How do our everyday digital traces—social posts, check-ins, photos—shape our identities, relationships, and the very nature of privacy in a hyper-connected world?

Kate O’Neill sits down with Lee Humphreys, professor and Chair of the Department of Communication at Cornell University and author of The Qualified Self: Social Media and the Accounting of Everyday Life. The conversation explores the rich history and surprising continuity of documenting daily life, from centuries-old diaries and photo albums to today’s social media and sensor-driven platforms.

Topics Covered:

• The history and meaning of phatic communication
• Social media as an extension of historical practices (diaries, notebooks, albums)
• Privacy, data, and the networked self
• The context collapse of online identities
• Location-based sharing and identity work
• Algorithmic identities and platform agency
• The impact of digital spaces on rituals and remote work
• Policy, power, and responsibility in platform design
• Hopeful uses of technology to build community

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”The Qualified Self – Social Media and the Accounting of Everyday Life”

Episode Chapters:

00:04 Introduction to the Tech Humanist Show & guest
00:17 The concept of phatic communication
02:27 Lee’s route into communication technology
04:42 From photo manipulation to tech distrust
06:00 Diaries, Twitter, and the origins of media accounting
12:10 Social reinforcement vs. narcissism in social media
13:33 Location sharing and its role in identity
16:35 Parasocial relationships and context collapse
19:53 Data, experience, and mismatched realities
22:33 The shifting meaning of place and time in data
24:31 Networked privacy and the collective dimension
27:39 Incentives, policy, and platform accountability
30:01 Algorithmic identity and the “qualified self”
35:26 Digital rituals, remote work, and connection
40:31 Closing thoughts: technology, humanity, and hope
41:04 Lee’s story of hope and innovation through tech
42:58 Episode wrap-up and thanks