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The Storms He Never Faced Became Yours

The Storms He Never Faced Became Yours

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The storms your husband never dealt with didn't disappear. You're living inside some of them right now. If you're carrying the weight of betrayal trauma, you already know what it's like to live with a man who is physically present but emotionally gone. This whole series has been about the seven things a man builds to prepare for the storms of life. This is where I tell you what all of it was actually for, and why it matters so much to you. A man who never learned to face his losses doesn't escape them. He carries them. And what he carries lands on you, as emotional distance, numbness, resentment, a shorter temper than the moment deserves. I know, because for years I was that man. I lost a marriage, a career, people I loved, and I buried all of it. When Lori married me, she married a man who was checked out and didn't know why. That wasn't her fault. But she felt every bit of it. In this video I talk about how a husband in recovery who's still playing the victim will try to hand you the blame, for his mood, his distance, his losses, and why his storms are not your fault and not yours to fix. I talk about how to tell the difference between a man who is grieving and a man who is running, so you can trust what your intuition is already telling you. And I talk about why, even when every instinct says protect him, you actually want him to go through the storm instead of around it. A man who has grieved his losses can finally be present with you. A man who's still running never can. If you or someone you love is in crisis, call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (US). Next: we start naming the specific storms one by one, beginning with loneliness. If he's ready, send him to StormReadyMen.com to take the assessment. Explore the C.U.R.E. Method at TheCoupleCure.com. Timestamps 0:00 The storms he never faced 0:32 What the seven stones were for 1:10 My worst run of losses 2:33 If he's not facing his pain 3:09 How unfaced storms show up in him 3:35 What it looked like at home 5:26 What he does with the blame 6:33 The lie: it was all your fault 7:19 A victim hands you the blame 7:40 Not your fault, not yours to fix 8:11 Why you want him in the storm 8:45 Resilience: transformed, not spared 9:57 He stops making you carry it 9:58 This week: notice, don't manage 10:20 Next: the storm of loneliness --- Next Steps & Resources: • Explore the C.U.R.E. Method: https://thecouplecure.com • Join Storm Ready Men: https://stormreadymen.com • The Basics of Rebuilding Trust: https://jayandloripyatt.gumroad.com/l/LzMJm • New to the Channel? Start with our 5 seasons of foundational content here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLitabWxO9iDI1-ByymvBpwaiTB0sozSjL We want to hear from you—how can we best support you in this new season? Let us know in the comments. To Say Thanks ("Tip Jar") - https://buy.stripe.com/28EfZh4vJ4yQbbwg6i57W02 -- Who is This Channel For? If your marriage has been impacted by addiction — whether you're the one struggling or the one carrying the pain — this channel is for you. Our marriage was nearly destroyed by Jay's compulsive pornography use. We found a way through it. Now, as Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, we help couples find the peace, trust, and connection they're looking for. #betrayaltrauma #marriagerecovery #rebuildingtrust #christianmarriage #mensmentalhealth
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