🎙️ Episode Title: Separation Anxiety: Isolating to Elevate

Description:
In this episode of The REVELations Podcast, Rev gets real about separation anxiety — not the kind children feel when they leave their parents, but the kind adults feel when they step away from the crowd.

What happens when you stop thinking like the group and start thinking for yourself? Rev explores the power of isolation as a pathway to elevation — drawing wisdom from the Buddha, Jesus, Gandhi, Thoreau, Steve Jobs, and his own journey of stepping back to level up.

This one’s about growth, groupthink, and gratitude for another trip around the sun.
Tune in, reflect, and ask yourself: Do I believe what I believe because I believe it — or because I was told to?

In this episode, we slow down and look at life through a bigger lens — a beach-sized lens. Imagine every human who has ever lived as one single grain of sand. Each grain is small, temporary, and d

It’s a reminder that while our individual stories may seem insignificant in the vastness of time, our choices, love, and presence ripple through the collective. You matter — not because you stand alone, but because you stand with.

So take a deep breath. Feel the weight of one grain of sand in your hand and the beauty of a billion beneath your feet. Purpose isn’t always found in the spotlight; sometimes, it’s in simply being part of something greater.

🎙️ Episode Title: The Right SpeedDescription:In this episode of The Revelations Podcast, Dr. Revels — or as family and friends call him, Rev — explores the illusion of being “just right.”We’ve all been there: driving down the road, thinking everyone moving slower is an idiot and everyone going faster is a maniac. But what if that moment behind the wheel reveals more than our impatience — what if it exposes how we move through life?Rev dives deep into the psychology of pace, perspective, and ego. Drawing from George Carlin’s famous quote and human behavior, he challenges us to examine how often we assume our speed, our beliefs, and our way of doing things are the correct ones. Whether it’s religion, politics, love, or life — we tend to believe we’re the reasonable ones, while everyone else is too fast or too slow.Through storytelling, humor, and introspection, Rev reminds us that we’re all just grains of sand on the same beach — each shaped by our own circumstances, cultures, and experiences. And if we want others to slow down and understand us, we’ve got to be willing to do the same for them.Key Themes:False consensus bias and perceptionEgo, empathy, and human paceReligion, politics, and perspectiveHumility in being one grain of sand among billionsMemorable line:“We all think we’re driving the right speed — but maybe, just maybe, we’re all sharing the same road.”

The Hill to Die On

In this episode of The REVELSations Podcast, Rev unpacks the powerful metaphor of “the hill to die on.” We explore what it really means to stand firm on principles, when conviction becomes strength, and when pride turns into self-sabotage.

Have you ever met someone so prideful they’d rather miss out on opportunity than admit they were wrong? Maybe you’ve done it yourself. Rev dives into the tension between standing for your beliefs and clinging to them at the cost of growth, relationships, or future blessings.

Through dictionary definitions, reflections, and real-life examples, we’ll wrestle with the hard question: Which hills are worth defending, and which ones just keep us stuck?

If you’ve ever chosen pride over progress—or if you’ve struggled to balance conviction with humility—this conversation is for you.

Stay tuned, stay reflective, and remember: not every hill is worth dying on.

Episode Description – "Sit This One Out"In this episode of The REVELSations Podcast, Dr. Revels (Rev) challenges the urge to jump into every debate, post, and trending topic. With so much noise in today’s public discourse—fueled by social media algorithms, propaganda, and the pressure to always have an opinion—Rev asks an important question: Do we really need to speak on everything?Through dictionary definitions, historical context, and everyday examples, Rev explores how unchecked commentary often leads to division, anger, and unnecessary conflict. He reminds us that sometimes the wisest move is to sit this one out—not in silence forever, but in choosing peace, reflection, and perspective over constant argument.From Malcolm X’s hard-learned lesson after JFK’s assassination to the fights happening daily online and at the lunch table, this conversation digs into why stepping back can protect your peace, sharpen your discernment, and help you truly see both sides of an issue.So before you rush to post, comment, or argue—pause. Ask yourself: Is this worth engaging? Or is this the moment to simply observe, learn, and let it pass?Join the conversation, but don’t be afraid to sit one out.

Episode: The Power of the Algorithm

In this episode of The Revelations Podcast, Rev dives deep into a force that quietly shapes our thoughts, actions, and even our relationships—the algorithm. From Cambridge Dictionary definitions of power and control to real-life examples of how social media feeds influence what we see, think, and do, Rev unpacks the subtle but profound impact of digital tracking systems on our daily lives.

Through personal stories and reflections, he explores how algorithms can fuel division, escalate arguments, and even strain friendships. But this isn’t a call to despair—it’s a challenge to take back control. Rev shares practical steps for managing what you consume online, setting boundaries with your feeds, and learning how to “disagree well” without losing peace or meaningful connections.

Whether you find yourself endlessly scrolling, constantly triggered by news cycles, or just wondering how much influence your phone really has on you, this episode will help you rethink your digital diet and reclaim your mental space.

Are you controlling your algorithm—or is it controlling you?

Opportunity to FailIn this episode of the *Revelations Podcast*, Rev digs into the paradoxical power of failure. What does it mean to have the *opportunity to fail*—and why is it a privilege not everyone is given? Rev breaks down the dictionary definitions of “opportunity” and “failure,” then explores how systems like racism, sexism, and classism determine who gets multiple chances to fall, learn, and rise—and who is denied that same grace.Through vivid analogies—babies learning to walk, toddlers tying their shoes, athletes and coaches failing forward—Rev highlights how repeated opportunities to stumble often pave the road to success. But he also examines the darker side: how some people are set up to fail upward while others are denied even a second chance.This is a call to empathy, awareness, and systemic reflection. Tune in to explore how we might rethink failure, redefine opportunity, and reshape the systems that determine who gets to grow.*I am because we are. Hallelujah. Hollaback. Peace.*

🎙️ REVELSations Podcast – The Enemy

In this episode of the REVELSations Podcast, Rev dives into a powerful and uncomfortable truth: sometimes our greatest enemy is not out there—it’s within.

We start with the definition of an enemy: someone who hates, opposes, or tries to harm. But what if that enemy is me? Through raw honesty and reflection, Rev explores how self-sabotaging behaviors—driven by guilt, anxiety, or coping mechanisms—can become the real obstacle holding us back.

From unpacking dictionary definitions to examining real-life struggles like guilt, addiction, and self-doubt, this episode challenges listeners to ask:

• Am I treating myself like my own worst enemy?

• What patterns of self-sabotage am I caught in?

• How can I find therapeutic, healthy ways to heal instead of harm?

Rev doesn’t shy away from tough realities like racism, classism, and sexism, but he reminds us that even in the face of systemic enemies, the most dangerous opposition can come from within.

🔑 Key Takeaway: We all face enough enemies in the world—we don’t need to be our own.

Stay tuned, reflect deeply, and remember: “I am because we are.”