We’ve been taught that desire is dangerous… that wanting different, or especially ‘more’, makes us selfish, ungrateful, or “too much.” But what if the truth is the exact opposite?

In this powerful and honest conversation with coach, speaker, and mother of two Diera Story, we explore the real cost of suppressing your desires: from subtle self-abandonment to full-blown sabotage.

Whether you’re feeling stuck, anxious, unfulfilled, like your life no longer fits, or even depressed… this episode is your invitation to come home to not just your desires, but to you. Because your desires are in incredibly important part of you.

And ignoring your desires? It doesn’t make them disappear, it just causes them to scream louder through burnout, breakdowns, and ultimately self-sabotage. And the moment you start listening? That’s when your power, your peace, and your magnetism come back online.

-Why suppressing your desires leads to anxiety, misalignment, and burnout

-How to reconnect with your truth after years of self-abandonment

-Operating from wounded masculine vs. healthy masculine and why women need to learn the difference

-Why gratitude and wanting more can (and should) coexist

-The truth about sabotaging aligned relationships and opportunities

-How your life falling apart can actually be the beginning of it actually all coming together

-The power of energetic cord cutting and closing the door on what’s no longer in alignment

-Why honoring your desires makes you more magnetic, not less

-How to take radical responsibility without spiraling into shame

-Practical ways to rebuild self-trust and start choosing from power

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What if it’s not love you’re feeling... it’s a pattern playing out?

In this eye-opening episode, I’m joined by trauma-informed manifestation coach Kim Velez to explore the raw truth behind why we stay hooked on the wrong people — even when we know they’re not choosing us. From chasing emotionally unavailable partners to rejecting healthy love without even realizing it, we unpack what’s really running the show: your subconscious beliefs about your worth.

If you’ve ever found yourself obsessing over a situationship, settling for breadcrumbs, or wondering why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men, this episode is your wake-up call — and your roadmap out. Because the moment you stop trying to prove you’re worthy is the moment you start becoming magnetic to the love you actually deserve.

We Chat:

• Why you can’t out-manifest your trauma
• How self-worth directly affects who you attract
• When affirmations become emotional gaslighting
• Why you keep dating the same man in a different body
• The real reason you’re not attracted to healthy love (yet)
• How to rewire your self-concept + break the pattern for good
• Why radical responsibility = magnetic energy
• The body’s role in healing your relationship patterns
• How healing your connection with God impacts your love life
• Why the love you’re chasing isn’t about him — it’s about your past

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You can’t become magnetic by bullying yourself into healing and growth. True transformation starts with radical self-acceptance — and in this episode, I’m joined by the brilliant Britt Frank to show you exactly how to do that through the powerful practice of parts work (Internal Family Systems).

Britt is a licensed therapist, trauma specialist, and author of The Science of Stuck, and her story alone is a powerful testament to what it means to come home to yourself (yes, even the “worst” parts). From surviving a cult and meth addiction to becoming a voice for grounded, embodied healing, she brings both depth and practicality to what can often feel like a messy inner journey.

We talk about why perfectionism in healing is a trap, how your inner critic is often just your inner child in disguise, and why integrating — not fixing — all your parts is what actually makes you magnetic. If you’re ready to stop waging war on yourself and start becoming hot, healed, and whole, this episode is for you.

We Chat:

-Britt’s story — from meth addiction in a cult to becoming a therapist

-How your inner critic is actually trying to protect you

-Self-parenting, parts work, and the myth of needing to “fix” yourself

-Why integration (not perfection) is the key to next-level magnetism

-Neutrality vs. forgiveness in healing, and why you should prioritize neutrality first

-Trauma, cognitive bias, and how your brain is (believe it or not) *actually* on your side

-How manifestation gets distorted by toxic positivity

-How to start doing parts work and how to use tools like ChatGPT to support yourself

-Why true personal power starts when you stop abandoning yourself

Where to Find Britt:

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My Instagram: @jordanlaurelle - come say hi!

For coaching inquiries: jordanlaurellecoaching@gmail.com or book a discovery call HERE.

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