah… this one? It hits a little too close to home.

Pull up — we’re talking about it for real. 💬🎙️

When was the last time you chose soft over strong? Be honest. 👇🏾

The group chat is open.

#TheeChitChatPodcast #StrongBlackWoman #SoftLifeEra #BlackWomenHealing #WomenOver40 #BlackWomenPodcasters #ProtectYourPeace #GroupChatEnergy

Wait… why did nobody warn us about THIS part of our 40s?! 👀🔥



In Episode 103 we’re getting into everything nobody told us about perimenopause and menopause. The mood swings, the mental fog, the “am I losing it?” moments and the information we should have had years ago but nobody gave us.



Because here’s the truth. We didn’t know what we didn’t know. And that silence has cost too many of us.

We’re saying the quiet part out loud. Come pull up. 🎙️

Have you or someone you love been through this? Drop your truth below. 👇🏾



#TheeChitChatPodcast #BlackWomenPodcast #Perimenopause #MenopauseMatters #WomenOver40 #BlackWomensHealth #HormoneHealth #MidlifeWomen

EP 102: Grudge or Grace? 👀

Are you holding a grudge… or just holding a boundary? Rae and Kia get into the messy truth about grudges — from forgiveness and grace to knowing when it’s time to cut someone all the way off.

Press play and join the conversation.

#TheeChitChatPodcast #GrudgeOrGrace #GirlTalkUnfiltered #BlackWomenPodcasters #ProtectYourPeace #PodcastYouTube #GroupChatEnergy

Welcome to Episode 1 of Thee ChitChat Podcast — where we pick up where the group chat left off.

In this first episode, Rae and Kia introduce themselves and what inspired the podcast in the first place. From who they are to conversations about tampons and unusual breast tissue, this is your official introduction to the group chat and the kind of honest, unfiltered conversations that happen when the homies link up.

So pull up, get comfortable, and meet the voices behind the mic.