What happens when the way you've always achieved success no longer works for the life you actually want to live?

I'm currently building two successful businesses, raising a two year old, finishing work at 4:30pm and keeping my weekends for my family and my ambitions? They've only got bigger.

In today's episode of The Subconscious Expert, I'm taking you behind the scenes of my three current non-negotiables for running Rebecca Haydon and The Subconscious Institute whilst being the present mom I want to be.

When you've spent years achieving success in a particular way, it's very easy to start believing that's simply who you are as a business owner and when your life changes, those familiar beliefs can start influencing how you approach your time, the boundaries you set and what you believe you need to sacrifice to achieve your next big goal.

I'm sharing how I've worked through those beliefs, why I've become much more intentional about the way I operate and how I'm continuing to build towards some enormous ambitions without giving up the life I've worked so hard to create.

So if you're an ambitious business owner who loves what she does but is starting to question whether she wants to keep doing things the way she always has, this episode is for you.

1. Why I've had to rethink how I operate as a business owner since becoming a mom.
2. How I've structured my working week around my energy, client calls and business responsibilities.
3. The subconscious beliefs that can make structure feel restrictive, even when it's supporting your freedom.
4. How I use subconscious work and parts work in my everyday life.

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Ever opened Stripe, seen a slower sales month than you were expecting, and somehow ended up questioning your entire ability to run a successful business? 😂

One minute you're looking at your revenue. The next, you're wondering whether people have lost interest in your work, whether you're still good at what you do and whether you need to rethink your entire business strategy.

Quite the journey for a Tuesday morning.

In this episode of The Subconscious Expert, I'm unpacking why ambitious business owners can become so emotionally attached to their business results, and how your subconscious beliefs about success, recognition and self worth might be influencing the meaning you give those numbers.

Because when you have a disappointing launch or a slower month in sales, there's a big difference between understanding what happened in your business and deciding what that result says about you.

And the same applies when things are going brilliantly.

We'll explore how your existing beliefs influence the way you interpret business performance, why you might become reactive or avoid looking at your numbers altogether, and how to start approaching your business with more curiosity.

I'm also sharing a practical way to separate the information your business is giving you from the personal meaning you're attaching to it, so you can make more informed decisions about what actually needs your attention.

If you've ever let a sales figure determine how successful you feel as a business owner, this episode is for you.

Topics covered on How to Stop Taking Business Results Personally:

1. Why business results can feel so personal: How a disappointing launch or slower sales month can quickly turn into questioning your expertise and your future in business.
2. The difference between business data and personal interpretation: Why five sales instead of fifteen tells you something about your launch, but doesn't automatically tell you what your audience thinks of you.
3. How subconscious beliefs influence your response to success: Exploring how beliefs about achievement, recognition and self worth can shape the meaning you attach to your results.
4. Why your identity as a successful business owner matters: What can happen when you've become accustomed to a certain level of success and your business experiences a quieter period.
5. The hidden problem with your biggest successes: Why understanding what contributed to a brilliant launch is just as important as investigating one that underperformed.
6. How to approach business more like a game: Using curiosity and performance information to make decisions, without treating every result as a personal judgement.
7. How to separate the numbers from the story you're telling yourself: Practical questions to help you identify assumptions, investigate what's happening and decide what needs improving.
8. Becoming a business owner who can look at everything: Developing the confidence to review your business honestly, including the parts that aren't performing as expected.

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"I just feel like I don't have the missing key. It's like everyone knows something that I don't." I hear this from female entrepreneurs all the time and I'd love to give you a wildly exciting answer that would be the key to success in your business.

But I've built 2 companies, and I fear the things that made the biggest difference in my business are also the most boring. So today I'm talking about the 5 skills behind my entrepreneurial mindset, the inner work I had to do, subconscious beliefs I had to build, and teach you about four stages of learning.

1. What actually shapes an entrepreneurial mindset?
2. How do you keep going, and do the work when there's no evidence yet that it's working?
3. How do you build bounce back ability after a flopped launch, a rejection or a difficult client?
4. What are the four stages of learning, and why do so many entrepreneurs give up at stage 3?

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