Does love just mean good vibes and butterflies—or is there something deeper?

In this episode of The Thoughtful Christian Podcast, Tonya Lee cuts through the confusion surrounding love in a culture obsessed with feelings and filters. From philia to eros, storge to agape, she breaks down the four kinds of love—and how mixing them up can leave us empty, burned out, and wondering if love is even worth the risk.

Tonya shares her own story of heartbreak, healing, and what finally grounded her in real, lasting love—the kind that isn’t earned or performative, but rooted in Christ. Whether you’re single, married, ghosted, or just tired of swiping, this conversation will remind you: you’re not too broken for love—and God’s love isn’t just a theory. It’s personal.

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Is every bad day a spiritual attack? Is Satan hiding in your Wi-Fi router—or are we just overthinking it? In this episode of The Thoughtful Christian Podcast, we’re cutting through the weird and getting to the real about spiritual warfare. Yes, it’s biblical. Yes, it’s real. But no, it’s not always a demon behind every corner.

Tonya Lee unpacks what the Bible actually says about spiritual warfare, how to recognize the enemy’s tactics, and how to stand firm using God’s truth. If you've ever wondered what’s “of God” and what’s just a bad burrito on a Tuesday night, this one's for you.

Because the battle is real—but so is the victory.

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You’ve heard people say, “God told me…” or “I felt the Lord speak”—but what does that actually mean? And if you’ve never experienced anything like that, does it mean you’re missing something? In this episode of The Thoughtful Christian Podcast, host Tonya Lee walks through the real, practical ways God speaks to His people—from Scripture to the Holy Spirit to the quiet nudges we often overlook. Whether you’re new to faith or just struggling to discern God’s voice in a noisy world, this conversation is for you.

Clear, relatable, and grounded in Scripture, this episode will help you stop second-guessing and start learning how to listen.

What if sexual purity isn’t about shame, but about dignity? In a world where hookup culture is loud, casual sex is normalized, and freedom is often confused with emptiness, this episode of The Thoughtful Christian Podcast asks a bold question: Does God’s vision for sex still matter today?

Tonya Lee tackles the myths, the mess, and the meaning behind purity with honesty, humor, and biblical depth. Whether you’ve struggled with the pressure, the guilt, or just want to know what real freedom looks like—this episode offers more than just answers. It offers hope.

If you’re tired of shallow and ready for something real, pull up a chair. Let’s talk about it.

We live in the most connected time in human history—and yet loneliness is quietly taking its toll. In this episode, Tonya Lee unpacks the surprising reasons so many people feel isolated, even when surrounded by screens, friends, or followers. From social media highlight reels to the ache for something deeper, we explore the real roots of loneliness and how faith offers a way forward.

If you’ve ever wondered why you feel alone when everything says you shouldn’t—this one’s for you.

Some days your faith feels unshakable. Other days? You wonder if it’s all just emotion. In this episode of The Thoughtful Christian Podcast, Tonya Lee dives into the honest, messy tension between what we feel and what we believe. If you’ve ever doubted your own faith, wrestled with questions, or wondered if God was still there—this conversation is for you.

Discover why real faith isn’t about being the "ideal" Christian or emotional highs, but about a foundation that holds steady when life doesn’t.

What does it actually mean to follow Jesus? Not in theory, not in hashtags—but in real life, every day. In this episode, Tonya Lee unpacks what it means to move beyond cultural Christianity and into a surrendered relationship with Christ. With wisdom, humor, and biblical insight, she breaks down the most common misconceptions about following Jesus—and offers a clearer, more grounded view of discipleship. If you've ever wondered whether you're doing it "right," or what following Jesus is supposed to look like, this one's for you.

Anxiety. Depression. Overwhelm. If you’ve ever wondered, "Does God actually care about what I’m going through?" This episode is for you.

Mental health struggles are real, but they don’t mean you’re failing in faith or life. Today, we’re diving into where God is in our hardest moments, why so many struggle with anxiety and depression, and how faith offers real hope—even when life feels like too much.

We’ll talk about the rise in self-diagnosing, the role of biblical counseling, and practical ways to align our emotions with truth. Because your bad days don’t scare God, and your struggles don’t define you.

If you or someone you love needs encouragement, don’t miss this conversation.

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Think Deeply. Trust God. Live Boldly. And, let’s talk about it.