Who are you, really? When you look in the mirror, you see skin, eyes, hair, shoulders… but is that actually ’you’?

In this episode, The Stress Less Guru dives deep into the question of identity, exploring why we are not our physical bodies, but rather spiritual beings inhabiting a biological “mech suit” built to last roughly 80 years. We break down the science (your body is made up of 28-36 trillion cells, each one a living organism that will eventually die and be replaced without you ever noticing), the psychology (how we use clothing, grooming, and visual cues to project personas that may have nothing to do with who we actually are), and the philosophy (if disease can attack the mind but the soul still finds moments of lucidity, then who is really in control?).

Along the way, we explore “beautiful monsters”, people whose exterior beauty masks an ugly soul, and the reverse: unassuming people with the most radiant spirits you’ll ever encounter. We talk about why eulogies never focus on what someone looked like, why a disembodied voice across a room can feel more familiar than a face, and why the billions we spend decorating our shell might be better invested looking inward.

This one gets personal, gets philosophical, and might just change how you see the next person you meet.

Stress less. Live more.

Ever wonder why most people seem to go along with the crowd while others naturally resist? In this episode, we dive deep into the psychology behind the 70/30 split, a fascinating pattern showing that roughly 70% of people tend to comply with social pressure, authority, or persuasive messaging, while 30% push back.

We explore:

Classic psychology experiments (Solomon Asch’s conformity studies and Stanley Milgram’s obedience research)

How corporations, religions, and political organizations use this knowledge to influence behavior

Marketing tactics like social proof, scarcity, FOMO, and celebrity endorsements

Why being in the 70% isn’t always bad, and when you might need to be in the 30%

The bystander effect and what it means for personal safety

How awareness of these patterns helps you take back control

This isn’t about deep breathing or meditation, this is about education and seeing the bigger picture. When you understand the psychology being used on you, you can make truly informed decisions about when to go with the flow and when to stand firm.

Hosted by The Stress Less Guru

We’ve all heard it: “Just be yourself.” But what does that even mean when you’re a different person at work, at home, with friends, or alone at 2 AM? Drawing from psychology and decades of personal transformation, the Stress Less Guru explores why we have multiple “selves,” how to recognize which version you’re presenting in any situation, and why intentionally choosing who you become is far more powerful than passively “being yourself.” Featuring stories about dating disasters, workplace personas, and that time he got stuck on a Cedar Point ride with panicking kids. Perfect for your commute, this episode will change how you think about authenticity.

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opics: Social psychology, authentic self, intentional living, stress reduction, personal growth, William James, code-switching