Do you feel unfulfilled? Author Derek Sivers – one of the all-around wisest human beings I've ever spoken to – teaches us how we can live our fullest, most purpose-filled life. Expect to learn: 00:00 Intro 03:33 How to reinvent ourselves 08:15 You don’t owe your family anything 14:05 You don’t have to fear dying alone 20:31 How to have interesting friends 21:27 Why you struggle with dating 24:35 Stop waiting for someone to save you 27:01 Why you struggle to get rich 33:09 Focus on providing VALUE 35:09 Why we need good advice 36:02 “Level 100 Wisdom” 40:10 What Derek changed his mind about 42:26 Everything is figure-out-able •••Connect with Derek: https://sive.rs•••Connect with Steve: https://www.instagram.com/stvsima/

Today’s guest is Anne-Laure Le Cunff, neuroscientist and author of the new book Tiny Experiments: How to Live Freely In a Goal Obsessed World. Expect to learn: 00:00 Intro 01:39 Procrastination – We’ve got it all wrong 06:37 Why “Hustle Culture” is so attractive 08:39 Finding purpose – why it’s dangerous 12:44 A healthy way to find purpose & meaning 14:22 How to deal with too many options 19:14 “I should…” – the most unhelpful idea 22:33 How to let go of goal-setting 24:13 Why we call people “geniuses” 26:49 Why we mean by “That’s impossible!” 29:10 The problem with fixating on outcomes 30:45 Growth Loops & Plus-Minus-Next 35:27 Communities - Why we should join & create them

Expect to learn: • How to live a full life on your own terms • How to recognize your limiting beliefs and stop holding yourself back • How to do what scares you • How to find your purpose. And much more. 🔹Video essay on limiting-beliefs mentioned during interview: https://youtu.be/GTRpP1ER5Qg 🔹 00:00 Intro 01:08 How to live by your own rules 07:25 How to discover your purpose 13:25 Explorer phase vs. Leader phase 16:56 Doing what scares you 19:48 Adjusting for our natural biases & tendencies 22:49 Being honest with yourself about your desires 24:05 Recognizing and overcoming limiting-beliefs 31:27 Beliefs are tools, which tool is the most useful? 33:56 Unhelpful stories we tell ourselves 36:12 Why Incel ideology is self-deception 37:32 "My culture is better than your culture" 39:50 Immersing yourself in different perspectives 🔹 Connect with Derek: https://sive.rs/