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  • There Are No Rules - Michael Dalton
    2025/12/16

    In this episode of the Fathers Guild podcast, Pat Barber sits down with Michael Dalton, a multifaceted creative and father. They explore Michael's journey from a kid to a successful videographer, discussing the emotional depth in his work, the impact of losing his father, and the challenges of parenthood. The conversation delves into the importance of not giving up on creative pursuits, understanding emotions like anger and sadness, and the role of counseling in personal growth. Michael shares his philosophy on joy, creativity, and the necessity of being present in the moment, all while navigating the complexities of life and fatherhood.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Michael Dalton 02:57 The Journey to Coolness 05:56 Exploring Depth and Emotion in Art 08:53 Breaking Free from Religious Constraints 11:54 The Impact of Loss and Grief 14:56 Fatherhood and Legacy 18:00 The Journey to Parenthood 20:47 Navigating Parenting Challenges 23:50 Emotional Intelligence in Parenting 28:45 Navigating Big Emotions 31:57 The Complexity of Anger 36:29 Understanding Offense and Anger 42:15 Finding Joy in Discipline 47:41 Breaking Free from Rules 50:43 Perseverance in Creative Endeavors

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    58 分
  • Don't Bubble Wrap Your Kids - Erich Leidums
    2025/11/22

    In this episode of the Fathers Guild podcast, Pat Barber interviews Eric Leidums, an unschooling father of three who embraces RV living and homesteading. They discuss Eric's journey from a traditional upbringing to a lifestyle centered around adventure, nature, and family. The conversation delves into the importance of fatherhood, the impact of marriage on personal growth, and the philosophy of unschooling. Eric shares insights on encouraging risky play in children, the balance of luck and choice in life, and the evolution of his social media presence through That Mountain Life. The episode concludes with a powerful message about taking action and embracing imperfection in parenting and life.

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    55 分
  • Turning Guilt Into Peace - Sharif Colbert
    2025/11/15

    In this conversation, Sharif Colbert discusses his journey towards emotional intelligence and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of therapy and the impact of family feedback on self-reflection. He shares how his children's honesty prompted him to confront his emotional reactions and work on his temper.

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    54 分
  • Building a place for fathers who want to leave fatherhood with no regrets
    2025/11/15

    In this episode of The Fathers Guild podcast, hosts Pat Barber and Rory Tolland introduce their mission to create a supportive community for fathers. They share personal stories and insights into the challenges and joys of fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of community and personal growth.

    Key Points:

    - Introduction to The Fathers Guild podcast and its mission.

    - Meet the hosts: Pat Barber and Rory Tolland. Discussion on the dynamics of modern fatherhood.

    - The concept of being "harder to kill and easier to love."

    - Plans for future episodes and the fatherhood quiz.

    Subscribe to our channel for more episodes and join us on this journey of fatherhood. Don't forget to like, comment, and share your thoughts!

    Hashtags: #Fatherhood #Community #TheFathersGuild #Podcast

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  • Are you a father who can say yes to life?
    2025/10/07
    saying yes to life, personal growth, emotional freedom, financial health, parenting challenges, work-life balance, humor in parenting, self-reflection, capability, duality of man Takeaways
    • Fitness should enable you to say yes to life.
    • Apply the principle of saying yes to all areas of life.
    • Financial stability affects your ability to say yes.
    • Emotional stability is crucial for saying yes to life.
    • Effective communication is key in relationships.
    • Mental health impacts your capacity to say yes.
    • Parenting requires adaptability to each child's needs.
    • Humor can be a tool for deeper conversations.
    • Guilt is a price paid for misalignment with values.
    • Personal growth involves understanding and navigating life's ebbs and flows.
    Summary In this conversation, Pat Barber and Rory Tolland explore the concept of 'saying yes to life' as a guiding principle for personal growth and fulfillment. They discuss how this principle can be applied across various aspects of life, including fitness, finances, emotional stability, and parenting. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of capability, effective communication, and the balance between work and personal life. They also delve into the role of humor in navigating serious topics and the impact of guilt on self-reflection and personal growth. Ultimately, the conversation encourages listeners to embrace life's opportunities and challenges with an open heart and mind.Titles
    • Saying Yes to Life: A New Perspective
    • Exploring the Freedom to Say Yes
    Sound Bites
    • "Can you say yes to life?"
    • "I want to be able to do everything."
    • "The freedom to say yes is freeing."
    Chapters 00:00Saying Yes to Life: The Fitness Perspective 02:49Expanding the Concept: Finances and Emotional Stability 05:54Relationships and Communication: Saying Yes in Personal Life 08:46Work and Autonomy: The Freedom to Say Yes 11:39The Balance of Sacrifice: Freedom vs. Responsibility 14:33Getting Busy Living: Intentionality in Daily Life 17:18Physical and Mental Health: The Foundation of Capability 20:26Honesty and Self-Reflection: The Path to Growth 29:58Understanding Guilt and Personal Values 33:53The Importance of Connection in Fatherhood 38:17Navigating Different Parenting Styles 43:16The Role of Humor in Parenting 50:42Balancing Depth and Humor in Conversations
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    53 分
  • Navigating Fatherhood in the Modern Age
    2025/09/10
    In this episode of the Father's Guild podcast, hosts Pat Barber and Rory Tolland delve into the complexities of fatherhood, content creation, and the impact of social media on personal relationships. They share their experiences and insights on navigating the challenges of modern parenting, the importance of communication and intimacy in relationships, and the need for mental space to foster personal growth. The conversation also highlights the significance of retreats for fathers, providing a space for reflection and rejuvenation. Overall, the episode emphasizes the journey of fatherhood and the continuous effort required to balance work, family, and personal well-being. titles

    Key Episod Points:

    • The only way to get good at anything is by doing it.
    • Consistency in content creation leads to improvement.
    • Social media has shifted from personal connections to algorithm-driven content.
    • Good content should provoke thought and reflection.
    • Intimacy and communication are crucial in relationships.
    • Financial pressures can impact family dynamics.
    • Creating mental space is essential for personal growth.
    • Retreats can provide clarity and reset for fathers.
    • It's important to prioritize health and well-being to be present for family.
    • Understanding one's emotional triggers can lead to better relationships.
    Chapters 00:00Introduction to the Father's Guild Podcast 02:53The Journey of Content Creation 06:01The Evolution of Social Media 08:40Authenticity in Content Creation 11:26Fatherhood Credentials and Personal Background 17:25The Dynamics of Relationships 20:30Work-Life Balance and Current Struggles 25:29Navigating Financial Pressures and Moral Integrity 26:47The Balancing Act of Work and Family Life 28:55Struggles of Transitioning from Work to Family Time 31:25Understanding the Hedonic Set Point and Its Implications 42:55Creating Space for Personal Growth and Reflection 47:59The Importance of Reducing Complexity in Life
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    50 分