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  • Leaving Seattle, Choosing an HBCU, and Getting Real with My Husband | Tamika Carlton
    2025/04/30

    In the final episode of Season 1 of The Real Connect podcast, Tamika Carlton breaks the fourth wall in a brand new format, answering unexpected, unfiltered questions from her husband, Logan. From love and personal growth to major life pivots, nothing is off-limits. Logan brings the heat with topics Tamika didn’t see coming, including her decision to leave Seattle for an HBCU and how that bold move reshaped her entire journey. It’s raw, real, and the perfect way to close out the season.


    Key Takeaways:


    1. How moving away from Seattle and attending an HBCU transformed Tamika’s perspective on life and community.

    2. The role of unexpected challenges in personal growth and resilience.

    3. What it takes to maintain authenticity while navigating relationships and big life changes.


    After you listen, let us know what you think. Like, comment, and share your thoughts!


    🎧 Stay Connected:Follow Tamika on Instagram: / tamika_carltonjbp Follow Jeofroi on Instagram: / _jeofroi Follow Roy on Instagram: / roycareyware Follow Jeffrey on Instagram: / alistjeff 📩 Join The Connect—a free weekly newsletter with real insights! https://www.tamikacarlton.com/newsletter🌍 Visit Tamika’s Website: https://www.tamikacarlton.com


    00:00 Introduction and Opening Thoughts

    01:00 Welcome to the Real Connect Podcast

    01:19 Logan's Questions Begin

    01:55 The Seattle Foundation

    03:01 Experiences at Virginia State

    03:39 Cultural Differences and Growth

    07:48 Building and Maintaining Relationships

    11:07 The Importance of Stepping Out

    13:48 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    15:56 Conclusion and Call to Action


    #TheRealConnect #TamikaCarlton #HBCUJourney #SeattleToHBCU #BlackLove #SeasonFinale #AuthenticConversations #PodcastLife #SpotifyPodcast #YouTubePodcast #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #LifeTransitions #UnfilteredTalks #CouplesInConversation


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    16 分
  • From Friends to Founders | Jeofroi | The Fashion Brand Everyone’s Watching
    2025/04/23

    What happens when two creative souls meet, click, and decide to build something real together? On this episode of The Real Connect Podcast, Tamika Carlton sits down with Jeffrey Taylor and Roy Carey, the authentic force behind the rising fashion brand Jeofroi.


    We get into the heart of how their fashion partnership was born from a college connection to building a brand rooted in loyalty, admiration, and vision. This episode is full of laughs, real stories, and gems for anyone dreaming big, building brands, or seeking deeper partnerships.


    We talk about:


    Why authentic partnerships create lasting success, how to build a fashion brand with purpose (and not lose yourself in the process), and the real truth behind working with someone you love and admire.


    📌 Key Takeaways:


    1. Be yourself and build from there.

    2. The right partner elevates both the vision and the vibe.

    3. In fashion and life, it’s all about staying grounded and connected.


    This one’s for the entrepreneurs, dreamers, and creators who know that connection is the real flex.


    🖤 Let’s get into it.


    🔗 Watch, subscribe, and leave a comment if this spoke to you!


    🎧 Stay Connected:

    Follow Tamika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamika_carltonjbp

    Follow Jeofroi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jeofroi/

    Follow Roy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/roycareyware/

    Follow Jeffrey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alistjeff/

    📩 Join The Connect—a free weekly newsletter with real insights! https://www.tamikacarlton.com/newsletter

    🌍 Visit Tamika’s Website: https://www.tamikacarlton.com


    00:00 Introduction and Excitement for the Episode

    00:58 Meet Jeffrey and Roy from Jeofroi

    01:36 The Hilarious First Meeting

    04:25 Building a Strong Partnership

    06:25 Starting Jeofroi

    14:43 Navigating the Fashion Industry

    22:03 Balancing Emotions in Business

    23:27 The Power of Authenticity

    26:42 Vision for the Future

    30:36 Rapid-Fire Questions

    35:28 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude


    #TheRealConnect #Jeofroi #FashionBrand #AuthenticPartnerships #FashionEntrepreneurs #BusinessWithHeart #JeffreyAndRoy #TamikaCarlton #RealConversations #BuildingTogether #BrandStorytelling

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    38 分
  • Why Pursuing Your Dreams Can't Wait
    2025/04/16

    In this quick solo episode of The Real Connect, I’m keeping it real with something we all need to hear—stop waiting for the perfect moment. That moment you're waiting for? It might never come. I’m sharing some personal truths, including losing my dad when I was young and how that shifted everything for me.


    This is for anyone stuck in planning mode, held back by fear, or waiting for a sign. The sign is now. It's time to move.


    Let this be your reminder: you don’t need perfection to take action; you just need to start.


    Key Takeaways:


    1. Start now—stop overthinking and take that first step.

    2. Fear and doubt are normal, but they shouldn’t lead.

    3. The connection you’re craving? It starts with you.


    🎧 Stay Connected:

    Follow Tamika on Instagram: instagram.com/tamika_carltonjbp

    📩 Join The Connect—a free weekly newsletter with real insights! www.tamikacarlton.com/newsletter

    🌍 Visit Tamika’s Website: www.tamikacarlton.com


    00:00 Introduction: Time to Follow Your Dreams

    01:34 The Urgency of Now

    02:59 Personal Stories of Loss and Motivation

    04:59 Taking Action Without Overthinking

    06:54 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Courage

    09:10 The Power of Connection and Vulnerability

    12:05 Conclusion: Your Call to Action


    #TheRealConnect #TamikaCarlton #Motivation #PersonalGrowth #TakeAction #OvercomeFear #StartNow #AuthenticLiving #DreamChaser #GrowthMindset #SoloPodcast #Empowerment #ConnectionMatters #RealTalk #LifeLessons #Motivation #SelfImprovement #FollowYourDreams #PersonalGrowth #LifeGoals


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    14 分
  • Podcast Visibility and Your Personal Brand—How to Get It Right
    2025/04/09

    You might think podcast guesting is an unlikely topic for The Real Connect Podcast, but let me tell you why it’s not.


    Real connection is at the heart of building anything lasting, whether a brand, a business, or a legacy, and guesting on the right podcasts is one of the most powerful ways to create it.


    In this episode, I sit down with podcast strategist, podcast booker, and my good friend Christina Lenkowski to discuss how podcast guesting can provide major wins for your personal brand without needing a massive following or flashy credentials.


    We explore how being intentional with your podcast visibility strategy builds exposure and authentic relationships. Christina shares how she helps entrepreneurs avoid the common pitfalls in having a solid podcast strategy, getting booked on shows that matter, and turning every interview into a relationship-building opportunity.


    Key Takeaways:

    1. Podcast success doesn’t come from appearing on the biggest shows.

    2. A solid personal brand advice plan should include a podcast strategy rooted in authentic storytelling and meaningful follow-up.

    3. Building relationships with podcast hosts opens doors to partnerships, speaking gigs, and mastermind invites.


    This episode is packed with gems, from setting a visibility KPI to building your network through follow-ups and intentional outreach. If you've been hesitant about guesting on podcasts or unsure how it ties into your brand, friends, this is your sign.


    Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more on visibility, connection, and the power of showing up real.


    🎧 Stay Connected:Follow Tamika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamika_carltonjbp

    Follow Logan on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/publicityxchristina

    Take Christina’s quiz to find your perfect podcast guesting path: https://www.publicityxchristina.com/quiz-landing-page

    Join The Connect—a free weekly newsletter with real insights! https://www.tamikacarlton.com/newsletter

    🌍 Visit Tamika’s Website: https://www.tamikacarlton.com


    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

    03:05 Christina's Role and Visibility Goals

    05:18 Importance of Podcast Visibility

    07:46 Networking and Event Strategies

    11:26 Building Authentic Connections

    20:37 Tips for Podcast Guesting

    22:00 Finding the Right Audience for Your Message

    28:17 Maximizing Podcast Appearances

    38:32 Overcoming Podcasting Fears

    41:12 Final Thoughts and Encouragement


    #PodcastVisibility #PersonalBrand #PodcastSuccess #PersonalBrandAdvice #CommonPitfallsInPodcastStrategy #BuildingRelationshipsInPodcast #PodcastGuesting #TheRealConnectPodcast #ConnectionIsCurrency #VisibilityMatters #AuthenticBranding #EntrepreneurGrowth #RealConnectionsOnly

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    42 分
  • Marriage Unfiltered: What They Don’t Tell You About Love & Loyalty
    2025/04/02

    They say love conquers all… but what about when someone eats the last piece of chocolate? Or worse!

    In this unfiltered, laugh-out-loud, and heart-filled episode, Tamika Carlton and her husband, Logan Bailey-Perkins, reveal what really makes a marriage work. Nothing is off limits, from silent treatments and stolen snacks to spiritual bonds and battle-tested loyalty.

    Whether you're boo’d up, married for years, or navigating love in your own way, this episode is for you.


    Key Takeaways

    1. Marriage is less about being right and more about being real.

    2. Independent time isn’t distance—it’s strength.

    3. True partnership means showing up, even when it’s inconvenient.


    Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real talk and real connection.


    Follow Tamika on Instagram: instagram.com/tamika_carltonjbp

    Join The Connect—a free weekly newsletter with real insights on everything relationships! www.tamikacarlton.com/newsletter

    Visit Tamika's: www.tamikacarlton.com to stay connected.

    Follow Logan on Instagram: instagram.com/friendlyphilosophy


    00:00 Introduction and Excitement for the Episode

    00:47 Marriage Duration and Early Years

    01:53 Evolving Together and Leadership

    02:58 Challenges in Marriage

    04:30 Support and Sacrifices

    07:27 Living Together and Daily Adjustments

    08:24 Conflict Resolution and Growth

    12:06 Discussing Relationship Challenges

    13:26 What We Love About Marriage

    13:57 The Importance of Independent Time

    16:08 Date Nights and New Experiences

    20:39 Loyalty and Protection in Relationships

    23:39 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


    #MarriageTalk #TheRealConnect #RelationshipGoals #BlackLove #HealthyLove #ModernMarriage #LoveLessons #RealConversations #MarriagePodcast #CouplesThatTalk #RelationshipGrowth #IntentionalLove #EmotionalIntelligence #PartnershipGoals #LoveAndGrowth

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    24 分
  • From Dating Dramas to Happily Ever After
    2025/03/26

    Dating ain’t always it, but there are options and things you can do to keep your sanity.

    Sometimes, the frogs show up before the princes and trust me, I’ve been there! In this episode of The Real Connect podcast, I’m joined by one of my favorite guests, Vincent Tobias Bell.

    We each spill some unexpected teas about our dating lives.

    Thank goodness, I'm no longer single, ya'll.

    You'll learn why I say this when you watch this episode.

    I’m sharing stories from my messy dating past (frogs and all) while Vincent reveals how he has met the best partners, AND he makes an announcement I was not ready for!

    Key Takeaways:

    1. Red flags to spot before you waste your time.

    2. How Vincent navigates dating with intention and success.

    3. Lessons from my wild dating past and what finally worked.

    Dating is a journey, but it doesn’t have to end in a dead end. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and maybe even a little hope.

    After you listen, let us know your thoughts—like, comment, and share!

    Follow Tamika on Instagram: instagram.com/tamika_carltonjbp

    Join The Connect—a free weekly newsletter with real insights on everything relationships: www.tamikacarlton.com/newsletter

    Visit Tamika's website: www.tamikacarlton.com, to stay connected.

    Connect with Vincent on Instagram: instagram.com/vincenttobiasbell

    00:00 Introduction and Welcome to The Real Connect

    00:55 Vincent's Current Dating Life

    01:47 Past Relationships and Lessons Learned

    07:43 Red Flags in Relationships

    11:31 Dating Stories and Ghosting

    13:40 The Drama of Dating

    14:06 Red Flags in Relationships

    16:08 Deep Questions for Potential Partners

    17:38 Personal Growth in Relationships

    18:44 Navigating the Dating Scene

    20:50 Hopes and Goals for Relationships

    25:45 Concluding Thoughts and Advice


    #DatingAdvice #RelationshipGoals #RedFlags #DatingDramas #DatingTips #HealthyRelationships #DatingPodcast #RelationshipPodcast #VincentTobiasBell #RealTalk #PodcastEpisode #PersonalGrowth #SelfWorth #AdultDating #RelationshipStruggles #LoveLife #DatingStories #TamikaCarlton #TheRealConnect #PodcastLife

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    27 分
  • Introvert's Guide To Networking: Build Natural Connections At Business Events | The Real Connect
    2025/03/19

    If the thought of networking makes you want to curl up on the couch and forget it even exists—trust me, I get it. Same, friend, same.

    But here’s the thing: you don’t have to drain your energy or be the loudest in the room to build real, solid connections.

    In this episode, Tamika Carlton is joined by Audrey Kwan—Founder of Agency Together, Strategist, and Coach to Seven-Figure Agency Owners, to break down how introverts can thrive in relationship-building without forced small talk, exhausting social events, or pretending to be someone they’re not.

    Learn how to make natural, meaningful connections at business events without feeling out of place.

    Audrey shares her personal insights on how introverts can leverage their strengths to create meaningful relationships personally and professionally.

    Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a career-driven introvert, or just someone who wants to connect on a deeper level without the awkwardness, this episode is for you.

    Key Takeaways:

    1. How to connect authentically without draining your energy

    2. Why introverts make some of the BEST networkers (seriously!)

    3. Practical tips to build relationships that actually matter—without forcing it

    Spoiler: You don’t need to fake being an extrovert to succeed. You just need the right approach.


    🎧 After you listen, drop a comment! What’s your biggest introvert networking challenge?

    Stay Connected:

    Follow Tamika on Instagram: instagram.com/tamika_carltonjbp

    Connect with Audrey Kwan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwanaudrey/

    📩 Join The Connect—a free weekly newsletter with real insights on relationships! www.tamikacarlton.com/newsletter

    🌍 Visit Tamika’s Website: www.tamikacarlton.com

    00:00 Introduction to the Episode

    00:52 Meet Audrey Kwan

    02:19 The Birth of Agency Together

    05:20 Building and Maintaining a Network

    10:46 The Power of Collaboration

    25:03 Navigating Networking as an Introvert

    30:02 Conclusion and How to Connect


    #IntrovertSuccess #NetworkingForIntroverts #AuthenticConnections #BuildingRelationships #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #EntrepreneurLife #BusinessNetworking #SuccessMindset #TheRealConnect #podcast #podcastlife #podcastepisode #networkingpodcast #relationshippodcast

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    31 分
  • How To Make Friends As An Adult—The Real Reason You're Struggling
    2025/03/12

    Making friends as an adult can be tough, but it doesn't have to be.

    In this episode of The Real Connect podcast, Tamika Carlton is joined by her LDBFF (long-distance best friend forever), Portia James, a Behavior Analyst, to unpack the question: Who are your people?

    Together, they discuss how important it is to find your tribe, build lasting connections, and surround yourself with relationships that align with your values and goals. With Portia’s expertise and their shared experiences, this is a real and relatable conversation about how to make friends as an adult and, when you do, how to hold them close.

    Key Takeaways:

    1. How to recognize the relationships that truly align with your values.

    2. The role of intentionality in building your tribe and creating meaningful connections.

    3. Lessons from Tamika and Portia’s friendship on staying connected despite the distance.

    This is more than just a friendship chat; it’s about figuring out who’s really in your corner and why it matters.

    After you listen, let us know your thoughts—like, comment, and share!

    Follow Tamika on Instagram: instagram.com/tamika_carltonjbp

    Join The Connect—a free weekly newsletter with real insights on everything relationships! www.tamikacarlton.com/newsletter

    Visit Tamika's website, www.tamikacarlton.com, to stay connected.

    Connect with Portia James on Instagram: instagram.com/missportiajames


    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

    01:01 Meet Portia James

    01:33 The Struggle of Finding Your People

    02:41 Navigating Relationships and Energy Sensitivity

    03:54 Accidental Friendships and Networking

    05:11 Outgrowing Relationships

    06:22 The Importance of Reciprocity

    10:01 Manifesting Meaningful Connections

    22:23 Self-Reflection and Setting Boundaries

    27:30 Final Thoughts and Advice


    #FindYourPeople #PersonalGrowth#CommunityOverCompetition#PodcastLife#RelationshipPodcast#StorytellingPodcast#InspirationPodcast#BuildingConnections#IntentionalRelationships#LongDistanceFriendship#TribeGoals#FriendshipMatters#RelationshipsThatMatter#AuthenticConnections#ValueAlignedRelationships

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    28 分