In this episode of the Wise Divine Women podcast, host Dana Irvine speaks with Joni Woods, an author and former youth pastor, about her journey through divorce, childhood trauma, and the process of writing her memoir, 'Burned, Blocked, and Better Than Ever.' Joni shares her experiences of navigating life after divorce, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the lessons learned from her past. She emphasizes the need for self-reflection, accountability, and grace in overcoming challenges. Joni also discusses her vision for the future, including speaking engagements and helping others through coaching.

In practice, as a Human Connection and Culture Specialist, Joni brings a dynamic blend of experience in relationship development, conflict resolution, and group dynamics. Through work as a speaker and author, Joni helps individuals and organizations deepen their understanding of human behavior, build authentic relationships, and foster emotionally intelligent cultures. With a holistic, people-first approach, she is passionate about guiding others through the complexities of connection—with clarity, compassion, and purpose.More about Joni Woods

Takeaways

• It took me about eight years to get this in actual physical form.
• I didn't want my past to define me.
• I want you to have two happy homes.
• Grace is the thing that we live on.
• I learned a lot of painful church lessons.
• I spent more time in marriage counseling than being married.
• You have to listen for those little things.
• Emotional intelligence makes us better.
• Your situation doesn't have to define you.
• I hope to help women in the same situation.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Joni Woods and Her Journey

03:00 The Process of Writing 'Burned, Blocked, and Better Than Ever'

05:55 Navigating Divorce as a Former Youth Pastor

09:02 Childhood Trauma and Its Impact on Relationships

12:06 The Lessons Learned from Marriage Counseling

15:02 Dating After Divorce and Discovering True Love

18:03 The Vision for the Future and Speaking Engagements

20:56 Co-Parenting and Emotional Intelligence

24:01 Wisdom for Women Facing Divorce and Trauma

27:11 The Importance of Self-Reflection and Accountability

29:54 Building a Coaching Practice and Helping Others