"Your tests are normal."

For millions of people, those four words don't bring relief—they mark the beginning of years spent questioning their own body, memory, and sanity. In this deeply personal special episode of Rooted & Rising, Dr. Carmela Maxell shares her own eight-year journey to a diagnosis of adenomyosis after years of debilitating pain, medical dismissal, and being told to "wait." Blending personal testimony with psychological research, she explores the hidden consequences of medical gaslighting: how repeated dismissal can erode self-trust, create medical trauma, and fundamentally change the way we relate to our own bodies.

This episode also examines why women, people of color, children, and individuals living with chronic illness are disproportionately affected by medical dismissal, while acknowledging the many compassionate healthcare professionals who advocate tirelessly for their patients every day. Medical gaslighting is rarely about individual malice—it is often the result of systemic biases, time pressures, and gaps in knowledge that can leave patients feeling unseen.

Whether you've spent years searching for answers, love someone navigating a chronic illness, work in healthcare, or simply want to better understand the psychological impact of not being believed, this conversation is for you.

Because normal test results should never invalidate real suffering.

Disclaimer: This episode is intended for educational purposes and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing concerning symptoms, seek care from a qualified healthcare professional. If you feel your concerns are not being heard, remember that seeking a second opinion is a reasonable and appropriate part of advocating for your health.

Patient Advocate Foundation
Free case management and advocacy services for patients navigating healthcare, insurance, and treatment barriers.
https://www.patientadvocate.org

The Joint Commission – Speak Up™ Initiative
Tools and guidance to help patients become active participants in their healthcare.
https://www.jointcommission.org/resources/for-consumers/speak-up-campaigns/

Association of American Medical Colleges (AAMC)
Articles exploring diagnostic bias, patient trust, and improving clinician-patient communication.
https://www.aamc.org

Mayo Clinic
Evidence-based information on chronic pain, women's health, and conditions that are often difficult to diagnose.
https://www.mayoclinic.org

Endometriosis Foundation of America
Education, advocacy, and patient resources.
https://www.endofound.org

The Endometriosis Association
Support, education, and research updates.
https://endometriosisassn.org

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)
Education, support groups, and mental health resources.
https://www.nami.org