"How’s your book coming along?"It’s a well-meaning question (and I love when people ask it!) but...it’s also one of the hardest ones to answer.In this video, I share an honest update on my novel, along with a few reflections I’ve picked up along the journey. tl;dr: Writing is hard. It takes a long time. And most of us are trying to do it in lives that are already full.This episode isn't a polished lesson or a productivity hack. Think of it more like a conversation around a fire pit or over a cup of coffee. Unscripted. Lightly edited. A little raw on purpose.0:00 - How's your book coming along? Why I hate and love this question0:30 - About me, my book0:59 - Writing a book is hard1:12 - My writing journey & background2:46 - How my story and my writing has changed4:30 - Craft writing resources6:01 - The biggest challenge writing multiple points of view (POV) 6:31 - Finding a consistent time to write6:53 - Prioritize Writing Your Book8:10 - My Writing Routine9:25 - Why I don't "write every day" 9:57 - Consistency in writing (not burnout) 10:32 - Making a plan to write your book10:42 - Atomic Habits for Writers12:22 - No time to write your book?12:43 - Why I quit social media14:22 - Conclusion - Let's stay connected If you're just starting out OR if you’re feeling stuck, behind, discouraged, or unsure whether you’re doing this “right,” you’re not alone. Most writers feel this way at some point. Probably more often than they admit.My hope is that this video feels like an introduction. Or maybe a reminder that we’re in this together. And that the work you're doing truly matters. Let me know what you're working on, and how it's going! Some of the things I mention here could easily become deeper conversations in future episodes, and I’m happy to follow the threads that matter most to you.Thanks for being here.— T.C.Mentioned in this video: Save the Cat! Writes a Novel https://amzn.to/4qVU8aRStory Genius https://amzn.to/4pD1rDfAtomic Habits https://amzn.to/3Z40AktScrivener https://www.literatureandlatte.com/scrivener/overview?fpr=thomas70Some of the links on this page are affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission if you choose to make a purchase, at no extra cost to you.As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.#writingjourney#writinglife#amwriting#aspiringauthor#writingstruggles#authorlife#writingcommunity#writingwithalife

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Most dads don’t quit on their dream of writing a book because they stopped caring.

They quit because life got loud.

With full time work, marriage, and kids, exhaustion is natural and free time feels like a myth.

Our calendars and lives are so full, the idea of adding something new...especially something BIG...feels like a pipe dream.

I always wanted to write a book but somewhere along the way, the idea started to feel… unrealistic.

In this video, I share what it’s actually been like writing my debut novel in my 40s as a busy dad with limited time, inconsistent energy, and a very full life.

I talk about:

00:00 My Writing Journey Begins

01:00 The Early Writing Blueprint - my writing system

03:00 Writer or Career Dad? The binary fallacy

03:52 Overcoming identity blocks to write your book

04:35 Atomic Habits for Authors

06:35 Building a Writing System

08:59 Learning as You Go

10:05 It's Not Too Late

11:30 Your Writing Action PlanThis is NOT hustle culture.

It's not "grind or die."

It’s about writing in the margins of real life, and trusting that small, consistent effort adds up.

If you’re a dad (or a mom!) who’s always wanted to write a book but feels behind, exhausted, or unsure where to start, I made this video for people like us.

You’re not too late.

You’re not lazy.

And your story still matters.

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The week after Christmas is strange.The year is basically over, the new one hasn’t started yet, and the pressure to “figure everything out” starts creeping in.If you’re feeling behind… if you’re wondering why you didn’t make more progress… or if you’re already disappointed in yourself before the new year even begins...this video is for you.In this walk-and-talk reflection, I share a grace-centered way to look at the past year and a healthier, more sustainable way to think about goals, growth, and New Year’s resolutions.00:00 Introduction and Year Reflection00:46 Navigating the In-Between01:27 Rethinking Goals and Expectations02:23 Embracing Grace and Progress04:01 Intentional Steps ForwardYou didn’t fail 2025.You’re not behind.And you don’t need to blow up your life to move forward.Maybe this isn’t the year everything changes.Maybe it’s just the year you begin.If you’re an aspiring writer, creative, or busy parent who wants to make progress without burning out, stick around. This is a conversation we’re going to keep having.#NewYearReflection #GraceOverHustle #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #CreativeLife #AspiringWriter #WritingLife #CreativeProcess #FaithAndWork #PurposeDriven #SlowGrowth #IntentionalLiving #FindTimeToWrite