Stuart McLean, a painter and decorator, shares his journey in the trades and the challenges he faced in site work.

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He discusses the toxic culture and bullying that can occur on construction sites, as well as the stigma surrounding the painting and decorating trade. The conversation also touches on the unrealistic expectations set by social media and the need for tradespeople to support and respect each other.

Overall, the episode highlights the importance of mental health in the construction industry and the need for a shift in mindset and perception. Stuart discusses the challenges he faced after his father's sudden passing and how it affected his mental health. He and his brother took over their father's business, but faced difficulties with the house builder they were working for.

They were eventually subcontracted by another painting firm and worked for them for nine years. Stuart also shares a traumatic experience on a site and the toxic culture he encountered. He eventually transitioned away from site work and now runs his own business. In this conversation, Stuart and Russ discuss the challenges and pressures faced by tradespeople in the construction industry, including mental health issues.

They talk about the lack of respect and support in the industry, the prevalence of bullying and berating, and the need for a better work environment. Stuart shares his personal experiences of feeling undervalued and struggling with his mental health. They also discuss the power of social media in raising awareness and the importance of putting oneself out there to connect with customers. The conversation ends with a reminder to listen and support those who may be going through difficult times.

In this conversation, Russ and Kris discuss various topics related to mental health and personal experiences.

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They touch on themes such as family dynamics, tragedy, attention-seeking behavior, and the importance of empathy and understanding. They also explore the challenges faced by men in opening up about their emotions and the stigma surrounding mental health in the construction industry.

The conversation highlights the need for better support and resources for mental health and the impact of societal attitudes on individuals. The conversation covers various topics including mental health, government funding, community support, personal experiences, and neurodiversity. Russ and Kris discuss the lack of training and funding in mental health services, the importance of community support, and the need for individuals to take responsibility in creating change.

They also touch on Kris's personal experiences with ADHD and the challenges and strengths that come with it. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing and embracing neurodiversity and finding purpose in helping others. In this final part of the conversation, Kris and Russ discuss Kris's journey in social media and working with celebrities.

They also touch on the misconceptions about decorators and the importance of being genuine on social media. Kris emphasizes the need to focus on passion and hard work rather than money, and how he balances his decorating business with social media. They also discuss the power of social media in challenging mainstream media narratives and the value of being oneself.

In this conversation, Russ and Dan discuss Dan's businesses, Baldilocks and RSP Fire Sprinkler Systems, and the importance of fire safety in Wales.

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They also touch on the skills shortage in the construction industry and the need for diversity and inclusivity. They highlight the significance of providing adequate physical and mental health care in the workplace and the benefits it brings to productivity and employee well-being. The conversation emphasises the importance of creating a supportive and nurturing work environment.

The conversation explores the importance of creating a safe space for employees to discuss mental health issues and the responsibility of employers to support their employees. It emphasises the need for leaders to be self-aware and empathetic, and highlights the impact of personal experiences on one's ability to understand and support others.

The talk also touches on the normalisation of talking about suicide and the need for mental health training for managers. The guests share personal stories of their own struggles and the role of mentors in their lives. The importance of creating a safe space for people to talk and listen is highlighted. The act of listening without offering advice is seen as a valuable skill. It is emphasized that sometimes people just need a safe space to express their feelings and be heard.

The concept of offloading emotional weight through talking is discussed, with the analogy of putting down a weight temporarily. The idea of using physical activities like drumming and exercise as a form of therapy is explored. The impact of trauma and grief, including inherited trauma, is acknowledged. The role of positive male role models in healing and growth is emphasised.

Dan discusses the practical impact of alopecia, such as the loss of eyebrows and eyelashes, and the importance of understanding the condition. He highlights the psychological and emotional challenges faced by individuals with alopecia, as well as the need for more support and attention. Dan shares his personal journey with alopecia and how it led him to create the Baldilocks movement, which aims to provide a safe and welcoming space for people with hair loss. He discusses the various initiatives under the Baldilocks brand, including spa days and coaching services, and emphasises the importance of monetising the movement to sustain its impact.

Stay tuned at the end of the episode for a short video from Dan on what Balidilocks has to offer