In this episode, Johnny Lawrence explores the concept of confidence, emphasising that it is not merely a feeling but a relationship with oneself.

He discusses the common misconceptions surrounding confidence, the importance of self-trust, and practical strategies for building a solid foundation of confidence through integrity and small, consistent actions.

The conversation highlights the internal struggles many face and offers insights into how to cultivate a trustworthy relationship with oneself, ultimately leading to genuine confidence.

Takeaways

👉 I don't wake up confident every day; I wake up human.

👉 Confidence is not a feeling; it's a relationship.

👉 Most people have a self-trust problem, not a confidence problem.

👉 You can't think your way into being confident; you can only earn it.

👉 Confidence is the reputation you build with yourself over time.

👉 Your brain keeps receipts of every broken promise.

👉 Confidence grows in proportion to how often you keep your word to yourself.

👉 Integrity with yourself beats ambition every single time.

👉 Confidence doesn't come from outcomes; it comes from identity reinforcement.

👉 When confidence is real, it's quiet and grounded.

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The Slavey of Addiction Documentary

https://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin

In this conversation, Johnny Lawrence explores the complexities of personal change and growth, emphasising the need to let go of old habits and identities to make room for new ones. He discusses the discomfort associated with change, the importance of self-reflection, and actionable steps to facilitate growth. The conversation highlights that true transformation often requires a painful yet essential process of subtraction before addition, urging listeners to confront what they are unwilling to let go of to embrace their desired future.

Takeaways

👉 The problem isn't the inability to change, but the clinging to the old.

👉 Growth requires making room for new experiences by letting go of the old.

👉 People often want change but are afraid of losing their identity.

👉 Letting go can be terrifying, but it's necessary for growth.

👉 You can't upgrade your life without experiencing some disruption.

👉 Identifying what you're protecting can reveal barriers to change.

👉 Fear of change often stems from fear of losing comfort and familiarity.

👉 Real change involves recognising the cost of holding onto old patterns.

👉 Self-reflection is crucial in understanding what needs to change.

👉 Letting go is about alignment, not loss.

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The Slavey of Addiction Documentary

https://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin

In this engaging conversation, Johnny Lawrence speaks with Donna Lancaster, an author and mentor, about the profound journey of self-discovery and healing. They explore the importance of emotional truth, the process of unlearning past traumas, and the significance of embracing one's authentic self. The discussion delves into the complexities of human emotions, the impact of societal expectations, and the healing power of vulnerability and honesty.

Throughout the episode, Donna emphasises the importance of acknowledging both light and shadow aspects of our experiences, encouraging listeners to embrace their full selves. The conversation also touches on the role of technology in disconnecting individuals from their inner wisdom and the necessity of creating space for emotional honesty. Ultimately, the episode serves as a reminder that healing is a journey filled with both challenges and joys, and that true growth comes from facing uncomfortable truths and allowing oneself to be vulnerable.

Takeaways

👉 Becoming something is about undoing, unlearning, unravelling.

👉 To be truly authentic, you've got to be willing to be vulnerable.

👉 Where in my life am I still lying?

👉 The soul doesn't run, and it doesn't shout.

👉 It's not the destination, it's the journey.

👉 You can hold multiple truths at the same time.

👉 Begin imperfectly.

👉 Grieving is a portal that allows you to crawl your way through to living.

👉 You are your father's son, and there are many turd-bowed gifts wrapped up in that.

👉 You should regularly seek out embarrassing and humiliating experiences as part of your spiritual practice.

Donna’s Website

https://www.donnalancaster.com/

Wise Words For Women

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Johnny’s Instagram

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The Slavey of Addiction Documentary

https://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin

The Self M.A.D.E. Course

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course

The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audit

https://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeau