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  • Barbie, Ken, and the Problem with Christian Dating
    2026/02/02

    In this episode of The Omar K. Mills Show, Omar sits down with Lorenzo for a raw, honest conversation about Christian dating, relationships, and the mistakes too many people make before they ever say “I do.”

    They talk about why friendship matters more than chemistry, how unhealed wounds shape expectations, and why wanting marriage isn’t the same thing as being ready to be a husband or a wife. From misplaced strength to misunderstood submission, from cultural scripts to biblical design, this conversation challenges popular Christian dating advice—and replaces it with wisdom rooted in truth, maturity, and responsibility.

    This isn’t about bashing men or women. It’s about calling both higher.

    If you’re single, dating, or thinking about marriage, this episode may confront you—but it will also help you see a better way forward.

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    17 分
  • Money is the Report Card of Life
    2026/01/26

    In this episode of The Omar K. Mills Show, I sit down with A.C. Meehan, author of the New Foundation Project series, for an honest conversation about money, ambition, worth, and the quiet comparisons that creep in as we move through our careers.

    We talk about what it’s like to reach a stage of life where experience and wisdom are valued—but recognition, promotion, and “the shiny projects” don’t always follow. Through personal stories, mentorship moments, and unfiltered reflection, we explore how money can slowly become a scorecard for identity, even when we know better.

    This isn’t an episode about financial advice. It’s about how easily self-worth attaches itself to outcomes, titles, and compensation—and how grace interrupts that narrative.

    In this episode:

    • Why money can feel like a measure of value
    • The tension between impact and recognition
    • Mentorship, legacy, and unseen influence
    • Comparison, ambition, and the struggle to be content
    • Grace as an answer, not a shortcut

    This conversation is thoughtful, vulnerable, and unfinished—by design. If you’ve ever questioned your worth in quiet moments, this episode is for you.

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    13 分
  • When Love Delays
    2026/01/16

    In this episode of The Omar K. Mills Show, we walk slowly through John 11, the story of Lazarus, Martha, and Mary—and one of the most difficult truths in Scripture: sometimes love delays.

    Jesus knows Lazarus is sick.
    Jesus knows Lazarus will die.
    Jesus loves this family.
    And still… He waits.

    This teaching explores what God may be doing when His timing feels confusing, painful, or even absent. We look at how delay is not indifference, how love and suffering can coexist, and why God’s purposes are often bigger than the relief we’re asking for in the moment.

    This isn’t a rushed reading or a tidy explanation. It’s an invitation to sit in the tension of the text—and to trust God when obedience means waiting without answers.

    In this episode:

    • Why Jesus delays instead of rushing to fix the problem
    • What John 11 teaches us about love, trust, and timing
    • The difference between God’s absence and God’s restraint
    • How faith grows in the space between prayer and fulfillment

    If you’ve ever wondered where God is when things don’t make sense, this episode is for you.

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    21 分
  • What Nobody Tells You About Christian Dating
    2026/01/12

    In this episode of The Omar K. Mills Show, I’m joined again by my man Lorenzo for an unfiltered, thoughtful conversation about dating, abstinence, and the realities of pursuing marriage with integrity in a culture that doesn’t make it easy.

    We talk candidly about online dating, expectations around sex, finances, and emotional honesty—and how faith doesn’t remove temptation, but does force you to be honest about it. Lorenzo shares personal stories about navigating desire, self-esteem, and conviction, including moments where obedience came late, awkwardly, and without polish.

    This isn’t a rulebook episode.
    It’s not about pretending temptation isn’t real.
    And it’s definitely not about being “holier than thou.”

    It’s a real conversation between two men wrestling with what faithfulness looks like before marriage—when no one is watching, and when the cost feels high.

    Topics include:

    • Dating as a Christian in your 30s and 40s
    • Abstinence and honesty (especially when it’s uncomfortable)
    • Online dating and modern expectations
    • Why conviction doesn’t mean perfection
    • Learning to avoid bad situations instead of testing your limits

    As always, this episode isn’t about shame—it’s about clarity, humility, and walking out faith in real life.

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    18 分
  • Got Any Gum?
    2026/01/04

    In this episode of The Omar K. Mills Show, I sit down with A. C. Meehan, author of The New Foundation Project, a blend of historical fantasy and speculative fiction, set in a new world. We reflect on a childhood moment that seemed small at the time—but carried a lesson that lasted a lifetime.

    What begins as a simple memory from preschool becomes a window into how we learn belonging, worth, and acceptance far earlier than we realize. Together, we talk about how children make sense of rejection, how value can quietly become transactional, and how moments we barely remember can shape the way we see ourselves—and others—for years.

    This conversation isn’t about assigning blame or reliving pain. It’s about listening carefully to what early experiences teach us, and how wisdom sometimes comes to us long before we have the words to explain it.

    As always, this is not a debate and not a sermon—just an honest, thoughtful conversation about life, memory, and the quiet ways God forms us over time.

    Topics include:

    • Childhood belonging and rejection
    • How worth can become transactional
    • Memory, identity, and reflection
    • Seeing formative moments with adult clarity

    OKMS exists to help people know God more truly and make God more known—through conversation, teaching, and stories that invite reflection rather than reaction.

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    24 分
  • Can We Trust The Bible?
    2025/12/29

    Has the Bible been changed over time? Was it edited to control people? What about contradictions, missing books, or translation errors?

    In this episode of the Omar K. Mills Show, we take an honest, thoughtful look at the reliability of Scripture — not from blind faith, but from history, archaeology, manuscript evidence, and fulfilled prophecy.

    Drawing on biblical scholarship, ancient manuscripts, archaeological discoveries, and probability theory, we explore how the Bible was written, preserved, and transmitted—and why it stands apart from every other ancient text. We’ll also look at why this book has endured for thousands of years, shaped civilizations, and continues to transform lives across cultures.

    This isn’t a sermon. It’s a careful walkthrough for anyone who’s ever wondered whether the Bible deserves real trust — or a second look. Whether you’re skeptical, curious, or quietly questioning, this conversation is for you.

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    21 分
  • All the Wrong Reasons
    2025/12/28

    In this episode of The Omar K. Mills Show, Omar sits down with LaVees for a candid conversation about engagement, marriage, money, fear, and the danger of making lifelong decisions for the wrong reasons.

    Through a personal story marked by insecurity, financial pressure, and misplaced motivation, Omar reflects on a season where engagement became less about covenant and more about fear, self-worth, and trying to stabilize life through another person. What follows is an honest examination of how good intentions can still lead to harmful outcomes when wisdom is ignored and timing is forced.

    This is not a story told from a place of triumph, but from maturity gained through loss. Together, they explore how financial instability, external pressure, and emotional dependency can quietly shape decisions that feel spiritual in the moment but are rooted in fear rather than discernment.

    The conversation also wrestles with regret—wondering what might have been—while ultimately recognizing mercy in what did not happen. Sometimes what feels like loss is actually protection.

    This episode is for anyone who has:

    • Confused readiness with desperation
    • Tried to solve internal instability with external commitment
    • Felt the weight of financial pressure in relationships
    • Looked back and realized wisdom came too late
    • Wondered whether unanswered prayers were actually grace

    It’s a conversation about slowing down, telling the truth about our motives, and trusting that God’s restraint can be as loving as His provision.

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    16 分
  • Top 10 Things NOT To Do on a First Date
    2025/12/26

    In this episode of The Omar K. Mills Show, Omar sits down with Lorenzo for a candid, humorous, and surprisingly thoughtful conversation about first dates—and the common mistakes that can quietly derail a potential relationship before it ever begins.

    What starts as a “top 10” list quickly turns into a broader discussion about self-awareness, intentionality, and why dating isn’t about impressing someone, but about discernment. From oversharing and bad table manners to bringing family into the picture far too early, Omar and Lorenzo unpack how small choices reveal much bigger priorities.

    This isn’t a checklist episode, and it’s not about rigid rules. It’s about learning how to show up as a grown adult who knows who they are, where they’re going, and what they’re actually looking for.

    Along the way, the conversation touches on:

    • Why first dates should stay simple
    • The importance of manners, boundaries, and awareness
    • How oversharing can sabotage connection
    • Why dating is about gathering information, not giving everything away
    • The role of purpose and non-negotiables in choosing a partner

    Equal parts practical and reflective, this episode reminds listeners that dating well isn’t about perfection—it’s about clarity, respect, and knowing what kind of partnership you’re actually pursuing.

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    15 分