You did the work. You made the identity shifts. So why does becoming your "higher self" feel less like power and more like... boredom? Or grief? Or just plain weird?

Here's what no one tells you about an identity shift: it doesn't always feel good. Sometimes it feels like death. And that space between your old identity and who you're becoming? I call it the void. And it's where I see so many people quit, not because the work isn't working, but because unfamiliar feels unsafe.

In today's episode, I'm getting into what's actually happening beneath the surface when you're in the void. Why your nervous system might be pulling you back to chaos (even when you wanted calm). Why that "bored" feeling might actually be your true self showing up. And I'm walking you through NLP techniques and subconscious reprogramming practices to anchor into your next-level identity when the self sabotage behaviour kicks in.

If you've been doing the deep work and wondering why it feels harder than everyone makes it look... This one's for you!

Topics covered on Identity Shifts:

1. Why does stepping out of your comfort zone feel like something's wrong with you?
2. What is "the void" and why do so many people quit right before their identity shift clicks?
3. Why does your old identity get louder the closer you get to change?
4. Is that "bored" feeling actually your nervous system recalibrating? Or have you lost your spark?
5. How do you stop self sabotaging when your brain keeps pulling you back to old patterns?
6. What does parts work look like when a protective part won't go quietly?
7. Which NLP techniques actually help you anchor a new identity (not just visualise it)?
8. Why has your success been built on panic? And what happens when you finally create safety?

Connect with Rebecca Haydon:

1. Apply to work with me
2. The Subconscious Membership
3. Come say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTube

Find the full show notes & more resources at rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/your-identity-shift-feels-like-sht-good-keep-going

Your income cycles between the same numbers every month. £3K, £7K, £2K, £8K, repeat. You get momentum for two weeks, then something drops on day 15. Every single time. You can post three times a week comfortably, but four posts triggers "this is too much."

You think these patterns are random, they're not.

Your subconscious has an identity ceiling and that ceiling has specific numbers, trigger points and thresholds where your brain reads "threat" and creates the drop to bring you back.

In today's episode I'm breaking down the exact mechanism behind your identity ceiling, why your subconscious keeps snapping you back to almost there, and how to find your specific numbers so you can finally see what's been running the show. I'm showing you how studies prove that 70% of lottery winners lose their windfall within a few years because their identity didn't catch up to the money, and why the same mechanism is cycling your income, consistency, and visibility.

This episode is about awareness. We're making the invisible visible. So grab something to write with, because you're finding your numbers today.

Because you can't reprogram your identity ceiling until you can see where it's sitting.

Let's break the pattern.

Topics covered on Your Identity Ceiling Has a Number:

1. Why your income cycling, consistency drops, and visibility pull backs aren't random (and what's actually creating them)
2. How your subconscious operates like an elastic band, constantly snapping you back to your identity anchor point
3. The real reason 70% of lottery winners lose their money within a few years (and why the same mechanism is running your business)
4. Why your capability has nothing to do with your ceiling (and what actually determines where you stay stuck)
5. How to find your three numbers: income anchor, consistency anchor, and visibility anchor
6. What happens in your brain when you exceed your identity ceiling (and why it reads as threat)
7. Why awareness of your ceiling changes everything before you even reprogram it

Connect with Rebecca Haydon:

• Apply to work with me
• The Subconscious Membership
• Come say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTube

Find the full show notes & more resources at www.rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/

You're scrolling Instagram again. You see her. The one who's always launching something new, making the kind of money you want, living the life you dream about. And before you know it, you're 45 minutes deep comparing yourself to others, analysing their content, checking their engagement, and feeling heavy as hell.

This comparison spiral is not costing you only time but your self trust, your self belief, and your ability to build the business you actually want.

In today's episode I'm breaking down the limiting beliefs that keep you stuck in comparison mode, what it's doing to your subconscious mind, and an NLP technique called perceptual positions that completely flips the pattern. I'm showing you how to rewire your brain to use other people's success as evidence for what's possible, instead of proof that you're not enough.

This episode is different! We're doing the technique together, so find somewhere you can actually do this work. Because successful women entrepreneurs aren't the ones constantly checking what everyone else is doing. They're the ones backing themselves fully.

Let's break the pattern.

Topics covered on Stop Comparing Yourself To Others:

1. Why comparing yourself to others is actually your subconscious keeping you safe (and what it's really protecting you from)
2. The three limiting beliefs driving your comparison spiral and how they're teaching your subconscious you can't be trusted
3. How comparison destroys your self belief and keeps you invisible (even when you think you're being productive)
4. The exact NLP technique I use to flip comparison into evidence
5. Why studying successful women entrepreneurs from the wrong place keeps you stuck in "learning mode" forever
6. How to rewire your brain to interpret other people's success as proof it's possible for you too
7. What becomes available when you stop checking what she's doing and start building self trust instead

Connect with Rebecca Haydon:

1. Apply to work with me
2. The Subconscious Membership
3. Come say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTube

Find the full show notes & more resources at https://rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others-with-this-nlp-technique