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The Save The Marriage Podcast

The Save The Marriage Podcast

著者： Lee H. Baucom Ph.D.
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Learn how to save your marriage and improve your relationship. Stop your divorce and restore a loving relationship. Join Dr. Lee H. Baucom for this impactful podcast that can save your marriage.© Copyright 2013-2024. All Rights Reserved by Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. and Aspire Coaching, Inc. 人間関係 個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 社会科学 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • Swiss Cheese and a Marriage Crisis

    Swiss Cheese and a Marriage Crisis
    2026/09/23
    It may be an odd preoccupation, but I pour over the scuba accident reports. I like to see how the accidents happened, what led to the accident, and how it might have been prevented. The same approach is taken to studying scuba accidents as is applied to airline accident and medical accidents. And it should be applied to marriage crises. There's a theory of accidents in systems that is called the "Swiss Cheese Theory of Accidents." Another description would be "multiple causations in spite of prevention systems." Imagine a bunch of slices of swiss cheese. Usually, a slice with holes in it won't line the holes up with another slice. If you stack them together, there are no holes all the way through the stack. But if the holes line up, something could pass right through. Something like an accident. In scuba, aviation, medical, and industrial fields, there are multiple checks and balances in place (slices of cheese) to keep an accident from happening. Marriages also have these safety zones: love, priorities, attention, affection, boundaries, communication, etc. The bigger the hole in each system, the bigger the chance that the holes match up. And the bigger the chance of a marriage crisis. To put it simply, there are multiple causations that go into a marriage crisis. To go a bit deeper, listen to my podcast below. RELATED RESOURCES Another Podcast On This Theory Importance of Connection Importance of Boundaries System To Save Your Marriage
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    23 分
  • “Earning” Love? Not the Goal…

    “Earning” Love? Not the Goal…
    2026/09/30
    Sometimes, people tell me that as they are trying to save their marriage, they actually feel like they are trying to earn back the love of a spouse. They want to know if that is what it really is -- earning back the love (and even trust). The short answer is NO, that is not the goal. A slightly longer answer is that if you are working to earn back love, you are also working on building a unsustainable and not-very-healthy relationship. That is my topic for this week's Save The Marriage Podcast: why you are NOT trying to earn back your spouse's love, why that approach is problematic, AND what to do instead. Your marriage can be saved. But not by trying to earn back your spouse's love. Can the love return to your marriage? Absolutely. But that doesn't mean it is the goal of the process. (Love isn't earned. It is given.) RESOURCES Connection and Marriage Building A WE Forgiveness and Marriage Save The Marriage System
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    21 分
  • Anxiety-Anger Anchor

    Anxiety-Anger Anchor
    2026/10/14
    Do you find yourself and/or your spouse anchored to a problem by anxiety or anger? Guess what? Anger and Anxiety -- they come from the same space! One is the inner, the other is the outer expression of fear/hurt/threat. And wow, can it ever anchor both of you to the problems -- keeping you from moving to solution. Why does the Anxiety-Anger become an anchor? How do you cut the line and get back on-track to healing your marriage? Listen to today's podcast to learn more on releasing the Anxiety-Anger Anchor. RELATED RESOURCE: Anger and Resentment Why You Need A Plan The Save The Marriage System
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    18 分
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