Let's face it, being single and Christian in a non-Christian world is not easy. There is all kinds of temptations and influences that throw mixed signals at us causing confusion, distorting the original design that God had in mind. Add in the over-sexualized entertainment industry plus social media full of "influencers" that have manicured pictures and videos into the mix, it is understandable how Christian singles are like on a remote island without a map.

Our friends join us to chat about it all!

Some topics discussed:

• *Do you have to share the same religion or beliefs?

  *When you “don’t feel peace” is it really because it’s not God’s will? Or could it just be fear?

  *Alot of people say christian’s standards are too high… thoughts?

  *What are non-negotiables? Can they be different for everyone?

  *Is there a THE ONE? Or does God let you choose?

  *Is it true that you have to fully surrender your desire to marry & then you’ll get it?

  *What’s the role of a boyfriend in a relationship? Many want to “lead” while dating, is that bad?
  

  
  

Nuestros amigos Joel y Midy García nos acompañan para compartir su historia desde conocerse a casarse y ahora ser pastores juntos. Empresarios exitosos; Joel tiene su propia compañía de construcción y Midy dueña de propiedades AirBnB y también consejera familiar cristiana.

No te quieres perder esta conversación!

We've all been there probably. In some fashion or another. You tell your mom how you really feel and she says "well, I guess I'm just a terrible parent" or the "after all I've done for you, that's how you treat me?".

How about when you say you don't want to go to that family gathering because uncle Frank always gets wasted, and starts to get too touchy and makes you uncomfortable? "Oh honey, but that's just uncle Frank! He doesn't mean anything by it, it's just how he is! You'll be alright..."

The list goes on and on... so many examples of toxic family. This episode is made to give you tools and language to finally set healthy boundaries, and learn that word you were too afraid to use as a child... NO.

The episode starts with several examples we've seen & heard, the "how-to" part starts around the 45:00 mark.

Segment 1: Spotting the Toxicity

Segment 2: Why It’s So Hard

Segment 3: The How-To Guide

Step 1: Set Clear Boundaries

Step 2: Communicate Those Boundaries—Firmly, Calmly, and Without Apology

Step 3: Expect Pushback

Step 4: Limit or Cut Contact (If Needed)

Step 5: Do the Inner Work

f this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who might need to hear it. And if you’ve got a story or tip about dealing with toxic family, DM us! We'd love to hear from you.