If you’ve ever walked into a negotiation thinking the law and the facts would do the heavy lifting, and then watched the whole thing stall anyway, this episode will feel familiar. I’m joined by Nicole Davidson, accredited mediator and negotiation trainer, to talk about why disputes don’t settle on logic alone, and what actually moves people when positions are entrenched.

Nicole brings a rare mix of commercial and human skills, with a background spanning insolvency, investment banking, learning and development, and now commercial mediation. We talk about how she found her way into mediation through Harvard grounded negotiation training, and why she believes the quality of a mediator’s questions can be the difference between a good outcome and a great one.

We also get into the common mistakes lawyers make when negotiating, including over relying on legal merit and trying to “take the emotion out of it” when emotion is often the whole point. Nicole shares the core skills she sees as non negotiable, curiosity, asking better questions, and real listening, plus why negotiation training can give lawyers a framework they can use in disputes, deals, and everyday professional conversations.

Guest Links:

Nicole Davidson:

Website: https://www.nicoledavidsonnegotiation.com.au/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicole-davidson-negotiation/

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Most workplace issues do not start as legal problems. They start as friction, fatigue, missed cues, and someone quietly thinking, I’m trying my best here and it still isn’t working. This conversation looks at how ADHD and neurodiversity can sit underneath those moments, and what employers can do early, before it becomes formal, adversarial or avoidable damage.

I’m joined by Vanessa from mlcoa, psychiatrist Dr Tim MacDonald, and Andrew Rich, partner at Gadens, to talk about what ADHD can look like at work and why more organisations are seeking clearer guidance on diagnosis, support, and reasonable adjustments. We explore ADHD as more than a label, including the strengths and challenges that can come with it, and why the right environment can change everything. Vanessa shares what she is seeing from employers, and Dr Tim brings the clinical lens on attention, stress, and performance.

Andrew then steps through the legal landscape, including how the Disability Discrimination Act and Fair Work Act approach reasonable adjustments and why you do not always need a formal diagnosis to start doing something sensible. We also talk about practical, low-drama ways to support neurodiverse employees, and how listening, role clarity, and small adjustments can prevent issues escalating into formal disputes.

CHAPTER MARKERS

00:00 ADHD in the Workplace Panel

00:18 Why ADHD Awareness Is Rising

01:12 mlcoa Concierge Support Service

01:45 ADHD Clinical View and Neurodiversity

03:25 Employment Law Perspective on ADHD

04:08 ADHD Stigma at Work

07:28 ADHD Diagnosis vs Reasonable Adjustments

15:21 Flexible Work and Managing Workload

20:00 Privacy and Disclosure of ADHD

21:44 Psychosocial Hazards and WHS Duties

24:48 Getting Ahead of Workplace Conflict

28:23 Performance Management and Mediation

32:23 Strengths of ADHD at Work

35:05 Key Takeaways and Disclaimer

Guest Links:

Dr Tim MacDonald:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-tim-macdonald-4470ba92/

Vanessa Daniel:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessa-d-b002496b/

Andrew Rich:

LinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/andrew-rich-50a84a5a

Gadens: https://www.gadens.com/

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Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is general information only and does not constitute legal or medical advice.

©2026 mlcoa | Law, Medicine & Everything in Between.

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ADHD is everywhere in the conversation right now, but there is still a lot of confusion about what it is, what it is not, and what good support actually looks like. I’m joined by Dr Tim MacDonald, a psychiatrist with deep academic and clinical experience, and Vanessa Daniel, National Customer and Legal Manager at mlcoa. Together we explore their collaboration, Law, Medicine and Everything in Between, and why bridging the medical and workplace worlds matters more than ever.

Dr Tim talks through how ADHD is diagnosed in practice, why more people are presenting for assessment, and the common misconceptions that show up in the current ADHD moment. We discuss the overlap with other conditions, the role of social media in shaping self diagnosis, and why medication is not a simple shortcut. If you have ever wondered why ADHD can be missed until adulthood, or why the clinical picture is rarely straightforward, this part of the conversation will give you a clearer frame.

Vanessa brings the medicolegal lens, including why ADHD assessments in workplace and legal contexts need more than a questionnaire and a quick label. We also touch on non pharmaceutical supports, the reality of managing ADHD in a high distraction world, and what this means for employers and professionals trying to do the right thing. This episode sets up the next instalment with Andrew Rich from Gadens, where we move into the practical workplace obligations and privacy issues that follow.

Guest Links:

Dr Tim MacDonald:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-tim-macdonald-4470ba92/

Vanessa Daniel:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessa-d-b002496b/

More From Damien:

Website | LinkedIn | YouTube

WORK WITH ME:

Book a Mediation or a 15-minute Discovery call with Damien: https://www.evolveresolve.com/booking

Website: https://www.evolveresolve.com/

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/damien-van-brunschot

YouTube: @evolveresolve

Email: damien@evolveresolve.com

Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is general information only and does not constitute legal or medical advice.

©2026 mlcoa | Law, Medicine & Everything in Between.

Mentioned in this episode:

mlcoa