What happens when a childhood love for gaming meets a nation full of untapped potential?

Enter Kwesi Hayford.

In this heartfelt and powerful episode, Kim Meltzer - the Esports Mom - sits down with her "esports son" to reveal a story of grit, purpose, and global ambition.

From growing up in a family compound in Ghana to building professional teams, uplifting girls through gaming, and creating a grassroots movement that fuses education, creativity, and competition - Kwesi is redefining what esports can be.

This isn’t just about games. It’s about legacy. It’s about changing lives. And it’s about building a future where every child - no matter where they’re born - has a shot at greatness.

Listen now - and follow the movement on Instagram: @esportsmompodcast

• Gaming as a Tool for Education: Kwesi teaches "game sense" to his kids and others - using video games to build skills in logic, navigation, discipline, and storytelling.
• Family First, Always: Whether it’s his own four children or the hundreds he mentors, Kwesi brings a father’s heart into esports.
• Local Roots, Global Reach: From Accra to international tournaments, Kwesi is putting Ghanaian esports on the global map.
• Girls in Gaming: The Queens Africa Esports Club is changing lives - giving underserved girls access to education, tech skills, and community.
• Read to Play & Flight for Kids: Kwesi’s programs use games to ignite literacy, STEM curiosity, and even dreams of becoming pilots.
• Infrastructure Dreams: A mobile esports lab. A repurposed library. A museum. Kwesi is building futures, not just tournaments.
• Professionalism with Purpose: With Ghana’s Esports League, players become pros - and creators, shoutcasters, and tech leaders are born.

1. [00:00] – Welcome to the Show: Kim introduces Kwesi, her "esports son"
2. [01:12] – Kwesi’s Origin Story: Video games, identity, and purpose
3. [05:38] – Growing Up in Ghana: Culture, community, and family values
4. [09:01] – Meet the Family: Four kids, one gaming household
5. [13:55] – From Fun to Foundation: How gaming turned professional
6. [18:15] – Ghana Esports League: 16 teams, big vision
7. [20:23] – Community Power: Building partnerships and leadership
8. [26:52] – What Ghana Needs: Education over equipment
9. [31:22] – Exposure is Everything: Life lessons from travel and competition
10. [34:52] – Gaming is Human: Inclusion, integrity, and international bonds
11. [37:16] – Empowering Girls: The Queens Africa initiative
12. [41:09] – Projects Galore: Esports boxing, Read to Play, Flight for Kids
13. [47:15] – Academic vs Creative Kids: Customizing how kids learn
14. [53:19] – Three Paths: College, Pro, or Career in gaming
15. [56:34] – The Big Dream: A mobile esports + STEM hub
16. [59:17] – Final Blessings: Love, legacy, and what’s next

Follow the movement. Support the mission. Join the family: @esportsmompodcast Stay tuned for behind-the-scenes photos, tournament moments, and stories from Kwesi’s community.

Some moments change your life. For Kim Meltzer, landing in India for a college Valorant event wasn’t just a job - it was a wake-up call.

In this episode, Kim reconnects with EupHo, an Indian esports manager, influencer, and the guy who’s been quietly changing the game behind the scenes. What starts as a catch-up turns into a deep conversation about culture, pressure, failure, and what gamers really need to know before chasing the spotlight.

We’re not just talking about gameplay.

We’re talking about the grind that no one sees.

What it means to lead with both truth and heart.

And why the future of India’s esports scene isn’t just about the players - it’s about the people who raise them, shape them, and sometimes stand in their way.

If you’ve ever wanted to know what really happens behind the lights, the logos, and the livestreams, this one hits home.

Key Takeaways

• The difference between casual gaming and professional esports
• How life skills shape the success of competitive players
• Why influencers must speak honestly about the pressure and process
• How Indian culture intersects with the rise of esports
• The unseen emotional and logistical labor behind every team
• The growing importance of educating parents and educators about gaming

Chapter Markers 00:00 – Reuniting after India: memories and momentum 02:00 – The LAN that changed everything 05:23 – The reality of being a pro in India 08:21 – Why most players aren’t ready for the pressure 12:14 – Indian culture, family, and the challenge of choice 14:47 – What brands and fans don’t see behind the scenes 18:45 – Vlogging the truth: the rise of a different kind of creator 23:25 – Life skills, responsibility, and breaking generational patterns 27:45 – From rejection to pride: when parents start to understand 29:34 – The future of India’s esports movement

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Introductory Music by @masonmadethis

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EupHo’s Socials

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialeupho/?hl=en
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@OfficialEupHo/videos

She was just dropping in for an hour. Dinner plans on the calendar. Then Laura Boone stepped into an esports LAN with high schoolers... and never left.

What she saw changed everything. These weren’t just kids playing games. They were thinking, processing, adapting - in real time.

No hand-holding. No ego. Just raw ability.

In this episode, Kim and Laura dive deep into the minds behind the monitors.

Academic vs. creative.

Left brain vs. right brain.

Why some kids flounder in school but thrive in esports.

And why treating students like pros makes all the difference.

They explore failure, risk, and the misunderstood genius of the gamer brain. And how giving kids the right environment doesn't just unlock skill - it unlocks identity.

This isn’t just about video games. It’s about rewiring how we see the next generation.

Key Takeaways

• What Laura saw at a high school Rocket League LAN that completely shifted her view
• How traditional academics often miss the strengths of creative learners
• Why the esports environment helps students thrive where classrooms sometimes fail
• The difference between left-brain and right-brain learners - and why both matter
• How creating "brain-safe" spaces unlocks student identity and performance
• What educators and parents need to understand about how kids learn today

Chapter Markers

00:00 – Kim introduces Laura and the story begins 01:00 – Laura’s spontaneous decision to stay at the Rocket League event 03:00 – Treating kids like pros and watching them rise to the occasion 06:00 – Breaking down the academic vs. creative learning dilemma 09:00 – Kim’s story from India: the student stuck between both worlds 13:00 – Left brain, right brain, and the cost of misunderstanding 18:00 – How educators and parents can better connect with kids 25:00 – Kim's philosophy on failure, growth, and identity in esports 31:00 – A roadmap to life through gaming 36:00 – Closing thoughts and what’s coming next in the series

Want more stories behind the screens? Follow @esportsmompodcast on Instagram for exclusive clips, behind-the-scenes moments, and real talk from the people shaping the world of gaming.

You’ll see what the mainstream misses. Hit that follow. Join the fam.

Introductory Music by @masonmadethis

Big shoutout to masonmadethis for producing the introductory track for The Esports Mom Podcast. If you are a podcaster or artist in need of high-quality instrumentals, go follow him now!