In this episode of 'Her New Lens,' host Tricia Rose Stone is joined by Elaine Silver, a collaborative divorce attorney with decades of experience helping families transition out of marriage with dignity, healing, and respect. Elaine shares insights on how collaborative divorce offers a cooperative, emotionally supportive alternative to traditional court battles. They discuss the importance of honoring the past without being defined by it, the role of compassion and empathy during divorce, and how to move forward with a positive vision for the future. Elaine explains how collaborative divorce works, the benefits it offers, and how it differs from mediation. Listeners will also hear about the positive impact of having support systems in place during divorce, and how to find collaborative practitioners in their area. This episode provides valuable information and compassionate guidance for anyone navigating a significant life transition, especially divorce.

00:00 Introduction to Her New Lens

00:25 Meet Elaine Silver: Collaborative Divorce Attorney

00:47 Understanding Collaborative Divorce

02:04 The Origins of Collaborative Divorce

03:17 Challenges of the Traditional Court System

07:25 The Role of Compassion in Divorce

12:58 Building a Supportive Team

21:17 Collaborative Divorce vs. Mediation

23:04 Lawyers' Role in Collaborative Divorce

24:31 Emotional Guidance in Divorce

27:27 Compassion in Divorce

32:21 Collaborative Divorce Process

37:44 Finding Collaborative Divorce Resources

41:40 Conclusion and Final Thoughts