In this episode of the Especially for Athletes podcast, Dustin and Shad break down a powerful interview with NBA legend Charles Barkley that covers anger, blame, and the moment Barkley decided to stop playing with bitterness and start playing for the right reasons. Barkley shares a raw and honest story about how unresolved anger and the desire to “prove people wrong” nearly defined his career—and how one moment of reflection helped him shift his mindset. Dustin and Shad reflect on what it means to “play with an edge” versus “playing on the edge,” and how athletes, parents, and coaches alike can learn from Barkley’s hard-earned wisdom.

Key Takeaways:

• Be 100% Responsible – “She didn’t flunk you. You flunked you.” Barkley’s turning point came when he finally took ownership of his choices.
• Playing With an Edge vs. On the Edge – Passion and intensity are great. But if they’re fueled by hate, it’s only a matter of time before you fall.
• Pre-decide Your Lines – Athletes and parents alike need to know their personal limits before competition starts to avoid moments they’ll regret.
• Competing Without Contempt – Proving others wrong might be motivating—but don’t let bitterness steal your joy or define your character.
• The Power of Maturity – Barkley’s journey reminds us that true greatness isn’t just about skill—it’s about growth, humility, and self-awareness.

Whether you’re an athlete, coach, or parent, this episode is a reminder to stay grounded, play with purpose, and keep your Eyes Up and Do the Work—for the right reasons.

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Credits:

Hosted by Shad Martin & Dustin Smith
Produced by IMAGINATE STUDIO

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In episode #141 of the Especially for Athletes Podcast, we sit down with Ally Gum, a track athlete currently running at Duke University. Ally shares her incredible journey from being a Provo Bulldog in Utah to competing at the University of Utah, taking a break to serve a mission in Boston, and ultimately transferring to Duke University to finish her collegiate career. Along the way, she’s learned invaluable lessons about resilience, leadership, and what it truly takes to compete at the highest level.

Key Takeaways:

1. Winning the Hour:

   Ally opens up about the importance of setting priorities and goals. She explains how being a high-level athlete means being deliberate with every moment of your day—balancing practice, recovery, meals, and academics. She encourages athletes to “fall in love with the process,” saying that treating the everyday actions as part of the competition itself can help you get ahead of your competitors.

2. The Importance of Sleep:

   A surprising lesson Ally learned was the value of sleep in performance. She shares how her coach at Duke emphasized the importance of rest, even more than practice sometimes. Ally admits that, in high school, she didn’t prioritize sleep, but now she realizes how crucial it is for recovery and maximizing her performance.

3. Competing Without Contempt:

   Competing with respect and camaraderie rather than animosity is essential. Ally discusses the unique nature of track and field, where athletes from different teams compete side by side but can still encourage each other. She describes a moment of joy when a teammate ran a personal record and how it felt to genuinely cheer for her teammate’s success, illustrating the true spirit of competition.

4. Resilience in Action:

   Ally shares her personal story of overcoming setbacks, including a painful injury and being replaced on her team right before qualifying for nationals. Despite feeling crushed, Ally used this setback as fuel to push harder and ultimately transferred to Duke, where she’s now running her best times ever. Her story is a powerful example of how resilience is built through adversity and how athletes can rise above challenges.

5. The Spotlight and Using It to Lift Others:

   With the extra attention that athletes often get, Ally discusses the responsibility of using that “spotlight” to help and lift others. She shares how being involved in sports has given her the chance to mentor and motivate younger athletes, and how using her platform has allowed her to create a positive impact on the lives of others.

6. Leadership and Teamwork:

   Ally reflects on the importance of her teammates, who have been a huge source of support throughout her athletic career. She emphasizes that being a teammate means not only competing together but also being there for each other through tough times. Ally has learned to look out for teammates who might be struggling, just as they’ve supported her.

In this episode, Ally Gum exemplifies the principles of resilience, leadership, and compassion that Especially for Athletesstrives to instill in young athletes. Whether you’re facing a setback in sports or life, Ally’s insights on staying focused, using setbacks as motivation, and building stronger relationships with teammates will inspire you to keep your eyes up and do the work.

Especially for Athletes:

Website: https://e4a.org
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EspeciallyForAthletes/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/E4Afamily
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/especiallyforathletes/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmbWc7diAvstLMfjBL-bMMQ

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Credits:

Hosted by Shad Martin
Produced by IMAGINATE STUDIO

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Support the show: https://especiallyforathletes.com/podcast/

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In episode #140 of the Especially for Athletes Podcast, we tackle a powerful and emotional topic: bullying. We explore the critical role that athletes, coaches, and parents can play in addressing and preventing bullying, especially in schools. Through a video that went viral, we dive deep into the heart of bullying, the leadership shown by a young boy standing up to bullying, and how athletes can help in these situations.

Key Takeaways:

1. Athletes as Leaders in Bullying Prevention – The episode highlights how athletes can use their position of influence to step in when they see bullying. By simply showing empathy and offering support to the victim, athletes can create a culture of kindness. We discuss how a football coach shared a moving video with his team, urging them to be leaders who stand up for others in difficult situations.
2. Empathy First, Action Second – It’s not just about confronting the bully, but more importantly, about showing care for the victim. The real work comes from addressing the bullying and offering support by including the victim and making them feel valued. Simple gestures like asking “Are you okay?” or inviting them to join in activities can make a world of difference.
3. Bullying Isn’t Just a High School Problem – Bullying happens most frequently in middle school and junior high, with over 70% of students witnessing it. Addressing bullying needs to be a constant conversation, not just a one-time discussion. Athletes, especially those in leadership positions, can use their social influence to make a lasting impact.
4. The Heart of Leadership – We explore the deeper emotional and psychological factors that drive bullying behavior. By understanding that many bullies act out due to their own insecurities and struggles, we highlight the importance of showing compassion for both the victim and the bully.
5. The Power of Empathy and Action – We wrap up with a powerful message about how true leadership involves more than just preventing bullying—it’s about changing the culture around you. As athletes, the power of the sportlight can be used not only to uplift your peers but also to create a ripple effect that impacts your school, community, and beyond.

This episode challenges athletes, coaches, and parents to be proactive in helping those who are bullied and to set an example of empathy, leadership, and positive action. It’s not just about stopping bullying; it’s about creating an environment where kindness and respect are the norm.

Listen to the full episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Especially for Athletes:

Website: https://e4a.org
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EspeciallyForAthletes/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/E4Afamily
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/especiallyforathletes/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmbWc7diAvstLMfjBL-bMMQ

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Credits:

Hosted by Shad Martin
Produced by IMAGINATE STUDIO

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Support the show: https://especiallyforathletes.com/podcast/

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