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The New Fatherhood

The New Fatherhood

著者： Kevin Maguire
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 "Like one big group text with other guys fumbling their way through fatherhood." — Esquire

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  • The Good Side of Anger with Sam Parker

    The Good Side of Anger with Sam Parker
    2026/04/17

    We've all been told that anger is a problem—something to control, suppress, or apologise for. But what if the real problem isn't that we have too much anger, but that we have no idea what to do with it?

    This month on the podcast, I sat down with Sam Parker—senior editor at British GQ and author of Good Anger: How Rethinking Rage Can Change Our Lives—to dig into why so many fathers have a broken relationship with this most fundamental emotion. Sam argues that anger isn't the enemy. Aggression is. And that learning to feel anger without shame or fear might be one of the most important things we can do—for ourselves, our partners, and our kids.

    We talk about the moment each of us realised we'd been burying our anger for decades, what happens in your body when a boundary gets crossed, and why repairing after you've lost your temper matters more than never losing it in the first place.

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    Where to Find Sam Parker

    Sam's website

    Find Sam’s book Good Anger on Amazon and Bookshop.org

    The Good Father newsletter on Substack

    Episode References

    The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson

    The Gottman Institute: The Four Horsemen

    Kevin's essay: "Where's My Jenny?"

    The New Fatherhood Therapy Fund

    Inside Out (Pixar, 2015)

    Timestamps

    00:00 — welcome to the anger episode

    03:39 — meet Sam's family: Jessie, baby Olive, and life in Kent

    04:32 — rethinking what anger is for

    05:18 — when anger gets swept under the carpet

    06:15 — suppression vs. aggression: the anger problem nobody talks about

    07:10 — the "I don't really get angry" myth

    9:49 — anger does not have to equal violence

    12:39 — how anger can manifest in the body

    14:06 — what is "good anger"?

    14:48 — the discomfort caveat

    17:45 — Sam's boxing breakthrough

    19:11 — anger can be clarifying

    20:44 — how anger hijacks the brain

    27:50 — managing anger between siblings

    33:05 — getting mad near a newborn

    39:00 — dad's role was disciplinarian

    42:24 — resentment as anger's cousin



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    54 分
  • Dads Get Messy at This Year’s Oscars, with Bilge Ebiri

    Dads Get Messy at This Year’s Oscars, with Bilge Ebiri
    2026/03/11

    From Jay Kelly to Sentimental Value to One Battle After Another, Oscar season 2025 is overflowing with dads—absent ones, ambitious ones, ones who chose career over family and are now reckoning with the cost. We dig into how this year's best films moved beyond the “scary dad" trope to give us fathers who are flawed, human, and genuinely complicated, and what that shift says about how the world is thinking about fatherhood right now.

    Credits

    Host: Kevin Maguire

    Managing Producer: Elizabeth Van Brocklin

    Sound Editor: Sam Williams

    Theme Music: Sohn

    More of Bilge’s work:

    Bilge’s writing on Vulture

    Bilge’s dad’s film notebooks

    Review of Train Dreams

    Review of Jay Kelly

    Review of Hamnet

    Review of One Battle After Another

    Bilge’s Dad Watchlist

    The Champ

    The Shining

    Bigger Than Life

    Train Dreams

    Jay Kelly

    One Battle After Another

    Walking with Dinosaurs

    Other show references:

    Subscribe to TNF newsletter

    Kevin’s essay on Train Dreams

    Timestamps

    00:00 Hello

    00:31 Becoming Nemo’s Dad

    03:30 Let’s talk movies!

    05:00 Film diaries c. 1940s

    06:10 Apocalypse Now

    07:20 Present dad award

    10:43 Core memory of The Shining

    15:00 Masculinity crisis

    16:48 [SPOILERS] Train Dreams

    19:15 Providing vs. protecting

    19:58 [SPOILERS] Hamnet

    20:20 [SPOILERS] Sentimental Value

    21:04 [SPOILERS] Jay Kelly

    23:50 [SPOILERS] More Train Dreams

    27:24 [SPOILERS] Leo is best film dad

    29:10 The Shining easter egg

    31:21 Letting go in the teen years

    33:00 Watching movies with your kids

    36:43 The outcast dinosaur



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    39 分
  • The Unexpected Loneliness of Fatherhood with Sam Graham-Felsen

    The Unexpected Loneliness of Fatherhood with Sam Graham-Felsen
    2026/02/10
    Why do so many dads lose touch with their friends — and why does no one talk about it?Kevin Maguire sits down with writer Sam Graham-Felsen for a candid conversation about male loneliness, modern masculinity, and the friendships fathers quietly need but rarely prioritise. From the myths of toughness to the courage it takes to reach out, this episode challenges the idea that men are supposed to do parenthood alone.Where to Find Sam Graham-FelsenWebsite: https://www.samgf.comSam's novel "Green": https://www.amazon.com/Green-Novel-Sam-Graham-Felsen/dp/0399591141Episode ReferencesSam’s Badlands essay: “I Tried to Toughen Up My Son. Things Didn’t Go as Planned.” https://www.nytimes.com/2025/10/19/magazine/national-parks-badlands-roosevelt-south-dakota.htmlSam’s essay on male loneliness: “Where Have All My Deep Male Friendships Gone?" https://www.nytimes.com/2025/05/25/magazine/male-friendships.htmlKevin’s essay, “Where’s My Jenny?” https://www.thenewfatherhood.org/p/wheres-my-jennyBrooklyn Stroll Club (example of dads building community): https://brooklynstrollclub.substack.com/p/welcome-to-brooklyn-stroll-clubMan of the Year podcast episode on the “TCS method” (Text/Call/See): https://bleav.com/shows/man-of-the-year/episodes/86-how-often-should-you-see-your-friends-aka-the-tcs-method/Theodore Roosevelt and the Strenuous Life: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Strenuous_LifeDadurdays: IRL meetups in a city near you https://www.thenewfatherhood.org/p/introducing-dadurdays-irl-meetupsMen calling to wish each other goodnight https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNRyyCCyx/Ray Charles — "America the Beautiful" (YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2FXN1Z6Q004Bruce Springsteen — "Badlands" (Official Lyric Video, YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a-ME4n-mKKcWoody Guthrie — "This Land Is Your Land" (YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxiMrvDbq3sTimestamps00:00 — Why adult men lose friendships (and why it matters)02:00 — The loneliness gap in early fatherhood: “Where are the people checking on me?”04:00 — The first time Sam felt like a dad (Prospect Park leaf walks)08:00 — The Badlands trip, Theodore Roosevelt, and the myth of “toughening up your son”12:00 — Bullying, humiliation, and how confidence collapses in unexpected places15:00 — What’s changing for boys (gender norms) vs what’s worsening (cyberbullying)18:00 — Helping kids pick friends: “nice” and shared interests over status21:00 — Writing publicly about loneliness: why it’s hard, and why it lands22:00 — The cultural script: dads should provide, achieve… and outgrow friendship23:00 — Friendship as the most underrated mental health strategy25:00 — “Where’s my Jenny?” + being the dad who reaches out first26:00 — The “intruder dad” feeling in mum-heavy parenting spaces29:00 — Dad Days + WhatsApp groups: you get out what you put in33:00 — TCM/TCS method: text weekly, call monthly, see quarterly35:00 — Why phone calls are weirdly hard (and how to make them work)36:00 — Voice notes + “private podcasts” as friendship glue37:00 — The “asynchronous book club” idea Get full access to The New Fatherhood at www.thenewfatherhood.org/subscribe
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    38 分
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