There are too many young kids who are being taught not to own their shit. Too many kids are being taught to point a finger and look for an out. There are not enough kids who are learning to be disciplined and who are learning how to CYA. And what is CYA you ask? Cover your own ass because if you’re going to be a complainer or point fingers you better be covering your own ass. Let’s talk about teaching ownership.

Coaches this one’s for you. More often than not what we do that makes the biggest impact is what happens outside the lines not in between the lines. Let’s talk about it.

There is something about being in that zone as a man who is only concerned with his mind, body and spirit, his finances, his health and his children, and you know you’re in that zone when a woman approaches you or walks by you and gives you a compliment and you tip your hat tell her thank you and you keep it moving. You’re in a zone of no longer wanted to be part of the swipe culture and no longer chasing anybody that compliments you You are now in the zone where you expect more from anybody you encounter not just a simple hello.

One of the biggest problems I see with today’s society is that we struggle to have difficult talks. Anytime someone has a different opinion than ours. We get really defensive combative and we shut everybody out. The most damaging thing that we do is we stop talking. There are no solutions that have ever come from people not talking. You have to be able to communicate with people who don’t agree with you or see the world like you do. Let’s talk about it.

Keep playing the game…watch what it leads to. A wise word to those people who are “So Busy” but are looking for love.

Is it ever enough? Like is it ever truly enough for someone to stay with someone?

I have no problem admitting that I am in a storm smack dab in the middle. It’s a very tough moment for me, but notice I said moment. I will get through this somehow someway and I will keep faith in God. But sticking to the script I am going to share with all of you so those of you going through the same Know that you are not alone and are encouraged to push through.

This little thing this little adjustment helped me have such a better coparenting relationship with my ex-wife. And if you can get there, I promise you it’s beneficial for you and your children.