Modern dating has become a game of expectations — but real relationships are built on balance and mutual respect. In this video, we break down exactly how much men should spend on a first date, why the 5% rule makes sense, and how to protect your time, money, and peace from unrealistic dating culture. Whether you’re a man trying to avoid “free meal” dates or a woman who values effort but not entitlement — this episode gives both sides a reality check rooted in emotional maturity and self-respect. Timestamps:

– Intro: The dating cost debate

– The psychology behind first-date spending

– Why 5% of your weekly income is the magic number

– What expectations need to be discussed before the date

– Gen Z’s “free meal” dating culture explained

– Why financial boundaries protect your emotional health

– Final thoughts: When money meets maturity

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