In this episode of The Gentle Growth Podcast, Raine unpacks the weight of “shoulds”—the quiet (and not-so-quiet) pressures that shape how we think we’re supposed to live. From cultural and family expectations to the internal voice that says “you should be doing more,” Raine explores how these patterns can quietly pull us away from our own truth.

Through her own stories—like navigating the pressure of the 9–5 path, wellness “shoulds,” and even big life decisions like moving to San Diego—Raine shows how these voices create doubt, guilt, and disconnection. You’ll learn how to recognize when you’re living by others’ expectations instead of your own, why it’s okay to disappoint people in order to honor yourself, and how to reframe “shoulds” into “wants” that feel aligned and empowering.

With practical tools like a “should inventory,” journaling prompts, affirmations, and visualization practices, this episode invites you to step back into your role as the expert of your own life. Remember: alignment is peace, and you are allowed to trust your own intuition—even if it goes against the grain.

What You’ll Take Away

• “Shoulds” can come from inside you or from others.
• Self-awareness is key to noticing whose voice you’re really listening to.
• Reframing “shoulds” into “wants” opens the door to freedom and fulfillment.
• You’re allowed to choose authenticity over approval.
• Gentle practices—like affirmations and inventories—can reinforce your autonomy.

Tune in if you’re ready to release the weight of expectation and live from your own voice.

✨ If today’s episode spoke to you and you’re ready to feel more consistent and confident in your plant-based lifestyle, I’d love to support you.

My coaching is built for busy vegans & vegetarians who feel overwhelmed or inconsistent. Inside my 8-week Fully Rooted Foundations program, I help you move from “trying” to truly confident with simple strategies, mindset tools, and real accountability between sessions.

Most of my clients start out unsure of how to stay on track — especially in social settings, family gatherings, or when life gets busy. Over time, they not only feel more grounded in their routines but also more confident, energized, and aligned with their values.

This is a judgment-free space. If you’re ready to stay consistent without stress or guilt, and finally feel rooted in routines that last, you don’t have to do it alone.

🌿 Book a free clarity call here: gentlegrowthwellness.com/coaching

We’ll explore where you’re at, what you’re struggling with, and whether my coaching is the right fit for your next chapter.

Let’s grow — fully rooted, and on purpose.

Have you ever felt like if you can’t do something perfectly, you may as well not do it at all?

That’s the all-or-nothing mindset talking—and in today’s episode, we’re unraveling how it sneaks into our wellness goals, movement routines, mindset shifts, and even lifestyle choices like veganism.

I’ll share how perfectionism used to shape my habits (and my identity), and what finally helped me start showing up without all the pressure to “get it right.”

You’ll hear:

• Why perfectionism often leads to burnout, shame, and inaction
• The deeper psychology behind all-or-nothing thinking
• What it means to take imperfect action—and be proud of it
• Simple mindset shifts and daily practices to move forward with grace

Whether you’ve fallen off a routine, doubted your progress, or felt stuck in a cycle of starting over—this is your reminder: You don’t have to be perfect to grow. You just have to be willing.

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Resources mentioned in this episode:

• gentlegrowthwellness.com
• Let’s connect on Instagram: @gentlegrowthwellness

If today’s episode spoke to you and you’re ready to create real change — not just in your habits, but in how you feel day-to-day — I’d love to support you.

My coaching is built around personalized accountability, emotional wellness, and sustainable growth. Most of my clients come to me feeling scattered or stuck — and over time, they start showing up with more clarity, confidence, and follow-through than ever before. Together, we build simple routines, strengthen mindset, and work through the mental roadblocks that have been holding you back.

This is a non-judgmental space. Whether you’re working on setting boundaries, building consistency, or just learning how to prioritize yourself without guilt — you don’t have to do it alone.

Book a free clarity call using this link: https://www.gentlegrowthwellness.com/coaching

We’ll talk about what’s going on, what support might look like, and whether coaching together is the right fit for you.

Let’s grow — gently, and on purpose.

In this powerful and affirming episode of The Gentle Growth Podcast, Raine explores the transformative truth behind boundaries: they’re not just an act of self-care — they’re an act of self-respect. Whether you're just starting to explore boundary-setting or refining them in your relationships, this episode offers a grounded, compassionate take on why they matter so much.

Drawing from her own journey as a recovering people-pleaser, Raine invites you into a candid conversation about what it actually means to honor your time, energy, and values — even when it feels uncomfortable. She shares how boundaries have helped her feel more confident and aligned, and why so many of us fear setting them in the first place.

This episode isn’t about cutting people off — it’s about learning to open and close the doors of your life intentionally, rather than out of guilt or fear. Raine offers a mix of mindset shifts, gentle motivation, and practical strategies you can start using today.

Here’s what you’ll hear:

00:00 – The Importance of Setting Boundaries
Why boundaries aren’t selfish — they’re foundational. A lack of them can lead to resentment, burnout, and disconnection from your true self.

06:25 – Boundaries as a Sign of Confidence
Confidence comes from knowing what’s okay and what’s not. Learn how boundaries reflect emotional maturity and self-worth.

09:19 – Myths Surrounding Boundaries
Raine unpacks the myth that boundaries push people away, and shows how they actually build trust and safety in relationships.

12:40 – Practical Examples of Boundaries
From saying no to last-minute plans to expressing needs without overexplaining — these everyday examples show what healthy boundaries look like.

16:30 – How to Start Setting Boundaries
You don’t have to change everything at once. Raine encourages starting small, using “I” language, and building self-trust step by step.

Takeaways from this episode:

• Boundaries are doors, not walls — they invite intentional connection.
• People-pleasing can lead to burnout and resentment.
• Boundaries are an invitation to trust, not a threat to love.
• Saying no can be more respectful than a guilt-driven yes.
• Communicating your needs clearly can deepen relationships.
• Self-trust is magnetic — and boundaries help build it.

If you’re ready to stop shrinking to keep the peace and start setting standards that reflect your worth, this episode is your loving permission slip.

Protecting your peace isn’t selfish — it’s sacred. And setting boundaries? That’s sexy.

Listen in and take the next step toward growing gently, boldly, and with your whole heart. You deserve to take up space.

If today’s episode spoke to you and you’re ready to create real change — not just in your habits, but in how you feel day-to-day — I’d love to support you.

My coaching is built around personalized accountability, emotional wellness, and sustainable growth. Most of my clients come to me feeling scattered or stuck — and over time, they start showing up with more clarity, confidence, and follow-through than ever before. Together, we build simple routines, strengthen mindset, and work through the mental roadblocks that have been holding you back.

This is a non-judgmental space. Whether you’re working on setting boundaries, building consistency, or just learning how to prioritize yourself without guilt — you don’t have to do it alone.

Book a free clarity call using this link: https://www.gentlegrowthwellness.com/coaching

We’ll talk about what’s going on, what support might look like, and whether coaching together is the right fit for you.

Let’s grow — gently, and on purpose.