The biggest obstacle for abundance in life is pride. Each man who decides to lead a life that counts must replace pride with Humility.Bragging leads to destruction. 5 Definitions of Pride.#betterman #humility #accountability #mentor #wisdom

In this powerful episode of Uncle Howie’s Podcast, we dive deep into one of the most critical building blocks of becoming a better man: self-worth. Howard opens up about his own journey—from a tough childhood filled with wounds and doubt, through military success and personal struggles, to learning what real self-worth actually looks like. He shares candid stories, hard-earned wisdom, and a 5-step action plan that any man—young or old—can use to start raising his value from the inside out. Whether you’re feeling stuck, battling old wounds, or just ready to level up, this episode is a wake-up call to stop coasting and start becoming the man your family, friends, and community need.What You’ll Learn: • Why self-worth and self-esteem aren’t the same thing • How your childhood wounds might still be shaping your self-image • The truth about success: Why money and status don’t fix worthlessness • 5 practical steps to build your self-worth starting today • The critical role of mentors, community, and serving others • Why your physical health directly impacts your mindset and confidenceThis episode is dedicated to all the men who know they’re capable of more—and are ready to take that first (or next) step. Share it with a man you care about.

In this raw and deeply personal episode of Uncle Howie’s Podcast, Howard speaks directly to the hearts of young men learning how to suffer well, rise again, and stay faithful to their calling—no matter what life throws at them.

Drawing from childhood memories of being bullied, the heroic intervention of a boy named Timmy, his time as a bodyguard in the military, and the crushing grief of losing his best friend, Howard shares a message every man needs to hear: you will suffer—but it doesn’t have to define you.

Whether you’re rebuilding your life, navigating loss, facing persecution, or just trying to grow up in a world that doesn't teach young men how to endure, this episode is your invitation to rise again. Howard offers practical, faith-driven advice on:

• Why setbacks don’t disqualify you—they forge you

• How to set goals and declare them to mentors who will hold you accountable

• What it means to live a sacrificial, purposeful life as a man

• How to prepare for suffering—and overcome it

• Why “morning by morning, His mercies are new” is the fuel for daily resilience

You don’t need to be perfect to be a protector. You don’t have to win every fight to be a warrior. And you don’t have to carry your pain alone.

📌 If you’ve ever felt lost, discouraged, or like you’ve dropped the ball—this episode is for you.

In this vulnerable and hard-hitting episode, Uncle Howie tackles the invisible epidemic holding so many men back, low self-worth. From his own broken past to his hard-earned breakthroughs, he shares what it’s like to carry shame, face your failures, and still take the first step toward becoming a man who lives sacrificially for others. This isn’t a pep talk. It’s a challenge. A call to write down your new identity. To forgive yourself. To own your story and move forward. Whether you’re fresh out of a jail cell or just stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage, this episode is your reminder: you’re not as bad as you think. And today, you can start becoming the kind of man others can count on.

In this powerful and down-to-earth episode, Uncle Howie returns with a heartfelt message for men who want to grow into stronger, wiser, and more sacrificial leaders. Drawing from personal experience, scripture, and street-smart wisdom, he explores a truth many men ignore for too long: most controversy is a trap—and it’s not worth your time.

Whether it’s gossip, pointless arguments, political debates, or old family fights, Uncle Howie breaks down why men must learn to step away from useless drama and focus instead on becoming the kind of man others can count on. From writing down your personal code to finding a mentor, this episode offers five actionable steps to help you live with purpose, humility, and strength.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why avoiding conflict isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom

• How to set a clear personal code and declare it out loud

• The difference between healthy confrontation and drama addiction

• Why emotional restraint is part of becoming a stable man

• The role of faith and humility in finding your true path

• What it means to stop living for yourself and start living for others

• How to find a real mentor who’ll call you up—not just call you out

If you’re tired of letting ego and emotion run the show—and you’re ready to grow into a man who leads with calm confidence—this one’s for you.

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In this raw and deeply personal first episode of Uncle Howie, Howie opens up about his lifelong struggle with anger, violence, and what it really means to become a better man.From his first real fight at age 12 to a brutal brawl in his Army days, and finally to the shame of throwing a punch as a grown man with a wife and kids—this episode traces the journey from impulsive rage to hard-earned wisdom. Howie shares stories from a rough upbringing, over 200 fights, and a two-year voluntary anger management course that revealed the deeper wounds behind the outbursts.This isn’t just about fighting—it’s about what drives a man to lash out, and more importantly, what it takes to choose self-control, humility, and peace instead. If you’ve ever struggled with the impulse to protect, to react, or to lash out when provoked, this episode will speak to you.Key Takeaways:Why so many men use violence to solve problems—and how to break that cycleThe real root of unresolved anger and how to uncover itWhat it means to be a protector without becoming a destroyerHow accountability, community, and God’s grace can change your lifeA powerful call to make a vow: “I will be a non-violent man—unless I’m protecting my family”Whether you’re a young man navigating anger or a grown man trying to forgive and move forward, this episode offers hope, truth, and a roadmap to something better.Hit play, and give Uncle Howie half an hour—he just might change the way you handle anger forever.

Welcome to Uncle Howie, a straight-talking, wisdom-filled podcast for men who are tired of playing small and ready to grow up into the kind of man their family, their community, and their Creator can count on.Every Monday and Friday, you’ll get 20 to 30 minutes of real-life wisdom you can apply right now. No fluff. No filters. Just the truth, earned through fire and shared with heart.I’m Uncle Howie. I didn’t grow up with a silver spoon, I grew up in a broken home, in a boys’ ranch, rebuilding fences, feeding pigs on Christmas morning, and learning life the hard way. I’ve served in the Army, raised 40 kids (35 of them not mine), and lived long enough to tell you that most men don’t need more information; they need direction, accountability, and heart.This podcast is for the men who didn’t have a strong father figure… who’ve made some bad choices… who feel the pressure but want to do right… and who believe deep down that they’re made for more.Every episode, we talk about what it really takes to be a better man: faith, discipline, sacrifice, service, and stepping up when it counts. If you're not interested in growing, don't bother listening. But if you're ready to stop coasting and start leading, then this is your place.Let’s talk about goals. Let’s talk about wisdom. Let’s talk about the kind of legacy worth leaving.Because wisdom isn’t knowing something; it’s doing something with it.Subscribe now to Uncle Howie, where broken men become wise men, and wisdom turns into strength.