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Katie’s story shows how trauma can repeat across generations when systems fail to protect children early — and how long-term support can change that outcome.

As a child, Katie experienced serious harm that went unaddressed. Years later, when her own child was hurt, she refused to let silence and fear take over. With advocacy and support from Children of the Night, Katie was able to protect her child and navigate an overwhelming moment that too many families face alone.

Katie first connected with Children of the Night as a teenager after experiencing exploitation and violence. Through education, stability, and continued support — even after setbacks — she found her way forward.

Today, Katie is a mother, a professional, and living proof that healing is possible when care doesn’t end at rescue. This episode explores how unhealed trauma often repeats itself — and how sustained, trauma-informed support can break the cycle for future generations.

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In Memory of Deborah Hardman A hero of the streets—and the daughter who survived the cost. Morgan Hardman speaks candidly with Dr. Lois Lee about a childhood shaped by chaos, trauma, and survival.

Raised in and out of alternative homes, Morgan confronts the painful realities of abuse, blurred boundaries, and learning far too early the difference between “good” and “bad” touch. She shares her journey toward forgiveness—recognizing how the dangerous men in her life mirrored the complexities of her relationship with her mother.

Morgan also reflects on being thrust into public roles at a young age, and the moment Dr. Lois Lee intervened to save her from a pimp attempting to traffic her in another city.

In this powerful conversation, Dr. Lee also introduces the Children of the Night Alumni Committee, which provides scholarships for alumni, their children, and future generations. Raw, unfiltered, and deeply human, this episode is a story of survival, reckoning, and the long road to healing.

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Dr. Lois Lee talks with Teri Weigel about LAPD missing the first opportunity to catch the Hillside Stranglers.

Teri, who lived next door to Kenneth Bianchi (one of the stranglers) shares her mom’s story of witnessing Kenneth Bianchi and his cousin Angleo Buono carry Kimberly Martin’s body, while she’s still alive, through the underground parking.

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Dr. Lois Lee speaks with Morgan Hardman about the life and legacy of her mother, Deborah Hardman—an unsung hero who played a critical role in helping investigators during the Hillside Strangler murders.

Working courageously on the streets, Deborah helped protect young women involved in prostitution and became a trusted source for KNBC News during one of Los Angeles’ most terrifying crime sprees.

In this conversation, Dr. Lee also reflects on her own involvement in the case, including uncovering early clues about how the Hillside Strangler targeted victims and identifying a location connected to the murder of Kimberly Martin, one of the many victims. She recounts a chilling moment when she reported a missing young woman during the murders—only to be dismissed by LAPD with the words, “She’s just a prostitute.”

This episode honors the bravery, persistence, and humanity of women who fought to save lives when others refused to see their worth.

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Doc came to Children of the Night at 16 years old. A gay teen and survivor of sexual abuse in the 1990s, he had already endured violence, rejection, and instability while trying to survive on the streets of Los Angeles.

Before finding Children of the Night, Doc lived in state-funded shelters where he faced anti-gay violence from other youth. He describes how any misstep—substance use, conflict, or rule-breaking—meant being immediately expelled, with no path back. With nowhere safe to go, he prostituted to survive.

Doc shares a moment that stayed with him for decades: arriving at Children of the Night in the only clothes he owned—soiled after fleeing violence and a hotel plumbing failure. Expecting judgment or dismissal, he instead received new clothing, toiletries, a private room, and a warm shower. Later that night, he found his original clothes freshly laundered and folded on his bed.

That moment represented something he had rarely experienced before: dignity.

In this episode, Doc reflects on how Children of the Night’s privately funded model allowed staff to offer second, third, and fourth chances—meeting youth where they were and showing them they mattered. Now nearing 50, Doc shares that he knows if he reached out today, Children of the Night would still show up for him.

Because once a child enters their care, they are always Dr. Lois Lee’s children.

Episode Highlights

• Coming to Children of the Night at 16
• Surviving anti-gay violence in state shelters
• Why state-funded shelters often allow only one chance
• The power of dignity in moments of crisis
• How private donations made long-term care possible
• Knowing support doesn’t expire—even decades later

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In this episode, Dayjah reflects candidly on how early childhood abuse shaped her adult relationships—and how long it took to recognize the pattern.

When Dr. Lois Lee tells Dayjah, “your picker is broken,” the moment opens a deeper conversation about why people who experience early harm are often drawn to unhealthy relationships again and again. Dayjah shares that both of her children’s fathers were dishonest or worse, and how she now wishes she had listened more closely to the guidance of her parents.

Today, Dayjah is taking a break from dating. As she explains, many of the men she has encountered have been dishonest, unfaithful, or abusive—and she recognizes that healing must come before choosing differently.

Dr. Lois Lee emphasizes that early abuse impacts adult decision-making in profound ways, and that changing these patterns requires time, self-reflection, and long-term healing. This episode offers an honest, relatable discussion about trauma, boundaries, and the work it takes to build healthier futures.

Episode Highlights

“Your picker is broken” — and what that really means

How early abuse influences adult relationship choices

Reflecting on parental guidance and missed warnings

Choosing to pause dating to focus on healing

Why breaking patterns takes years, not quick fixes

How self-awareness is the first step toward change

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