Dating in your 30s, 40s, and 50s feels completely different than it did in your 20s — and in this episode, I explain why.

I break down what really changes as you get older: losing social circles, the limits of dating apps, settling out of fear, and why so many men feel stuck, discouraged, or hopeless after divorce or long-term relationships. I also share exactly what I’m doing right now to rebuild my dating life from the ground up — including my 10-approaches-a-day challenge here in Brisbane and the real results, struggles, and mindset shifts that come with it.

This isn’t a motivational speech or a “just be confident” episode. It’s an honest look at what it actually takes to create an abundant dating life later in life — the work, the discomfort, the reps, and the internal battles most men avoid.

If you’re over 30 and feel like dating apps aren’t working, social circles are gone, and you don’t want to settle out of loneliness, this episode will hit home.

We also talk about:

• Why most men settle for relationships they don’t really want

• The hidden cost of relying only on dating apps

• Why cold approach feels scary — but changes everything

• How limiting beliefs keep men stuck after divorce

• What self-improvement actually does for your dating life

I’ll also ask you directly: are you happy with your dating life — or just tolerating it?

Listen in, reflect honestly, and decide whether you’re willing to do what most men won’t

It's easy to quit again when you've already quit the first time

I am moved in to my new apartment in downtown Brisbane and the results have been crazy