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Some men in recovery will tell you they had a terrible week. Walk it back and you find out they were fine. Their wife had the terrible week, and they took the reading and became the reading. This episode is about the difference between a thermometer, which can only report what the room is doing, and a thermostat, which sets it. You don't get to set your wife's temperature. But you do get to decide which man walks into that kitchen, and Paul tells us in Colossians exactly what to put on before we do.

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In this episode we look at what the research actually says about why men go back — and it isn't lust. We look at how shame builds a small God out of a man's own history. And then we go to Paul, writing to men who had never been sexually restrained a day in their lives, and watch him shut both of those doors in six verses.

Can a man be truly free from porn and unwanted sexual behavior?

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Ten men looked at the same land God already promised them, and one Hebrew word sealed their fate. Efes — zero. In this episode we walk through Numbers 13 and the story of the twelve spies to see how a negative word we speak over ourselves can write our whole future. We talk about why shame keeps a man stuck in the same cycle, why the deepest wound is the lie that we're too small and too far gone, and why you can't shame your way to freedom. And we look at the two men who saw the very same giants and said the opposite thing — not because they were sure of themselves, but because they were sure of God. Are you positive? Not cheerful. Sure. Sure of what God already said over you.