Name the fear, not just the failure.

In this episode of The Work, Jake Hamilton goes beneath the surface of what we have called failure. What begins as fear of falling short unravels into deeper roots—disappointment, rejection, abandonment, and the longing for connection. Jake explores how many men mistake fear for failure, addiction for control, and isolation for strength. Together, we expose the hidden agreements that keep us bound to shame and the patterns that repeat until we name their source.

This conversation invites men to stop managing symptoms and start doing the real work, replacing the story of “I’m not enough” with the truth of who they are. Whether it’s in marriage, leadership, or inner life, Jake reminds us that breakthrough isn’t about perfection. It’s about courage, honesty, and brotherhood. Healing begins when we stop hiding and let others stand with us.

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