Hey friend! Ever wondered if black parents are too hard on their kids? In this episode, Ray and Tanesha dive deep into whether traditional discipline is about building strength or unknowingly creating trauma. We chat about the old-school 'seen and not heard' mindset and tackle the tough questions on love, control, and what discipline really means.

Listen in as we share personal stories, reminisce about childhood punishments, and discuss how different approaches to raising kids might affect their future. We also explore modern 'gentle parenting' trends and whether they lead to well-adjusted kids or just spoil them.

If you're a parent or planning to be, don't miss out on this engaging conversation! Let's break cycles that hurt and find new ways to uplift the next generation. Join us every Saturday for more powerful topics, and keep stirring up the conversations that matter!

Hey there, welcome back! 🌟 In this episode, we're diving into the world of celebrity love with a spicy twist. We're talking about Alicia Keys and Swizz Beatz's claim that they've never had an argument – yep, you heard that right! But is it true love, or are they just really good at public relations? 🤔

Tanesha and Ray, your trusty hosts, are putting this claim under the microscope. As a couple married for 19 years, we've got some thoughts and real-life experiences to share on whether conflict-free love is a fairy tale or a reality. 🚀 We'll be getting honest about what it means to have disagreements, why they're natural, and how they've actually helped us grow closer over the years.

Join us for some candid conversation, relatable laughs, and maybe even a few 'aha' moments. And hey, don't forget to share your thoughts! Would you trade in arguments for peace, even if it meant not being fully you? Let us know in the comments, and while you're at it, make sure to hit that like and subscribe button for more unfiltered conversations. 💬 See you next time on The Stew!

Hey there, movie buffs! 🎬 Tanesha and Ray here, catching up after a little hiatus filled with back-to-back birthdays (Tray and Rayden, we love ya!). But now, we're diving into something special—a movie that's not just entertainment, but a mirror reflecting on where we've come from and where we need to go.

We just got out of the theater after watching Sinners, and wow, it was more than just a film—it was an experience. Directed by Ryan Coogler, this movie delves deep into the origins of blues, the layers of Black resilience, and serves up a hefty dose of history and emotion. It's got everything from anger and pride to an overall sense of reflective heaviness. Plus, Michael B. Jordan's performance is nothing short of brilliant—trust us, the "twin effect" is a game-changer!

So, why aren't movies like Sinners part of our regular playlist? They should be. Films like these are dropping knowledge bombs, showcasing cultural roots, and telling stories that bind us with our past and guide us towards the future. Whether you're into history-rich films or an emotional rollercoaster, this one's an absolute must-watch. Five thumbs up, if that's even a thing!

Stay tuned for more episodes, but for now, get to the theaters and experience Sinners yourself. We promise, it's worth it! 🎥

Hey there, welcome back to another episode filled with heart and controversy! This time, Ray and Tanesha dive into the hot topic of whether single mothers can raise better men compared to two-parent households. It's part two, and it's getting even more engaging with personal stories and opinions flying around.

We touch on Boosie's traditional parenting methods and the impact of media on children's upbringing. We also tackle the roles both single mothers and fathers play in shaping resilient, successful men—including insights from iconic figures like LeBron James and Barack Obama, who were raised by single moms, and the importance of male role models.

Our conversation takes a heartfelt turn as we explore the emotional strength and independence kids develop in single-parent homes, alongside the supportive roles uncles and extended family can play. Join us for a nuanced view on modern parenting! Until next time, keep these conversations rolling in your circles!

Hey there, welcome back to The Stew! If you're new, we are your hosts, Ray and Tanesha. We dive into the conversations that genuinely matter. Tonight's discussion is one for the books! We're tackling the controversial topic of whether single mothers raise better men than two-parent households.

Some folks swear by the strength and independence single moms instill, pointing out role models like LeBron James, Barack Obama, and Jay-Z, who credit their single mothers for their success. On the flip side, others believe boys need their fathers to truly learn how to be men. It's a heated debate, and we want to hear from you!

So, did growing up with a single mom make you who you are today? Or do you believe a father's guidance is crucial? Let's hear it in the comments, or hit us up on social media. Don't be shy; your perspective could just be the game-changer in this conversation!

Hey friends! Today, Ray and Tanesha dive into a conversation that hits close to home – therapy. They question whether therapy is genuinely a path to healing or just another trend everyone's following. Growing up, therapy wasn't a topic in their communities, a notion many can relate to. When is therapy truly needed, and are people ready for the work it demands?

Tanesha shares her personal journey battling anxiety in a corporate setting and the uphill battle of finding support in a world where therapy is still a rare topic. Meanwhile, Ray opens up about the stigma of mental health discussions from where he grew up.

We get into the nitty-gritty of therapy experiences, from challenges in finding the right therapist to the ups and downs of medication. Most importantly, the duo emphasizes the critical role therapy can play when confronting childhood traumas and learning to cope with life's unexpected turns. So, what do you think? Is therapy truly transformational or just a temporary social hype?

Join hosts Ray and Tanesha as they dive into the heartfelt dynamics of family structures, exploring the intricacies of growing up in a single-parent household and now raising kids in a two-parent home. Get ready for a discussion packed with personal anecdotes, societal insights, and heartfelt conversations.

They open the floor to listeners, discussing how childhood experiences shape parenting styles, from balancing independence and shared responsibilities to tackling challenges unique to both family setups.

This episode is not just about their stories, but yours too - tune in to hear calls and insights from listeners who share their perspectives on the impacts of single-parent and dual-parent households. Whether you're reminiscing about your own upbringing or navigating the challenges of parenthood, this is a conversation you won't want to miss.

Hey there, friends! Dive into our latest chat where we reflect on the beautiful chaos of parenting, juggling different personalities. Plus, the significance of making time for those crucial date nights! 😊

We also explore the idea of moving overseas for a better life. Hear about the dreamy places we've visited and why the allure of friendlier locales and yummy (chemical-free!) food has us thinking about packing our bags! 🏡🌎

And just to keep things light, we laugh about believing everything we see on social media. Remember, not all "facts" online should be taken at face value! Join us in this candid conversation about family life, travel dreams, and more. 😂🚀