In this episode of Operation Be, I’m pulling back the curtain on what security and stability in relationships really mean. This conversation started with a personal story that hit me hard and made me reflect on how often we, especially as women, are conditioned to value the wrong things when it comes to love and partnership.

I’ll share my perspective on the importance of being whole before entering a relationship, how codependency can sneak in and steal our power, and why emotional stability, communication, and reliability matter so much more than the surface-level stuff society tells us to chase.

True security isn’t just about finances—it’s about feeling safe, supported, and aligned. Let’s talk about what that looks like and why you should never settle for anything less.

🎧 Tune in now. This one is a game changer.

00:56 A Story of Long-Time Acquaintance

03:01 The Importance of Security in Relationships

08:09 Understanding Codependency

16:20 Financial Security and Personal Growth

23:16 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

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