Discover how Elisha and Katie Voetberg balance building a strong family culture with pursuing entrepreneurial ventures, all rooted in faith and intentional living. They share practical insights on family traditions, managing flexible schedules, and creating a legacy through music, homeschooling, and more.

✨Struggling to build rhythms that actually work in your home? My free masterclass shows you how to create simple routines that are rooted in biblical priorities and actually work. Watch it here: https://www.laurenmefford.com/free-training

—CONNECT WITH KATIE & ELISHA—

• Check out Voetberg Music Academy: https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com/courses?affiliate_code=29079a
• Listen to their podcast: Now That We’re a Family https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcast
• Substack: https://elishaandkatievoetberg.substack.com/
• Magazine: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/Magazine

—TIMESTAMPS —

02:00 - Going smartphone-free 6 years ago (and writing a book about it)
04:30 - What growing up in a family of 10+ kids actually looked like
10:00 - Practical tips for homeschooling and family teamwork
12:34 - Why we stopped trying to do ALL the activities with our kids
16:00 - Choosing entrepreneurship after watching our own parents do it
21:02 - What "flexible schedule" really looks like with 6 kids at home
26:43 - The importance of focusing and avoiding burnout
30:23 - Watching our kids fall in love with music (fiddle, piano + more)
32:26 - The advice we'd give any couple wanting business + big family
42:25 - "Begin with the end in mind" - the question we wish we'd asked sooner
44:19 - Cultivating joy and margin within a busy family life
48:25 - Counting the cost before you build & living intentionally

—CONNECT WITH THE HOSTS —

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@LaurenMefford/videos

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenmichellemefford/

Website/Contact Us:http://www.laurenmefford.com

Struggling to build rhythms that actually work in your home? My free masterclass shows you how to create simple routines that are rooted in biblical priorities and actually work. Watch it here: https://www.laurenmefford.com/free-training

In this episode, we explore how Christians can best respond to cultural challenges and godless influences by staying rooted in Christ. We emphasize the importance of humility, discernment, and biblical faithfulness in navigating societal issues while maintaining a Christ-centered perspective.

— TIMESTAMPS —

02:14 - The Trap of Dancing to the Culture's Tune (And How to Stop)
04:23 - What Happens When "Standing for Truth" Becomes Your Identity

08:25 - Real Church Examples of Getting It Wrong (In Both Directions)

13:43 - How to Address Hard Cultural Issues From the Pulpit Without Losing Your Footing

14:47 - The Difference Between Christ-Like Strength and Just Being Harsh

18:35 - Walking by the Spirit When the Culture Pulls Hard

22:30 - Why Virtues Aren't Actually in Tension (In Christ)

24:26 - The Subtle Pride of Feeling Like You've Finally Figured It Out
25:19 - The Trad Wife Pendulum: When the Overcorrection Becomes Another Law

28:07 - Walking in Freedom Instead of Trading One Yoke for Another
28:59 - Final Encouragement: Follow Christ, Stay Rooted, Enjoy Your Coffee

CONNECT WITH THE HOSTS —

Youtube: Lauren Mefford, PhD, FNP-BC

Instagram: Lauren Mefford, PhD, FNP-BC (@laurenmichellemefford) • Instagram profile

Website/Contact Us_:http://www.laurenmefford.com

✨ Struggling to build rhythms that actually work in your home? My free masterclass shows you how to create simple routines that are rooted in biblical priorities and actually work. Watch it here: https://www.laurenmefford.com/free-training

— SHOW NOTES —

In this Q&A episode, Jeremy and Lauren answer some of the most common questions they've received from listeners — covering mom guilt, their faith background, how they manage finances as a family, how Lauren studies the Bible and teaches scripture to the kids, and practical tips for keeping the home going in the thick of a newborn season. It's a candid, encouraging conversation straight from the trenches of real family life.

— RESOURCES MENTIONED —

✨ GET 50% OFF THE CORE PLAN YOUR FIRST YEAR with Monarch budgeting software: https://monarch.com/referral/t6wahuoizr?r_source=copy

✨ Simply Charlotte Mason scripture memory system: https://simplycharlottemason.com/timesavers/memorysys/

✨ I Belong to God: A Catechism for Covenant Children By Richard Lusk: https://amzn.to/4unNAE6

✨ Ploductivity by Doug Wilson: https://amzn.to/4dGVTDI

— CONNECT WITH THE HOSTS —

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LaurenMefford/videos

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenmichellemefford/

Website: http://www.laurenmefford.com

✨ Check out our podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube

✨ Learn how our family went from being run down and sick to more energetic and healthier: https://www.laurenmefford.com/wellness

✨ Amazon storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/laurenmeffordphdfnp-bc

If this episode was helpful, we would love it if you'd leave a review and rate us on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — it really helps more families find this content. Thank you so much for being here. 🌿

TIMESTAMPS

0:26 - Mom Guilt: When to Repent, When to Let Go

4:40 - The Importance of Modeling Repentance for Children

9:27 - Our Faith Background (Reformed Baptist → Presbyterian)

12:34 - How We Manage Our Money

17:49 - How Lauren Studies the Bible in Every Season of Life

24:24 - How We Protect Our Sabbath (and Why It's Worth It)

30:07 - Surviving & Managing the Home With a Newborn & Toddler

36:44 - Keep the Questions Coming: How to Reach Us