The Weaponised Incompetence PlayBook
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概要
The MD Coach PlayBook article written by Michelle de Havilland and available to read for free on www.MDCoach.co.uk/Playbook provides an extensive analysis of "weaponised incompetence," which the author defines as the strategic claim of inability or the deliberate poor performance of a task to evade future responsibility. The text examines this phenomenon in both personal relationships, particularly marriages where it creates a parent-child dynamic and resentment, and professional settings, where it harms team performance and accountability. The author suggests that this behaviour is driven by factors including laziness, gender socialisation, ego protection, and power dynamics, and offers a coaching framework recommending readers stop rescuing and instead enforce clear boundaries and natural consequences to dismantle the manipulation. Ultimately, the piece argues that competence is a matter of dignity and choice, not just ability, and calls for societal changes to challenge the rewarding of helplessness.