Your team didn’t wake up cynical.

They learned it.

When standards feel flexible, decisions feel opaque, and feedback feels empty, people stop believing the process is about performance. They start believing it’s about proximity.

That’s when effort drops, trust erodes, and your program earns a label you never intended: a good ole boy process.

If your best people are disengaging, the issue isn’t motivation.

It’s the system they’ve experienced.

LEADER SELF-ASSESSMENT CHECKLIST

Use this to pressure-test any awards, development, stratification, or selection process you own.

Clarity

Are the standards clearly defined, published, and understood before the cycle begins?

Could a junior member articulate what “right” looks like without guessing?

Consistency

Are standards applied the same way regardless of name, rank, or relationship?

Would similar performance produce similar outcomes across the board?

Transparency

Can you explain how decisions were made without hiding behind generalities?

Do participants understand not just what happened, but why?

Feedback

Does every participant receive specific, actionable feedback tied to observable performance?

Would that feedback help them improve for the next cycle?

Documentation

Are decisions recorded in a way that can be reviewed and defended later?

Could another leader step in and understand the rationale without re-creating it?

Alignment

Do the behaviors you reward clearly reinforce mission execution, professionalism, and trust?

Are you developing people, or just selecting winners?

Trust Check

If outcomes were shared without names attached, would they still make sense?

Would you be comfortable explaining the results to the person who fell just short?

If you answered “no” or hesitated on more than one of these, your process may already be teaching lessons you never intended.

Fix the process, and you fix the perception.

Protect the process, and you protect the culture.

Real talk for real Airmen. I drop blunt, battle-tested insight on leadership, excellence, discipline, and the warrior ethos.

No fluff, no shortcuts, no easy bus. Just the truth, the standard, and how to rise above average. Charge into the storm & Stay hard to kill.

Stay in the Fight: Building Mental Durability for Airmen

In this episode of The Informed Airman, we dig into what it really means to be ready for the fight, and to stay in it.

Chief Vaden sits down with Capt Sam Alex, U.S. Air Force Clinical Psychologist, to break down the mental and emotional foundations every Airman needs to endure and perform under pressure.

Together they unpack:

How to build a strong psychological foundation that supports mission readiness.

What it means to be resistant and durable — not just resilient after the fact.

Why “coping ugly” can actually be a healthy, adaptive response when life hits hard.

How leaders can create environments where toughness includes transparency.

Capt Alex also shares insights from current research and key readings, including:

📘 The End of Trauma by George A. Bonanno

📄 Nature Human Behaviour: Resilience and Recovery After Stress

Whether you’re an Airman in the arena or a leader guiding others through it, this episode is about staying mission-ready: mind, body, and spirit.

🦅 🦬 Be the Buffalo. Face the Storm. Hard to Kill.

What if more mental health providers never show up?

I’m not saying we don’t need them; we absolutely do. But what if they just… don’t due to lack of resources?

In this episode of The Informed Airman, we talk about facing that reality head-on: how to stop waiting for a rescue that might never arrive and start preparing yourself, and your tribe, for the storm that’s already here.

This isn’t about toughness for toughness’ sake. It’s about ownership. About building your tribe before the fight, not during it. About forming the kind of bonds, discipline, and trust that keep you in the fight long after the first punch lands.

Because resilience isn’t built in PowerPoints or programs, it’s built in people.

So don’t wait for help to show up. Be the help. Build your tribe. Face the fight.

Stay strong. Stay connected. Stay Hard to Kill.

Fam,

Y’all know the deal, no music, no fluff, straight to the point like we always do! This is a GREAT one that everyone can take valuable insight from and be better because she was willing to share her JET (Judgement, Experience, and Training)!

“The Backbone Speaks” with TSgt Calvert

Being an NCO isn’t for the faint of heart. It’s a calling that comes with opportunity, responsibility, pressure, and reward, all at once.

TSgt Calvert takes you behind the stripes to talk about what it really means to wear them…

➡️ Leading when it’s hard.

➡️ Balancing the mission and the people.

➡️ Owning the standard, even when no one’s watching.

➡️ And remembering why it’s worth it, every single day.

💡 Whether you’re a brand-new Staff Sergeant or a seasoned Technical Sergeant, this one will hit home.

🔥 Tune in, reflect, and remember why we lead from the front.

🎧 Listen now on your favorite platform.

#BeTheBuffalo #TheBackboneSpeaks #NCOCharge #Leadership #AirForce #HardToKill #EarnItEveryDay #WarfighterMindset

There’s a lot of noise out there about standards, which ones matter, which ones don’t, and whether leadership really

supports those who enforce them.

Here’s the truth: Every standard matters.

Some may not seem directly tied to launching aircraft, securing networks, or defending the base, but every single one

reinforces the discipline, trust, and professionalism that make the mission possible. Uniform appearance, customs and

courtesies, on-time reports, none of those tasks win wars alone, but they form the foundation of how we fight. If we get

comfortable skipping “the small stuff,” the cracks spread into bigger things that eventually do cost readiness and

credibility.

We are members of the Profession of Arms. That title carries weight. It means we live by standards that may not always

make sense to outsiders, but they exist to preserve something greater than convenience, they preserve trust. When we

signed up, we accepted a covenant with our nation and each other. Our Core Values: Integrity First, Service Before Self,

and Excellence in All We Do, aren’t slogans; they’re the spine of every standard we uphold.

I get it, some standards feel disconnected from the mission at first glance; but that’s where leaders step in. It’s our

responsibility to bridge that gap for all our Airmen, to explain the “why,” to connect the dots between discipline today

and mission success tomorrow. When we do that, standards become less about control and more about commitment. If

we walk past a problem, we don’t just accept it, we rewrite the standard. And that new standard is unacceptable.

Leadership is about being kind, not nice. Nice ignores problems. Kind steps in, corrects with respect, and develops

people in the process.

So, I’m calling on every Airman: Uphold the standard, teach the standard, and support those doing it right. Leaders are

the calm in the storm, the professional presence that reminds your formation, this is what right looks like.

Tactical Takeaway:

Every standard exists for a reason. Connect the “why,” enforce with dignity, and model what it means to be a

professional Airman every day.

Focus This Week:

• ​ Re-examine one standard your team overlooks, connect it to core values and mission impact.
• ​ Set up some time (Airman’s time) to coach on how to provide feedback (good ref: the SBI).
• ​ Mentor one Airman on why discipline in small things matters.
• ​ Publicly reinforce someone modeling high standards.
• ​ Be the calm in the storm: the example others follow when the easy choice would be to look away.

Don’t Wait, LEAD Your Team Through the Storm!

More Resources Here:

https://linktr.ee/theinformedairman

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1I2faP_RRPd7Yh3MwUsWCWVZbdfgHkBvk/view?usp=drivesdk

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🛻 From the Cab — Real Talk:

What’s up, fam. Sitting here in the truck, and I just felt like I needed to say this… There’s a lot going on right now. Life, the mission, the uncertainty, and it can all pile up fast. But listen… this is not the time to go silent.

If you’re feeling the weight, financial stress, burnout, or just that invisible load we all carry; please don’t wait for someone to come find you. Raise your hand. Reach out. Talk to somebody. You owe that to yourself and to the ones who love you.

You didn’t create the chaos, but you can fight through it. And you’re not alone in this fight, not now, not ever. We take care of our own.

So yeah, it’s tough, but we’ll get through this together. We always do.

Keep it real. Stay grounded. Stay Hard to Kill.

#HardToKill #WarhawkMindset #Resilience #OneTeamOneFight #KeepItReal #BuffaloMindset

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