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The Truth Be Told Project

The Truth Be Told Project

著者: Jay Wilson
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Welcome to "Truth Be Told," the podcast that empowers young Christians to live according to their intended design. Join us on this transformative journey as we explore the intersection of faith and daily life, addressing topics like relationships, finances, career, marriage, family, and mental and emotional well-being through the lens of Christ's teachings.

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  • How To Stop Emotional Shutdown And Build Safety In Tough Talks
    2026/01/27

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    Ever bring something up and feel the room go dim even while they’re sitting right there? We’ve been there, and we built a simple system to keep both partners present when the heat rises: start soft, pause with structure, and return with tenderness so the issue gets resolved instead of recycled.

    We unpack the real engine behind “communication problems”: nervous system defaults. One of us protects connection by pressing; the other protects safety by retreating. Using clear attachment language and practical psychology, we explain flooding and the window of tolerance, then show how “design over default” turns conflict from a threat into a path back to closeness. You’ll hear exact soft-start scripts that lower threat, time-boxed asks that create containment, and mid-conversation micro-repairs that can reset tone in seconds.

    From there, we teach the pause-with-return move that respects both people. You’ll learn the precise words to name overwhelm without vanishing, and how a scheduled return time calms the pursuer’s abandonment alarm and the withdrawer’s escalation alarm. We finish with a tender re-entry structure: one feeling, one need, a single sentence of ownership each, and a tiny agreement for next time. If shutdown has become a pattern, we outline firm, calm boundaries and when to invite counseling or coaching so accountability doesn’t get delayed forever.

    By the end, you’ll have a repeatable three-move system to keep conversations safe, focused, and short enough to succeed. Try the 24-hour challenge we share and watch security grow one return at a time. I

    We walk step by step through a practical system to stop the pursue–withdraw cycle: start soft, pause without abandoning, and return with tenderness so issues actually resolve. We give exact scripts, small structures, and clear boundaries that build safety for both partners.

    • naming the default vs design frame for conflict
    • mapping the pursuer–withdrawer dynamic and nervous system flooding
    • soft start openings that lower threat and invite clarity
    • the pause with scheduled return time to prevent avoidance
    • tender re-entry with one feeling and one need each
    • simple ownership and tiny agreements that rebuild trust
    • boundaries when shutdown becomes a pattern requiring support
    • weekly handles and a 24-hour message challenge

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    Sources

    Clinton, Tim, and Gary Sibcy. 2023. Attachments: Why You Love, Feel and Act the Way You Do. Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson.

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  • I’m Not Mad, I’m Just “Fine” And Other Lies We Tell
    2026/01/19

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    Ever notice how “I’m good” can be a disguise for hurt? We pull back the curtain on emotional shutdown and avoidance, showing how they pose as maturity while quietly draining connection, joy, and even your prayer life. Using our Default versus Design lens, we map the exact shutdown cycle—trigger, interpretation, body response, protection behavior, story—and show where to interrupt it before the damage compounds.

    We walk through four flavors of avoidance you might recognize: the silent wall, the helpful escape into tasks, the joke-and-pivot, and the intellectual lawyer who debates to avoid feeling. You’ll learn simple, powerful tools to stay present when your system wants out: a design sentence that buys safety, one grounding question that shifts you into curiosity, and a two-sentence truth that communicates needs without a speech. If you’re the pursuer who ramps up when someone goes quiet, we offer regulation strategies to reduce flooding so repair can happen.

    Together we explore the deeper roots—fear of conflict, shame, pride, exhaustion, and covert control—and the real costs of avoidance: resentment that rewrites motives, intimacy that withers into parallel lives, and spirituality that turns into performance. Then we build a design practice: regulate first, communicate clearly, and repair within 24 hours. Add a weekly 20-minute check-in with two questions to prevent buildup. We also make room for boundaries when relationships are unsafe, and we reframe trust: love can hold your truth, and mature relationships can too.

    Default isn’t identity; it’s training. With steady practice, honest language, and grace, you can return instead of disappear and build relationships where repair is normal and closeness is safe. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs the language, and leave a review with the handle you’ll try this week.

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  • Re-Anchoring Your Life Around What Matters Most
    2026/01/07

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    You look up and realize the current has carried you farther than you meant to go—emotionally, in your marriage, in your habits, work, time, money, even your sense of self. That wake-up does not need a hype fix; it needs a homecoming. We walk the honest road from naming drift to returning to the Rock, making space for conviction without shame and choosing relationship before responsibility.

    We start with clarity on what re-anchoring is and isn’t. It’s not a reset button or a performance plan. It’s a Spirit-led process of turning from drift and letting Jesus become the center again. Together we explore how repentance is a change of mind and direction, not a cycle of self-punishment. We talk about the difference between conviction that invites you home and condemnation that freezes you in place. From there, we confront the subtle reordering of loves that puts good things in God’s place—work, image, comfort, control—and ask for a heart that wants him above everything else.

    Then we get practical. You’ll hear how small, repeatable rhythms can anchor your attention in a world that tugs you off course: morning Scripture and honest prayer before your phone, a two-minute midday reset, an evening examen, weekly Sabbath-like rest, and real community that knows your story. We build a simple rule of life across four spheres—God, people, work, and self—so you can move from default to design with sustainable steps. Expect clear reflection questions, grounded examples, and a hopeful reminder that grace comes before grind. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review telling us the one rhythm you’ll start this week.

    Scripture Reference: The Prodigal Son; Luke 15:11-32

    Reflection Questions:

    Here are some questions

    you can leave your listeners with

    for this final episode.

    1.Where, specifically, have I seen drift in this season?

    •Emotionally?

    •Spiritually?

    •In my marriage?

    •In my habits?

    •In my work?

    •In my time, gifts, money, identity?

    2.What have I been using to anchor myself

    instead of Jesus?

    •Achievements?

    •A relationship?

    •People’s approval?

    •Comfort?

    •Numbing?

    •Control?

    3.What is God gently convicting me about—

    where I know He’s saying, “Come home from this”?

    4.What’s one area I sense God inviting me to repent in

    (not just feel bad about—but turn in)?

    5.Where have I been trying to “fix myself for God”

    instead of receiving His grace?

    6.Looking at my “Anchor Rule of Life,”

    what is ONE rhythm I can start with this week

    as a concrete step of re-anchoring?

    7.Who can walk with me in this?

    •spouse?

    •close friend?

    •mentor?

    •counselor?

    Somebody who knows I’m ser

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    32 分
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