There's a particular kind of longing that hits in midlife—not for more friends exactly, but for a friend nearby. Someone whose door you can walk to. Someone who knows your life because she's actually in it.

My neighbor Marcy Yeager sent me a text she rewrote 800 times—and what followed was one of those rare friendships that sneaks up on you. We talk about how cul‑de‑sac Halloweens and carpooling turned into deep friendship, what it means to have someone in the foxhole of raising a teenage girl with you, and the quiet magic of friends down the street.

Marcy is a CliftonStrengths coach who can spot your superpower—and your kryptonite—in about five minutes. We get into what your wiring reveals about friendship chemistry, why she modeled her entire approach to showing up after watching her mom, and what happens to a neighborhood friendship when the kids grow up and you realize you're not making plans around them anymore.

We also talk about bringing back the afternoon pop‑over, the magic of a door that's always unlocked, and why sometimes the bravest thing you can do is text the person down the street and say: do you want to be friends?

This episode is for anyone who has ever wanted a friend nearby. And for anyone who has been rewriting that brave little text for way too long.

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