In this episode of Recovery for the Narcissist, Dr. Eric Perry examines the deep emotional patterns that shape our reactions during moments of stress, conflict, and relational rupture. This episode explores the Victim Triangle and the foundations of Transactional Analysis, revealing how old childhood survival roles continue to shape our adult relationships in ways we often do not recognize.

Dr. Perry explains how the three roles of the Drama Triangle—Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor—emerge not from weakness or malice, but from early attempts to feel safe, valued, and emotionally connected. He explores how these roles become automatic responses in adulthood, especially in relationships marked by emotional imbalance or narcissistic dynamics, and how they keep both partners stuck in cycles of misunderstanding and emotional defensiveness.

Listeners will learn about:

• The origins of the Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor roles
• How Transactional Analysis shapes communication patterns
• Why familiar emotional roles feel like “home,” even when painful
• How these roles operate in narcissistic relationships
• The Empowerment Triangle: Creator, Coach, and Challenger
• How to shift from reactive patterns into conscious, grounded connection

Dr. Perry offers a compassionate and emotionally grounded perspective for those who find themselves repeating the same arguments, feeling emotionally hijacked, or trapped in roles they no longer want to play. Whether you identify with narcissistic traits or have struggled to maintain connection in difficult relationships, this episode provides clarity, language, and gentle guidance for stepping out of survival patterns and back into presence.

Tune in to understand how awareness, emotional honesty, and grounded self-connection can transform old relational scripts. Healing begins not by perfecting your behavior, but by recognizing the roles you were once forced to play—and remembering that you no longer have to live inside them.

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Empathy Awakening Workshop: https://drericperry.com/empathyawakening

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